When you meet a kind of person, you help him. He will hate you. This is also the first time I have met him. For example, I helped him a little bit the first time and left, but he didn’t know how to do

When you meet a kind of person, you help him. He will hate you. This is also the first time I have met him. For example, I helped him a little bit the first time and left, but he didn’t know how to do it the second time.

What kind of women do men like? Nowadays, most girls are obsessed with pursuing beautiful appearance and slim figure, but they forget that what men value is actually a caring, considerate and tolerant heart.

When men are young, they choose When choosing a wife or a girlfriend, the first thing you should look at is your face and figure. Whether you really like her or not is not important, but it does satisfy the man's face. However, it is often when men reach middle age that they realize that the beauty of a woman is not in the thin skin on the outside, but in the gentleness, tolerance, understanding and good temper. When a man is worried and anxious, if a woman can considerately comfort her, coquettishly, and whisper gently, then no matter how busy or heavy the work is, the man will be willing to do it.

If you like him, you must find a way to capture his heart. Do you know what to do?

Why are there so few families in today’s society that are truly happy? There are of course many reasons for this, many of which are mutual complaints. Usually, the more unable both parties are to tolerate each other, the more serious the consequences will be. . . So tolerance becomes one of the most important factors in life. Let’s get back to the topic! What kind of girl (woman) do men like?

In fact, there is no single answer, nor is it unified. From several broad aspects, most men (boys) usually like women (girls) to have the following characteristics: Kind-hearted, kind, loyal, filial, enthusiastic and generous , gentle and considerate, considerate, reasonable, emotionally dedicated, good-tempered, connotative, temperamental, confident and optimistic, proactive, elegant, small and exquisite, cute and beautiful, sometimes arrogant.

Describe it in detail, it can be divided into the following aspects:

1. It is not required to be beautiful, but it must have temperament

2. It is not necessary to be gentle. I talked about what I think everyone knows.

3. Everyone knows kindness, but it is something that many people lack.

4. Women must be thoughtful, connotative, Taste, if a woman lacks these, then this woman is not very interesting.

5. Love books and music. It’s hard to imagine a life that a woman who doesn’t love books and music will understand. When appropriate, you can share your fun with your beloved.

6. Maturity is a little sad. Only mature women have charm and know how to behave. Sad women are sometimes beautiful, and they can understand more truths in their sadness

7. Be innocent and childlike, preferably a little naughty, and of course you must be able to act coquettishly. This will make a boring life full of joy. Such a woman will also make men have the urge to love you more

9. It is best for a woman to have a certain degree of romance and interest. If a man tries his best to help you buy a piece of clothing, but all he gets from you is: "It doesn't look good. This hurts the man's heart. He will be in the mood to buy it for you next time." ? You should give him a big hug and a sweet kiss.

1. Seize the opportunity

When you meet a boy you like, you should pursue it wisely and never miss the opportunity. When you meet him on the road, you can take the initiative to chat with him. Although the content of the conversation is very simple, with this first time, you may have taken the first step in love. For example: "I think you look familiar. I think I've met him before?" "Can you do me a favor?" The topic itself is an introduction, and the real purpose is to get to know him further.

2. Clever hints

You may not be comfortable taking the initiative to strike up a conversation with a strange boy, but you can also use clever ways to hint him. For example, giving him a look, a mysterious smile, or a shy expression will attract the attention of the opposite sex. If he understands your intention, he will take the initiative to approach you, and you will succeed.

3. Get rid of worries and pursue boldly

Don’t worry about whether he will like you. Such worries will only make you uneasy and lose opportunities again and again. As long as you bravely dial one and speak bravely, maybe the problem will be completely solved. Even if he has a cold attitude, it's nothing special.

In fact, most boys will be very happy with this kind of girl who dares to pursue him actively, and will not embarrass you.

4. Show your charm and show your personality

Not only beautiful girls are favored by the opposite sex. Beautiful appearance is innate, but elegant temperament can be cultivated. Good temperament is the permanent charm of women to attract men. It should be noted that when shaking hands with men, do not shake hands too hard and should be gentler; walk with your head held high and your toes touching the ground first; speak softly and softly; do not laugh too presumptuously. These are all aspects of femininity. If you can do these things, you're bound to attract men.

