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Is it really good that children are too smart and obedient?

Everything is too much. If children are too smart and sensible, it may not be a good thing.

Children are children, and children's nature is to love to play and play. They can be willful, coquettish, occasionally derailed and occasionally splashed with water. Because he is a child, he can be more free and will not be bound by many rules and regulations like an adult.

In the past, everyone liked sensible children, who would not disturb adults, understand adults and be considerate of adults.

However, with the development of the times, the concept of parenting has made progress. Now more and more parents are beginning to realize the importance of nature to a person. Now, if a child, especially smart and sensible, never gives trouble to adults, his parents will feel very uneasy and sad.

This is because children suffer too many things at this age, so they will be premature and sensible! This is at the expense of children's childhood happiness, and the impact on children will be lifelong.

Children who are too sensible are also prone to some psychological problems when they grow up. They are easy to be too tolerant and easy to live without themselves! Maybe the purpose of their life is to make others happy, and they will always come last!

Of course, it's good to think of others more. But if you blindly consider others and ignore yourself, it is easy for some people to form a likable personality. If his flattery doesn't achieve the expected effect, it may make them more sensitive and feel inferior. Even as a result, some people will have psychological problems such as anxiety and depression, and even go to the point of no return.

Therefore, children always have their own naive and naughty side. If they are too smart and sensible, it means that they have been neglected and suffered too much. As parents, we should give them more care and love!

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