Will people who are reluctant to eat and wear all their lives live well?

There are always people who say that they should be frugal, and many people think that living is for enjoyment, and they are reluctant to eat and wear all their lives. So if you don't enjoy it, will you be happy? Let's talk about people who are reluctant to eat and wear all their lives. Are they happy in the end?

My aunt's family is very poor I remember when I was a child, their family really didn't have any furniture. My cousin comes to my house to watch TV in the evening. My aunt often comes to use my sewing machine. Maybe it's because I'm used to suffering! Later, my uncle began to do some work by himself, playing furniture for people and earning some money, but my aunt was still so frugal that she was unwilling to buy anything.

My cousin's poor academic performance as a child didn't worry menstruation, but after she went to high school, she seemed to be a different person and studied really hard. Later my cousin told me that he said his mother was too bitter. That day, he saw his mother wiping the bottom of the pot with steamed bread and ate it as a meal without taking another bite. I also feel particularly distressed to hear this. My aunt is reluctant to eat. After all, there are children at home and there are not many dishes. If I take a bite myself, the children will eat less.

My cousin succeeded in his studies and stayed in a big city. At that time, he also had a girlfriend. My girlfriend hopes to buy a house and get married as soon as possible. At that time, my cousin was a little depressed and felt that the house price was too expensive to afford. My aunt was so happy when she heard that her son had a girlfriend that she immediately asked to meet his girlfriend. The house thing made my cousin very frustrated, but what he didn't expect was that my aunt actually took out her savings for many years, and there were hundreds of thousands!

Aunt bought a wedding room for Xiao San, but she was reluctant to buy food. She is 67 years old and is still busy farming. In my opinion, her life is particularly bitter, but she said she was really happy in this life. The husband is hardworking, but the son is disappointing. Now that she has a beautiful daughter-in-law, she feels very happy.

Only then did I understand that everyone has a different understanding of the meaning of life. Some people think that eating and dressing well is happiness, while others think that watching the people they love live a happy life is happiness.