5. Adopt partial reinforcement method

When he performs well, you don’t have to praise him every time. If you praise him occasionally, the effect will be better. Occasionally missing an appointment or being reluctant to leave can make him feel dizzy. This will make him more attracted to you.

6. Don’t let him be too reassured

After your relationship with your boyfriend reaches a certain level, you can appropriately reduce the number of times you get close to him, or occasionally play with other friends. Of course not too often. Once your boyfriend discovers this situation, he will definitely become jealous, become highly nervous, and chase you closely.

Sometimes love needs to cool down. Don't just confess your feelings blindly, you can talk about things that have nothing to do with him enthusiastically. Don't always focus on him, but show great enthusiasm for the things around you. As a result, the loved one is burned with intense love, and it is his turn to wait impatiently, go on dates, and express his love endlessly. In this way, the relationship between you will actually heat up.

7. Keep a sense of mystery

Being too honest will not help enhance the relationship. The attraction between lovers comes from the mystery of each other. Keep a little personal secret so that the other person can make new discoveries from time to time, and it can also consolidate each other's relationship.

See how women attract men

1. She is very sexy

She walked out of the bathroom with long hair that was not dried; Her expression was lazy, and the fragrance after bathing filled the room. Her bathrobe was half-covered, and she looked like a hibiscus just emerging from the water.

It is always said in "A Dream of Red Mansions" that women are made of water. Many men describe the most exciting moment when a woman comes out of the bathroom. At that time, she is fresh and pure. Perhaps every man has a virginity complex in his mind, so every time a woman takes a bath, she somewhat satisfies the complex they are looking for in their hearts.

Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses.

2. She is very naughty

She wears your clothes, because they are wide, like a curled up kitten. She walked around the room, her male clothes forming a sharp contrast with her delicate self.

Many men idolized female spies when they were young. When the female spy in the movie appears in a heroic male uniform, it is always easier to impress men. A woman, wearing a heroic uniform, knocked a man to the ground. All the men watching the video wanted to be ravaged by her.

Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses.

3. She looks like a bad woman

When the "angel" in "Street Angel" smokes a cigarette and looks provocatively at the men coming and going on the street, she looks like this I believe it became the sexual fantasy object of many men later. For example, in the bar, under the dim light, she smoked a cigarette, her expression was thoughtful, her eyes were vacant and lonely. She seemed so lonely yet so unpredictable.

She is like a poppy flower that blooms in the dark night. Because she is elusive, men are eager to take her home.

Men will find women cute only if they are a bit bad. Therefore, Hollywood actresses rush to play bad women when they debut. Because the psychology of men is like this: the more you can't get, the more you will pursue.

Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses.

4. She can act coquettishly

Women are flocking to an activity to rediscover Chinese femininity. Because in an interview about men, almost 100% of men believed that they think the most obvious sign of femininity is the ability to act coquettishly. Therefore, when reporters interview a strong woman, she is worth hundreds of millions and controls tens of thousands of people, but she must emphasize her femininity: she will cling to her husband in the evening and watch the sunset together.

"No, I just don't want it." This is the Hong Kong style of coquettish language. Different women have their own unique ways of coquettishness. There is the pear blossom style with rain, there is the terry style, there is the scoundrel style, there is the coquettish style, etc. In short, a woman who knows how to act coquettishly makes a man surrender immediately. .

Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses. Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses.

5. She said she was very satisfied.

Are you satisfied? you ask her.

She didn’t say anything, but her face was rosy and her eyes were shy. She doesn't look directly into your eyes, but uses her hands to hint you to do it again. This is the most sexy expression of love and the most exciting moment for a man this night. You know she's so content that even if she's really tired, she's going to crank it up and do it again.

Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses.

6. She will tease you

Even when she is at her peak, she does not go to bed with the most life-or-death attitude. A man's desire comes and explodes quickly, so delaying the process is just a way to tease you.

She slowly unbuttons her clothes. You are eager to see it, but the opening is long and anxious. The less something can be obtained quickly, the more flavorful it is. The look on her face as she opened her clothes was innocent, mixed with a sense of provocative charm, a pure sense of devotion, and even hesitation. You just can't help yourself.

7. A blush on her face

You told a dirty joke, and she was a little shy; you made a naughty move, and she felt shy. It wasn't affectation, it was a real blush on her face. She looked so overwhelmed.

