How do parents express their inner feelings to their children?

1. I love you

Parents should always talk about the word "love" and remind their children: parents like you and will always support you. Children surrounded by love, on the one hand, feel the warmth of love, on the other hand, they also consciously or unconsciously learn to pass on love, love their parents, the elderly, and others. In this way, the child's character will be very cheerful and he will talk to his parents about anything.

2. It doesn’t matter.

Encourage children to try boldly and actively participate in meaningful activities. It doesn’t matter even if they do something wrong or say the wrong thing. In this way, children will become very independent.

3. You are awesome. Praising your children often has the advantage of increasing their self-confidence, maintaining a positive attitude, and having the courage to overcome difficulties.

4. Congratulations

Children are amazingly sensitive to external stimuli. Even if the children make a little progress in the right direction, if the parents can notice and congratulate them, then the parents will see more progress in the children in the future. Congratulations are actually very simple, they are acknowledgment of progress or contribution.

5. Don’t be afraid

Parents should always say to their children: “Don’t be afraid, I’m here!” to encourage their children to be bolder, speak more on stage, and meet teachers. Say hello proactively. Parents should often accompany their children to participate in activities when they have time to "embolden" their children. With such encouragement from parents, "quiet" children will become much more "naughty".

6. Think again

Today's children are often impatient when doing things. They stop when they encounter difficulties, give up halfway, or do things irritably and carelessly. Parents may wish to ask their children to "think again" to inspire them to use their brains and pursue perfection in learning without leaving any tail behind. This can cultivate children's perseverance.

7. Be more diligent

There is a saying that "it is better to praise diligence than to praise intelligence." Parents who "praise their intelligence" may make their children become arrogant and obsessed with their own "brain". Once they encounter setbacks, they will become dejected and hurt their self-esteem; "praising their diligence" will make their children realize that "diligence can make up for their weakness". .

8. Thank you

Children also have self-esteem and should also be respected. Parents should teach their children how to say "thank you" when receiving help from others, how to repay love, and be a grateful person to society.