Parents' love: Angie, she can't enjoy happiness for half her life without a woman.

Every woman who enters marriage can't escape the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Then, what kind of contradiction will Anjie, who was born in a rich family and grew up in a rich environment, experience after marrying poor and enterprising Jiang Defu?

In the TV series, Angie was not lucky enough to meet the contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, because when she married Jiang Defu, her mother-in-law had died. Jiang Defu has only one elder sister who has been widowed for a month.

So, what is her relationship with her sister-in-law?

The most classic scene in the play is probably that sister-in-law scolded Angie back to her family. An Jie, who always does whatever he wants in front of Jiang Defu, said to him privately, "I'm afraid of your sister."

Sister-in-law Jiang Dehua said to her neighbor, "I'm afraid of this sister-in-law."

Since we are afraid of each other, we have been in love and killing each other. Angie's blessing in the play once envied many people. But I have to say that Jiang Dehua, the little sister-in-law who bickered with her all day, contributed the most to her happiness.

See through their half-life love and killing each other, and truly understand the true meaning of marriage.

Jiang Defu took great pains to marry Angie, and naturally he took good care of him. Later, Angie got pregnant and couldn't move easily. She had to go to work and cook, so Jiang Defu talked with her about letting her sister Jiang Dehua take care of her.

I have to say that Angie has a woman's natural sensitivity in this matter. Although she used to be a pampered little princess in her parents' house and never experienced the baptism of a miserable life, a woman's intuition told her that this little sister-in-law could not come.

So she turned down Jiang Defu's proposal.

Until later, her body became heavier and heavier. Jiang Defu took the opportunity to play emotional cards in front of her and made some remarks before acting, which she reluctantly accepted.

But the meeting between menstruation and his sister-in-law was not so harmonious at first, and it was full of gunpowder.

Angie doesn't like that rural people don't pay attention to hygiene, so she managed to correct these problems in Jiang Defu. Here comes Jiang Dehua, a sister-in-law with the same sharp mouth.

Moreover, this sister-in-law is naturally sensitive. As long as Angie reacts a little, she will think that this is aimed at herself. More importantly, Jiang Defu still listens to Angie, but Jiang Dehua is stubborn and resists.

There are conflicts between the sisters in menstruation. The most classic scene in the play is that when Jiang Defu comes back from work, his sister will stop halfway to complain. When he got home, his wife dragged him into the bedroom to complain.

Jiang Defu was so angry that he filed a lawsuit against the two relatives every day.

But Jiang Defu's greatest advantage is that he doesn't care about his wife or sister, who he says is bad for him. He didn't stand on one side to help the other, which kept a balance at home.

In the friction of aunts, the days passed day by day. Jiang Dehua, who has nothing to say with her sister-in-law, always goes to Mrding's house across the street, and Xiue of Mrding's house is also from the countryside. They have something to say.

Jiang Dehua told Xiue everything in the family, and Xiue would give her advice from time to time, and then watch them fight among their aunts.

It's not that Xiue and Jiang Dehua are in a bad state of mind, but that their energy fields are similar. Both of them are from home, have no culture, and live in the military compound, and no one can talk. Angie is too lazy to chat with them anymore. So Jiang Dehua and Soo-e formed an alliance.

Soo-e always tells Jiang Dehua everything she hears. Once she told a story, but the contradiction between her aunts broke out completely.

When Jiang Defu married Angie, he missed the chance of promotion. This matter was kept in the dark by Jiang Defu and even Anji, but Mrding didn't mean to mention it by Xiang Xiu. She told Jiang Dehua the truth. Jiang Dehua exploded in an instant.

As a younger sister, she was angry to see her sister-in-law bullying her brother like that all day. When she heard that her brother had made such a sacrifice for her sister-in-law, she was even more wronged by her brother.

So, in a conflict between aunt and sister-in-law, she broke out completely.

An Jie, who didn't know the inside story, refused to admit defeat. She held the child in her arms and told her sister-in-law to get out of the house.

If I were someone else, I would babysit my sister-in-law's house. If I was yelled at by my sister-in-law, I might leave at once, but Jiang Dehua is not an ordinary person. She immediately retorted angrily, "This is my brother's house. Why should I leave? If you want to roll, roll. "

Angie was stunned by her sister-in-law's heroism, and she really "rolled" back to her family.

In this clip, we can see that Angie and Jiang Dehua are so cute. Although Jiang Dehua has a broken mouth, she can't wait for others, but the simplicity of her body is appreciated by Anjie.

Although Angie doesn't like some "bad habits" of their brothers and sisters, Angie may appreciate the natural simplicity of Jiang Defu brothers and sisters more than the urban male style of his brother and brother-in-law.