Sometimes, just the right shyness is one of the manifestations of a person retaining innocence. In many movies, the shyer the girl is, the more conquering the man opposite her will become. Because you always hope that only you make her complicated, but before that she was completely innocent.

Those so-called ugly women who are mediocre in appearance and even look down upon by men can often win golden men. Going deeper, these so-called "ugly ducklings", although ordinary in appearance, often have inherent advantages that attract men, and use these advantages to hit men's weaknesses.

8. She is very feminine

She was watching TV alone at home. Xiao Yanzi was wronged and she burst into tears; the protagonist who had gone through all kinds of hardships finally died at the hands of the bad guys. She was in tears. When you open the door and see her being emotionally moved by the unnecessary plot, you will feel that a woman's compassion makes the world full of warmth. A woman who can cry in an era when everyone is not easily emotional exudes a kind and sexy beauty.

Women chasing men

1. Men are like kites, and women are like kite flyers.

A woman should loosen the thread when it is time to loosen it, and tighten the thread when it is time to tighten it.

2. Open one eye, close one eye.

Women should keep their eyes open and carefully observe whether the other party has done anything deviant. Close one eye, give the other person some private space, and don't push the other person too hard.

3. Be strong and soft at the same time.

Women should share certain responsibilities in the family, be strong and be men's right-hand men when there are difficulties. She usually acts as a gentle little woman to satisfy the man's big man complex.

4. Use both soft and hard tactics.

When women should say "no", they should say "no" firmly. When you understand that you are wrong, say "I'm sorry" immediately and don't be too talkative.

5. Make men feel that you are the most personal and mysterious woman.

A woman should become the most intimate lover with her man. At the same time, you must hide your imperfect side and maintain a sense of mystery. Only distance can produce beauty and attraction. Men are all visual animals.

6. Play multiple roles that men need in life.

Men always hope to be like Wei Xiaobao and have multiple women. In order to maintain a stable relationship, a woman should play the main role of wife, and sometimes play the role of girlfriend, lover, or even daughter and mother to satisfy men's various psychological needs.

7. When you leave the hall, you enter the kitchen.

In social situations, women dress up and behave appropriately, giving men full face. Men are all vanity. As the saying goes: "To capture a man's heart, you must first capture his stomach." Whenever a man comes home tired at night and sees delicious food, he will feel very warm.

8. Chat less and listen more to men.

Women always like to talk about everything, but men usually think that women want him to solve some problem. As a result, going home becomes another burden and becomes increasingly annoying. In fact, men also need to talk, but "men don't shed tears easily". As long as the home is warm and the wife is considerate, he will talk to the woman. At this time, the woman will choose some sexual intercourse. * Talk about the same topic, so that there will be no conflicts and enhance feelings.

9. Both praise and criticize.

Every man has a little child in his heart. If he is encouraged and praised when he makes efforts or achievements, he will be particularly happy. When a man is too complacent or exaggerates, criticize and criticize him appropriately so that he can understand his mistake in time.

10. Be a good helper to a man and actively integrate into his circle.

Women should be friends with men’s friends so that they can better understand what men are doing. Caring about a man's family can help him have no worries and take his career to the next level.

The 6 most suitable situations for women to pursue men:

Now that we understand that women should take the initiative, under which situations can women take the initiative? In other words, under what circumstances is it appropriate for a woman to take the initiative?

1. In the dark corridor

We just had a pleasant party, and your elevator stopped. At around 11 o'clock at night, two people needed to climb to the 20th floor of a high-rise building. There was no one in the dark corridor. Why didn't you take the initiative to attack him at this time? You are the female ghost in the night and the delicate sister Lin. Lying on his back, he couldn't move anymore and asked him to carry him on his back - of course, only for a short distance.

Coquettish and cute, I believe no man can resist this feeling of pity and pity?

2. He does things that make you happy

He is very concerned about his mother-in-law’s high blood pressure and his father-in-law’s birthday celebrations. He often comes back early, like a family man Like, I made you a bowl of wifey soup. Maybe he doesn't care about getting your sex, but he really moved you, so the best way to reward him is to give him a spicy SEX.

Hold him gently and tell him that he touches you. Men are sometimes like children who need to be praised. In a mood of excitement and recognition, they get the best candy. Next, just wait and see how he bravely shows his strength and majesty!

