I want to buy a school district house for my children and ask my brother to repay the money I borrowed when I get married. What should he do if he asks me to find my mother?

In most people's minds, most married daughters are towards their parents' home. After all, this blood relationship cannot be abandoned, and Liu Xiaoli is no exception. She was born in the countryside, her parents are authentic rural people, her father works outside the home, and her mother works at home for a living. Liu Xiaoli has done well in school since he was a child. His parents said, "As long as you want to go to school, we will train you to study even if you sell iron." In response to his parents' words, Liu Xiaoli studied harder. Because in the village, girls about the same age as Liu Xiaoli usually go out to work after graduating from junior high school.

In the college entrance examination, Xiaoli got a copy as she wished. She is the first female college student in the village. Xiaoli's younger brother didn't like reading and didn't want to do farm work since he was a child. Parents dote on him a little, always thinking that boys will support their families when they grow up, and will be more comfortable when they are young. As everyone knows, this just makes my brother find an excuse for his laziness. He can only work for a few months a year and wander around the rest of the time. After the parents knew the consequences, they wanted to discipline their son, but the son stopped listening.

Xiaoli went to college, not only studied hard, but also felt sorry for her parents. She earned her living expenses by working and studying at weekends. After graduating from college, Xiaoli was hired by a big company with a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan because of her accumulated work experience and excellent academic performance. Xiaoli has always been grateful to her parents for providing her with the opportunity to study. She pays her salary every month, leaving only 3000 yuan for herself and sending back 5000 yuan to her mother.

02:

At the age of 28, a colleague introduced her to an object named Zhou Hua. Zhou Hua has a crush on unpretentious Xiaoli, and Xiaoli falls in love with handsome Zhou Hua at first sight, and both of them have a good relationship. After a period of contact, the two confirmed their love relationship. After half a year, talk about marriage.

When getting married, Zhou Huajia gave Xiaoli 1 20,000 as a bride price, and Xiaoli's mother only gave Xiaoli110,000 yuan as a dowry and married off. Shortly after Xiaoli got married, her mother used the bride price money to buy a car of hundreds of thousands for Xiaoli's brother.

Xiaoli got pregnant soon after she got married. She feels that her family is small and should put her family first, so the monthly living expenses for her mother are reduced to 1000 yuan. Although her mother is a little unhappy, she can't say anything. Xiaoli conceived in October and gave birth to a beautiful son.

Three years passed quickly, and Xiaoli's brother was 29 years old. Under the introduction of the matchmaker, he fell in love with an old girl one year younger than him. The woman's family proposed to buy a suite in the county, and the bride price of 80,000 yuan was paid by the man.

Xiaoli's mother bought a 90-square-meter house for her son in the county town, and spent all her savings with decoration. The cost of bride price, banquet and wedding is still short150,000. In order to hold the wedding as scheduled, the mother took her brother to Xiaoli's house to borrow money.

After discussing with her husband, Xiaoli gave them 50,000 yuan and lent them100,000 yuan. With Xiaoli's help, my brother's wedding was held as scheduled.

03:

In a blink of an eye, several years passed, and Xiaoli's children went to the kindergarten middle class. When Xiaoli and Zhou Hua got married, they didn't consider the problem of their children going to school in the future. The house they bought is a little biased. Seeing that the children are going to school, after discussion, the couple decided to borrow money to buy a school district.

But according to their calculation, the down payment is still short of120,000. Xiaoli wants her brother to pay her back100000 yuan. In recent years, her brother never mentioned the money again. Xiaoli thinks that she wants to buy a house now, and her brother should pay back the money.

Xiaoli went to her brother's house at the weekend. Her brother hasn't come home from work yet, only her sister-in-law is at home. Xiaoli explained her purpose to her sister-in-law, and her smile suddenly changed. Whether my sister-in-law is happy or not, the money has to be returned. Xiaoli said directly to her sister-in-law: "Sister-in-law, I want to buy a house now. Give me back the100000 yuan you lent me when you got married. " Who knows, sister-in-law said angrily to Xiaoli, "whoever borrows it wants it."

Sister-in-law's attitude is not good, Xiaoli is angry, but she scolds her sister-in-law, not to be outdone, and almost quarrels with Xiaoli. At this time, Xiaoli's brother came back. Xiaoli said to her younger brother, "Brother, I want to buy a school district for my child and give me back the money you borrowed from your marriage." Xiaoli thought her younger brother would agree, but said to her, "Mom lent it to you. You have to call mom. " Brother's words were like a pot of cold water poured on Xiaoli's head.

Psychoanalysis:

It is natural to borrow money to pay back the money, whether it is to borrow money from others or relatives. Anyone who can lend you money is a timely help. Such people deserve respect and communication. Of course, when the person who lent you money needs it, you should return it to others in the same way.

Xiaoli's younger brother borrowed money from her sister and used it very calmly. When her sister asked her for it, she even put the blame on her mother. Such a person is not trustworthy and has a bad character. For such people, you must stay away from them in the future, even your own brothers.

For such people who don't want to pay back the money, I want to understand with emotion and act with reason first. If you continue to cheat, you don't need to take care of your family if you have to. You should seek legal help. I hope my words can inspire Xiaoli.