In Sun Shaoping's letter to his sister spearmint, "Ordinary World", there is such a sentence:

Jiang Defu's brother and sister have never deliberately concealed their origins in front of Anjie. On the contrary, it has brought more good qualities to Miss Anjie.

After Angie and her sister-in-law fell out again, Jiang Defu moved into the original dormitory in a fit of pique. Only two women stayed at home. At that time, Anjie's second child was about to give birth, two weeks before the due date.

No one thought that because of the emotional quarrel with her sister-in-law during the day, maybe the child wanted to come to this world in advance. On the night Jiang Defu went out, Anjie's amniotic fluid broke.

She had to call her sister-in-law, and Jiang Dehua, stunned, called Xiue across the street. Neither of them is at home, and it is too late to send them to the hospital. They were so distracted for a while, and Xiue finally gritted her teeth and became a midwife. She instructed Jiang Dehua to boil water, and with her memory and experience of having triplets, she successfully helped Anjie deliver the baby.

It is Angie's premature birth that makes Jiang Dehua, who has always been eloquent, converge a lot. She thought her sister-in-law was angry with her premature birth. It was this delivery that made Anjie completely change her view of her sister-in-law. Although she didn't understand, she made it clear. But it can be seen from some of her words and deeds.

First of all, she began to look like a sister-in-law, and she was no longer as tit-for-tat as before.

Secondly, she doesn't always speak ill of her sister-in-law in front of her husband as before.

Although, they still bicker sometimes, everyone with a discerning eye can see that their bickering now is more like a bickering between brothers and sisters, and when they say it, they forget everything.

It can be said that Angie's temper changes slowly, and her sister-in-law also plays a great role.

Before that, she was a spoiled young lady. After marrying Jiang Defu, she still kept her usual style and mentality.

It was Jiang Defu's brother and sister who unconsciously influenced her.

This premature birth in the middle of the night is a key node in the transformation of the relationship between Anjie and Jiang Dehua.

An Jie's brother-in-law and brother's family were both affected by the disaster. In order to protect her two sons, An Jie, who had refused to go with her husband before, chose to compromise. She took her two sons to the island to find her husband.

After that, she got pregnant again. This time, when her husband and her discussed letting her sister take care of her, Angie did not object.

So Jiang Dehua went to them again with revenge, but this time he lived in his house for many years.

An Jie gave birth to five children, all brought up by her sister-in-law Jiang Dehua.

And the feelings between them, with the growth of age, with the running-in of both sides, really have the kind of feelings between sisters.

But for these two stubborn women, that feeling was weak until something happened at home, which made Jiang Dehua have a new understanding of Anjie.

Jiang Defu has arranged jobs for Anjie's niece and niece. Jiang Dehua is extremely unbalanced. She told her niece that your father never helped the Lao Jiang family.

In order to find a balance, she asked her children to write to the village to tell her brother's recent situation, asked her second aunt to take her son and granddaughter, and asked Jiang Defu to arrange work for her granddaughter.

Jiang Defu helped. This brought him new troubles.

After coming back, my second aunt trumpeted Jiang Defu's power and ability in the village, and other people who had nothing to do with it came.

At that time, Anjie's home was a mess. My brother is unhappy, and so are the children. Jiang Dehua realized that she was in trouble and she regretted it.

Angie didn't complain about the disaster brought by her sister-in-law, but arranged everything happily. From this incident, we can see that Angie really regards Jiang Dehua as a relative. Think about when she was going to complain to Jiang Defu because of a little thing. Now she sees that her family is in a mess, all because of her sister-in-law, but she doesn't complain at all. On the contrary, when Jiang Dehua was laughed at by the villagers, she stood up and defended her.

When Jiang Dehua saw people from her hometown lying on her sister-in-law's bed in clothes, she was very angry and accused the person who was worried about her: "You are a widow, just helping here. Who are you? "

Although this woman hasn't read any books, everything makes sense. Seeing her sister-in-law being beaten, An Jie stepped forward: "Who are you?" She is a member of our family. It's our aunt. She's in charge here. "

Two things can be seen from this incident.

1 Jiang Dehua was replaced by Angie. When she first came, she didn't pay attention to hygiene. Through the subtle influence of her sister-in-law, she doesn't like people who don't pay attention to hygiene now.

She knows how to protect her sister-in-law, and she doesn't like to see others climb into her bed with clothes on. "You also deserve to sleep in my sister-in-law's bed." In her heart, she has begun to be afraid of her sister-in-law, but she doesn't know it.

Anjie really treats her sister-in-law as a relative. If she is a narrow-minded person, they have so many contradictions before, she will take this opportunity to embarrass her sister-in-law and even complain in front of her husband.