3. When he is in a bad mood

He comes back, sits on the sofa and smokes sullenly. He was scolded by his boss and something unpleasant happened to him. This night, he looked so depressed. Please hug him like a mother and give him the best physical comfort. Remember, men sometimes need sex to relieve stress. In a kind of selflessness, they will vent their sorrow and frustration. He might be used to taking the initiative, but he was in a bad mood that day. So, let you take the initiative today.

4. When your menstrual cycle arrives

Remember, the menstrual cycle mentioned here is not a "period". Experts have discovered that sex also has cycles, with periods of ebb and flow, ebbing and flowing over the course of a month. When men act like monkeys for a few days, eager to get sex, are there also days when you are restless and anxious about everything? Or even start an unexplained fire for no reason?

Perhaps the best fire extinguisher is the caress of his gentle body. If he is a careless man and doesn't understand anything, then instead of training him inexplicably until he looks confused and doesn't know where he went wrong, you might as well just hold his hand and walk into the bathroom or bedroom.

5. He is the nerd who studies hard.

Don’t think that when he studies hard, all his thoughts are really put into the book. The handsome scholars in "Liao Zhai" seem to be studying hard in ancient temples in the mountains, but they are all looking forward to the red sleeves to add fragrance. In the middle of the night, a vixen suddenly comes to him with jingling rings. Therefore, when he is studying hard in the middle of the night, you might as well give him a bowl of love soup in a timely manner and pat his shoulders.

When he is tired and you tease him, no man will immediately long to return to the real world from the boring book. At this time, you are his vixen and the best way to relax for him.

6. When you are really wrong

He didn’t make any mistakes that day, but you insisted on making trouble with him because he was in a bad mood; when you teased him that day, you used the most Harsh language that you feel you went too far in retrospect. You are angry with your boss in the office and insist on letting him be a punching bag...

In this case, why don't you walk over, hug him, and show him that you are wrong? There is no final winner in the conflict between husband and wife. The one who turns around and admits his mistake first is the angel. Please be that angel for once because you love him. Sex is often the best fire extinguisher for marital conflicts.

Fire sign: hot-blooded system

The outspoken Aries, the eye-catching Leo, the Sagittarius lover

Tip1 It is better to be friends first

For a simple-minded fire sign boy, it is easier to lure him into the trap by playing hard to get. Instead of confessing to him straight away that you want to be his lover, it is better to be his friend first. Sometimes a short detour is the shortcut.

Tip2: Be a laissez-faire housekeeper

No matter how old they are, fire boys are actually like children who have not grown up. Although they don’t want to get involved, they still need someone to act like a spoiled child, so don’t Strictly correct every mistake he makes, occasionally nagging him a few words to show that you value him, but letting him go after all the nagging means pampering him.

Tip3 Give him the feeling of winning

They have a strong sense of competition but don’t like losing. Losing will make them feel stupid, and anything that hurts their self-esteem will make them feel stupid. They change their faces. Challenge him, but don't defeat him (even if you win, you'll only win by a narrow margin)!

Tip4 The more fun you have, the better

As long as they feel right, they will not worry too much about love, and it is not difficult to feel "right", any lively He can get too high in any fun situation, and he can easily get into trouble with someone who is just as crazy.

This is where fire boys look at girls!

Brain 20: Be quick-thinking and respond humorously to his jokes

Clothing 15: Playful and relaxed casual dress

Sexy 5: Talkability is the most important , I don’t particularly care about whether the body is hot or not

Personality 40, cheerful and generous, straightforward, but not too domineering

Appearance 20, I prefer cute girls with temperament

Earth Signs: Stability

Talented Taurus, Virgo with a sense of justice, Capricorn with amazing perseverance

Tip 1 semi-forced winning

Personality Being gentle, they are usually not easy to reject others, which is also a weakness suitable for attack! Take the initiative to chat with him when you have nothing to do, and give him a semi-forced opportunity to understand your cuteness. Once he starts to think you are cute, the Earth sign boy will turn from passive to active.

Tip 2 Drag *** friends into the water together

They think a lot about relationships and are unwilling to take risks if they are not sure, and often turn a blind eye to the "traps" carefully arranged by girls. (Or pretend not to see it). You might as well have a familiar environment with your partner and acquaintances present, so that he can relax his guard and slowly treat you as one of his own.

