I gave my grandmother 800 yuan for her birthday, but my mother-in-law forced me to divorce because of this. How should I solve it?

My husband and I are college classmates and have a good relationship. As soon as we got a job after graduating from college, we took each other home to meet our parents. I am the only child in my family, so my parents also hope that I can get married well. My parents were satisfied with her when they saw her husband, but they were hesitant about his family. Husband is also the only child in the family, but there are grandparents at home, but living in the country, parents feel that his family is a bit heavy.

But seeing that my husband is kind to me, I want to forget it. My children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and nothing can figure it out for me. My parents finally agreed to our marriage, and my in-laws were fine at first, but as soon as my parents met, they felt that my mother-in-law was really cunning. They paid a hundred thousand bride price. She just said that if we got married and bought a house outside, they wouldn't pay a penny. The house has nothing to do with them. If the money can't be paid, my mother-in-law will pay it.

My husband and I bought a house with a loan before we got married. We already have a job, so it's not difficult to pay off the mortgage. At most, we have to work hard. After we got married, my husband and I have been busy with work, and we don't have much time to go back and visit our in-laws. What's more, my relationship with my mother-in-law is not so good, and my husband doesn't want me to have any contradictions with her. My husband and I went to the countryside to see grandma, and my grandparents were very nice. People in their seventies and eighties are still in good health.

Grandma and I talked a lot. My husband said that grandma likes me very much, and I also like chatting with grandma. At that time, we lived in the country for three days and ate vegetables grown by our grandparents every day. They were organic and delicious. Grandma asked us to bring some back when we left. After that, I told my husband that we would go back to see our grandparents as long as we had time, and he agreed, but her mother-in-law was not happy when she knew we were going to see her. Later, every time my husband and I went back to see my in-laws, my husband always told me to buy more things, otherwise my mother-in-law would have any excuse to say that we were unfilial. Every time I go shopping, my mother-in-law is very happy, but she just says that you save some money and don't go anywhere.

Not long ago, my grandmother celebrated her eightieth birthday, and my husband didn't go because of temporary overtime. I went back with my parents-in-law Before going, my parents told my grandmother that we should buy more things for our eightieth birthday. Whatever you give him, the old man is very happy. I also know that my grandmother is usually very kind to me, even if my mother doesn't say anything. My husband bought everything for my grandparents in the supermarket that day. I was very happy when I arrived at my grandmother.

She asked me why my husband didn't come back. I told her that he was busy at work and we really couldn't help it. We will come back to see her when we have time. Although the old man said that work was still important, he still hoped that his grandson would come to see him. My husband said that when I was a child, my grandmother loved my husband the most, and my father-in-law had three brothers. Only my father-in-law had a job and a house in the city, and both uncles worked outside. On that day, my grandmother's 80th birthday family almost came.

While we were eating, my mobile phone suddenly shook. As soon as I saw it was my husband's phone, I answered it immediately. After a few words, my husband asked me to give it to grandma. Grandma is very happy to hear my husband's phone call. It was almost half an hour before my grandmother was willing to return my mobile phone. Give my husband a red envelope when he lets me go. I told him I was ready. My husband hung up the phone and my father-in-law drove back after dinner.

When we left, I gave my grandmother 800 yuan. I was going to buy a suit for her and grandpa, but I didn't have time at ordinary times, so I gave my grandmother 800 yuan to let her and grandpa buy what they like. If they like something, we will come back to see her when we have time. My grandmother didn't want my money, and my father-in-law said the child took it. At that time, I saw my mother-in-law looking unhappy.

On the way back, my mother-in-law didn't say a word to me, so I kept playing with my mobile phone. That night, my husband came to meet me at my mother-in-law's house. We were about to leave when our mother-in-law suddenly stopped us. The husband asked her what happened, and her mother-in-law looked at us angrily: "What happened? You have a lot of money, right? I've never seen you give me so much money before. Why didn't you give me money on my birthday? You were very generous on your grandmother's birthday. The husband recognized her mother-in-law's meaning: "What about you, Mom? We didn't give you any money for your birthday, but I bought you at least five or six hundred clothes. Why didn't you say this? My grandmother is old, so it's no use giving her some money. Besides, Xiao Qiang gave the money himself, but someone else gave it to him. "

"What, you two didn't shoot together?" "Yes, I bought something. Xiaoqiang originally wanted to buy a suit for his grandparents, but he had no time and had to take money. " When my husband finished talking with her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law immediately said to me, "You are very concerned about your grandmother. Why not give me so much money? I think you just don't want to honor me. " I really don't want to say anything when I see my mother-in-law: "Mom, it's not easy for them in the village, and this money is nothing. This is not right. "

My mother-in-law suddenly said that I didn't have a tutor, and a daughter-in-law like me shouldn't marry in the door and dare to talk back to her mother-in-law. She has no filial piety at all. Later, as soon as she talked about money, her husband and her mother-in-law forced us to divorce, saying that I would not think about her husband. How can grandma spend so much money in her hometown? Maybe she sent it to an uncle. She also said that if her husband didn't divorce me, she would break up with him.