But Angie didn't. In this incident, she didn't complain, and even stood up when her sister-in-law was accused. At this moment, what we see is that she has regarded her sister-in-law as a relative whose blood is thicker than water. Although this time, it was my sister-in-law who was upset and angry with her brother for helping her family, which triggered a series of things.

Sister-in-law Jiang Dehua didn't get married until she was 43. She took a fancy to Mrding, her brother's former friend and neighbor. At that time, widowed Mrding had four sons, but people still looked down on her.

Mrding's first marriage was arranged by his parents. After serving as a soldier, he got rid of illiteracy through study. When he saw that Jiang Defu had married a well-informed young lady, Anjie, he was envious.

In his first marriage, he couldn't choose for himself. Given the opportunity, he naturally despises illiterate Jiang Dehua.

Unfortunately, the woman he secretly loves is either a bad family member or a scheming use of him. After learning from a painful experience, he decided to choose Jiang Dehua.

He thinks Jiang Dehua is good everywhere except that he can't read. He not only has him in his heart, but also treats his son well.

When Mrding disagreed with Jiang Dehua and Jiang Dehua was wronged and sad, Angie angered Mrding in order to give her sister-in-law, and she really became a sister-in-law. Although Jiang Dehua will still blame her and run on her, Anjie has learned to laugh at her sister-in-law at this time.

It is because the mentality has changed that I will laugh at everything about my sister-in-law. She really regards her sister-in-law as her family.

After talking about two women, Mrding finally chose Jiang Dehua. Jiang Defu was very angry. His sister got married, and she strongly disagreed. It was Angie who comforted him privately and survived his work.

Helping my sister-in-law this time is the final sublimation of the relationship between menstruation and my sister-in-law. The two still bicker from time to time, but we can see that this bickering is a kind of family-style concern and iron hatred. There was no such intense tension between the first aunts.

1 first of all, if there is no sister-in-law, what will happen to Angie after giving birth to her second child is unpredictable. If my sister-in-law didn't call someone across the street, if it weren't for Xiue's mistake, it would be too late to send him to the hospital.

Secondly, Angie's five children are all brought up by her sister-in-law, five children plus three adults, and a family of eight people. Eating, washing clothes and taking care of children are all beyond Angie's competence.

Some people may say that Jiang Defu can make money and they can hire nannies.

We should think about that era and Jiang Defu's personality.

Jiang Defu was born in the countryside. He is not used to exploiting people. When he went to Anjie's house for dinner, he told Anjie to tell your brother next time to let his granddaughter eat with them. This man is equal to others.

After Jiang Dehua came home, Angie called her granddaughter for a few days. Jiang Defu was very unhappy and said that hiring a nanny was not allowed, which was exploitation.

Such a person who takes matters of principle very seriously, will he agree with Anjie to hire a nanny? Not to mention that place on the island.

He dotes on Angie so much that he is allowed to go diving with other women. The reason is whether he is a man or a political commissar. He should be proud.

Besides, suppose they hired a nanny at that time. In that movement, Angie could be labeled as anything if she hired a nanny.

At first, she was forced to throw away those clothes and shoes. Finally, Jiang Defu tried to protect her, so she survived. From the political movement.

Can Angie go to school so easily without her sister-in-law to help her take care of her children and family? She can't get out at all.

With Angie's personality, what would happen if she completely turned into a housewife, guarding her children's husbands and doing endless housework every day?

She is not in the mood to grow flowers in the yard at all.

Without all this, what would Anjie look like if she was troubled by children and housework every day?

Will become a dissatisfied housewife, she will constantly complain to her husband and tell her grievances. A disgruntled woman will not talk to her children properly.

Will regret, regret marrying Jiang Defu. Instead of saying to the child: I married your father and I will never regret it in my life.

A grouchy woman who often complains will eventually lose herself after years of regrets and complaints.

Angie is different from her sister An Xin. An Xin has a good temper. Although she suffers hardships with her husband, she can comfort her husband in difficult circumstances. If she is Anjie, let alone comforting her husband, she will probably collapse first.

It can be said that without the help of my sister-in-law over the years, Angie would not be Angie now, and the whole story might have to be rewritten.

From the half-life love and killing between Anji and her sister-in-law, it can be seen that every woman can't get rid of her husband's lineage after entering marriage. The relationship between mother-in-law and aunt-in-law has always been a pit that every woman can't avoid.

In the play, Angie went through a long process from her initial dislike of her sister-in-law, to her later acceptance, and finally to her being like a sister.

People don't know until they are old, no matter how much they love each other and kill each other, they can't get rid of this kinship intimacy and dependence all their lives.

In that case, wouldn't it be better to try to accept the settlement earlier?

In the middle, Jiang Defu as a man is very important. How to balance the conflict between wife and relatives is probably the knowledge that every man should cultivate.

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