Tip3 Find a problem and take the opportunity to ask for advice

If there is a problem that you don’t know and it happens to be a project that he is good at, go and ask him for advice! Feeling that you are capable of helping others will give an Earth boy a lot of confidence and vanity, making him willing to help you in the future.

Tip 4: Touch his heart with small gifts

No matter how low-key or frugal they appear on the surface, they are curious and yearning for luxurious or famous things, but they are reluctant to part with them. Spend money to enjoy, so bringing a small gift with exaggerated and gorgeous texture is in line with their nature of not being too ostentatious and stuffy.

If a boy with an earth sign looks like a girl, look here!

Mind 3 Girls who are too smart will make them feel intimidated

Clothing 10 Dress up as a little princess in a delicate dress, not too revealing

Sexy 27 Although I like girls The bag should be tighter, but the figure can be a little fleshy

Personality 20: Conservative, quiet and virtuous, in short, more traditional

Appearance 40: They like elegant beauties with fair skin

Wind sign: Funny type

Chatty and changeable Gemini, friendly and lively Libra, smart and unique Aquarius

Tip1 Prepare interesting chat topics

They are The powerful gossip receiving station is also available for popular topics. Absorbing more information can attract his attention. You might as well provide some harmless gossip at any time to increase the topics of conversation between each other.

Tip2 Don’t lose to him verbally

Girls who are dull and unresponsive when chatting will make the air boy feel very boring and give him no chance to show off his eloquence. , so it’s best to be able to talk back and forth with him. If you really can’t do that, at least contradict him occasionally!

Tip 3: Tell his strengths

They are versatile and often help others and become strategists in the group. Although they have an important position, they are often not the protagonists. Don’t forget to acknowledge their strengths in a timely manner. Be outstanding and he will be very grateful for your good vision.

Tip4 Try to be as ambiguous as possible

They are naturally passionate and fall in love easily. Although they cry out for it, they cannot live without someone around them, all year round. He is in an ambiguous period with a certain girl. The longer he maintains a state of indifference with them, the deeper he will fall into.

If a boy with the wind sign wants to see a girl, look here!

Appearance 15: Rather than beauty, it should be distinctive, paying great attention to eyes

Mind 30: Appreciate smart and talented girls, and can’t stand superficial idiots

Clothing 30 A fashionable girl who is neat and stylish, with a sense of fashion

Sexy 5 I actually like girls with a neutral feeling

Personality 20 A little naughty and quirky makes him attracted I find it very challenging

Water sign: Intellectual system

Versatile Cancer, Distinguished likes and dislikes, Scorpio, Passionate and attentive, Pisces

Tip1 Accidental contact opportunities

The affectionate eyes that occasionally meet, the careless physical contact (you have to act more realistically if you don’t care)... This kind of unspoken feeling can easily give him an electric shock if he is a water sign!

Tip2 The variety of changes makes him confused

Water-sign boys have high requirements for girls and have very low conditions. In fact, they are the first among the four major types. Try to make yourself a combination of sweetness and wisdom, and be a girl with multiple layers of connotations, so that he can discover a different version of you every time. Don’t be a single-celled animal that he can see through at a glance!

Tip3 Be a rescued little princess

Gentle and careful, they are actually very good at taking care of girls, and unlike the publicity of fire signs, they will quietly display their courageous spirit. Let them save you from being a little stupid occasionally (for example, forgetting to bring your wallet or umbrella), so that you can have more interactions with each other!

Tip 4: Tear Attack

It is difficult for them to resist the tear attack. Seeing a girl’s tears usually makes you feel pity for her, but remember that tears are a killer weapon , can only be used at critical moments. If you cry too often, even a gentle water sign boy will find it troublesome!

If a water sign boy looks at a girl, look here!

Appearance 30: Fresh and refined, innocent fairy or angel type girl

Mind 20: Bingxue is smart, but she must have the wisdom to hide her edge

Clothing 15: Dress Just be neat and tidy, I don’t like anything too flashy

Sexy 5 Slender body with S-line

Personality 40 Gentle and considerate, but soft yet strong and sexy

There is a saying: "What conquers a man is not a woman's beauty, but her femininity." What is femininity? It is really a vague concept that can be felt but cannot be said. "Femininity Survey" or "Searching for Femininity" has a very detailed summary of this topic, let's experience it together!

