The longer you live, the more you return

People often hope that their quality of life will get better and better throughout their lives, and it will be better if they can compare it with before. But I find that I am getting better and better now. Since I got married, my quality of life has plummeted in all aspects. No matter what, this is the path I have chosen, so I have to grit my teeth and persevere no matter how hard it is. Many things need to be shouldered by myself. Can't count on others. Some things in life have taught me a lot of lessons, and I also deeply understand the truth that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. The more you expect from others, the more you rely on others. One day you find that you can't get what you expected before, and you feel hopeless and helpless. It is better to put all hope in your own hands and let yourself have the autonomy to choose freely. Such expectations are traceable and will not put yourself in an endless loop. ?

Maybe it’s just that I have recognized a lot of people and things now, so when I do many things, I no longer think about the same as before, running around like a headless fly. Now I have to go through everything. Use your brain to deal with the best way to get along, so that you will not fall into a panic and rush situation. You will regard some people as very important people in your life, but in fact, in the eyes of some people, you are just a person walking with them, and they have other people they consider more important. It took me more than ten years to realize this. It took me emotional training to understand some things.

Human life is actually quite short. If you always live for others and completely lose your own life, then your life in this world is really wasted. So be yourself carefully and don’t always think about others. I hope that I can work harder towards the goal I long for, so that my quality of life will not plummet, so that I can slowly improve my quality of life and live a more refined life. Because we are no worse than others, there is no need to envy others and underestimate ourselves.