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Four Secrets of Life: Love Wealth, Health and Happiness

The best and most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or touched ...... they can only be felt by the heart.

part I: secrets about love

secrets 1. the power of thought

love begins with our thoughts. We can be what we want. The thought of love creates the experience of love and the relationship of love. "Solemn statement" can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. Love a person, you must not consider his needs and hopes.

secret 2. the power of respect

you can't love until you know how to respect. The first person you must respect is yourself. The first step to gain self-esteem is to ask yourself: What do I deserve to respect?

how to respect others, especially those you don't like? The way is to ask yourself: What do they have that deserves my respect?

secret 3. the power of giving

if you want to be loved, you should give it first. The more you give, the more you will get.

love is your own contribution of hydrogen, voluntarily and without any conditions.

practice love without asking for it. Before committing to a relationship, ask yourself what you can give each other, not just what others can give you.

happy and long life. The secret prescription of love is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can get.

secret 4. the power of friendship

to find true love, you must first find friendship. Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but two people looking out in the same direction together. To truly and completely love a person, you must love him, not his looks. Friendship is the land where the seeds of love grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship into it.

secret 5. the power of contact

contact is the most powerful expression of love, which can break down the barriers between people and connect them closely. Contact can heal the body and warm the heart. When you spread your arms, you also spread your heart.

secret 6. the power of giving up

if you love something, set it free. When it comes back to you, it is yours, otherwise, it is not yours. Even in a stable love relationship, people need each other's space. If we want to learn to love, the first thing we need to learn is to forgive, and let go of all the past injuries and grievances. Love is giving up one's own fears, prejudices, egos and limitations.

secret 7. the power of communication

when we learn to communicate openly and sincerely, our lives change accordingly. To love someone is to communicate with him. Let the people you love know that you love them and you appreciate them. Never be afraid to say these three wonderful words: I love you!

never give up an opportunity to praise others. Always leave love words for the people you love-it may be the last time you see them. If you were going to die and you could make a phone call, who would you like to call? What would you say? ..... and what are you waiting for?

secret eight, the power of commitment

if you want to get endless love, you must make a commitment to it, and this commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the test of true love. If you want to get a loving relationship, you must make a commitment to it. When you make a promise to someone or something, there is no chance to tell you to give up. Commitment can tell whether a relationship is fragile or strong.

secret 9. the power of passion

passion ignites love and makes it immortal. Enduring enthusiasm comes not only from physical attraction, but from deep commitment, care, interest and excitement. You have had passionate experiences in the past, and you can re-create new enthusiasm. Surprise or heartfelt words and deeds can create enthusiasm. The essence of love and happiness is the same. All we have to do is to live enthusiastically every day.

Secret X. The Power of Trust

Trust is the basic element of a loving relationship. Without trust, people will become suspicious, nervous and afraid; The other side will feel trapped and suffocated emotionally. You can't love others completely unless you trust them completely. Show that your loving relationship with your partner will never end. The way to determine whether someone is the best person for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely? Never regret it? " If the answer is no, you need to think carefully before making a commitment.

excerpt highlights:

Ten secrets of love-creating love for your life

1. Choose the thought of love

2. Learn to respect yourself and others

3. Focus on what you can give, not what you can get

4. Find friends first

5. Hug people. Open your heart

6. Abandon fear, prejudice and criticism

7. Communicate your feelings with others

8. Promise-make love your first priority

9. Live enthusiastically

1. Trust others and yourself. Trust life

Ten secrets of love-how to recognize your partner in life

1. Does he (or she) have the characteristics of appearance, personality, intelligence and spirit that you need to have to be your ideal partner

2. Do you respect him (her)?

3. What can you do for him or her?

4. Is he (she) your best friend? Do you have the same goals, ideals, values and beliefs?

5. When you hug each other, do you feel like having each other?

6. Do you give each other space and freedom to grow and learn?

7. Can you communicate honestly and openly?

8. Are you committed to this relationship?

9. Do you feel strong enthusiasm for his (her) relationship with you? Does he (she) mean much to you?

1. Do you trust each other completely?

Ten secrets of love-how to bring love back to your relationship

1. Think about your partner's needs and desires as you think about yourself

2. Learn to respect yourself and your partner. Ask yourself: What do I have to respect? And what do I respect about my partner?

3. Think about what you should pay for this relationship, not what you should get from it

4. Make friends with your partner, find out the same interests and pursuits

5. Embrace and touch with affection, and spread your arms to your partner

6. Give up the past and forgive. Make a new start

7. Communicate your feelings openly and honestly

8. Commit this relationship to yourself. Put your partner first in your priorities

9. Re-create enthusiasm in the relationship

1. Learn to trust your partner, trust your relationship, and act as if it will never end.