When people talk about femininity, they always think of sexy, charming, graceful and charming women. It seems that this is the only way to be feminine. Femininity has always been judged from a male perspective. However, modern women have a wider space for self-shaping, and some traditional norms that have not completely disappeared have long been unable to promise a woman's lifelong happiness.

They grew up unprecedentedly in confusion. When they thought about women's life issues, they also opened up a broader living space for themselves. Therefore, the connotation of femininity becomes broad and profound.

"Female investigation", or "searching for femininity", is actually our hope for a return to naturalness that is beneficial to women's body and mind.

Female naturalness is the foundation of women. When it comes to the foundation, it is femininity. But "femininity" is an unclear and immeasurable concept. What is femininity? What kind of femininity do we need?

People have different understandings of femininity. Even if we do not find a unified answer to femininity, what we can be sure of is that femininity is specifically broken down into various advantages of women. Perhaps we can simply say that femininity is the various female advantages that women have but men lack.

Gentleness and pleasantness are an important manifestation of femininity

What most men like most is a woman’s gentleness. The most impressive thing about a woman is her tenderness. Of course, this kind of gentleness is not pretentious. A gentle and unpretentious woman knows cold and hot, light and heavy. When you are with her, some inner unhappiness will disappear. Such a woman is the most exciting. Tenderness is a unique weapon of women. Although men also have a gentle side, they cannot replace women's tenderness.

When a woman stands in front of us and says a few words, we can feel whether this woman is gentle or not without even speaking. One can't help but be immersed in the atmosphere created by the woman. This kind of femininity has nothing to do with age, or even with appearance.

Be considerate

Men have the most power to evaluate femininity. Femininity is actually men’s evaluation and expectations of women. For example, if some women are not necessarily beautiful, but they can be appropriately highlighted based on their own advantages. Generally speaking, she can adjust her performance according to the needs of different men, thereby showing her own advantages.

Therefore, feminine women are usually quick-thinking, exquisite, and considerate, especially showing their understanding of men. Therefore, when people are with feminine women, whether it is The way you talk and behave is just right and makes you feel like a spring breeze. This is femininity.

The brilliance of motherhood

Many women gain a little weight after giving birth to children, but their whole person becomes gentler and brighter, seeming to be shrouded in the halo of motherhood. Although she has gained some weight, after raising a child, she has brought out the maternal color in her temperament to the fullest. The temperament between her eyebrows makes people feel close to her. I think women in this period are the most feminine.

Lu Xun once said: Women only have daughterly nature and maternal nature, and do not have real wifely nature. Wifey nature is usually a combination of daughterly nature and maternal nature. I quite agree with this statement. Daughterhood is another temperament of women, but if daughterhood is too strong, it may appear clingy and annoying; only motherhood can make women show their holy brilliance. Therefore, femininity must reflect the glory of motherhood.

Unique style

Every woman will have her own advantages, her own personality or unique style. If she can bring out this style well, she can Forming a unique charm, this is femininity. Therefore, everyone has a different sense of femininity.

Men have more say on the topic of femininity. Some women who are not necessarily very beautiful in the eyes of women will become very tasteful women if they can highlight their strengths. For example, if a woman is not beautiful at all in terms of facial features, but every time she appears in front of people, she always has long hair, talks softly, and is well-dressed, then boys may appreciate her femininity.

Wisdom and self-confidence

I think femininity should exist in wisdom and calmness and self-confidence. Only women with these qualities can be carved from the inside out and reveal a convincing personality. temperament. People often think that strong women just look like tomboys, but in fact, truly capable strong women are very good at giving full play to their feminine strengths, and can also use these strengths to communicate up and down, behave tactfully, and become a team. A very strong force.

Of course, don’t be too forceful. If you are gentle and considerate and make people want to get close, it will be even more perfect. Just like Ren Yingying in the novel, if Ren Yingying grew up in modern times, she would be loved by everyone. She is talented, smart, has a lot of ideas, and her martial arts skills are not bad; she is proficient in music, chess, calligraphy, and painting, and has great taste; she is also very individual, with a clear sense of likes and dislikes, and sometimes she will play a little bit to adjust her mood. What's more, she is devoted to her lover. In Mr. Jin Yong's novels, she and Huang Rong are both leading female images. The difference is that Huang Rong's image was later destroyed by her old age. Only Ren Yingying is still the good woman who can "walk out of the hall and into the kitchen".