Do you feel sorry if your child's qualifications are average?

I don't think I will feel sorry if my child's qualifications are average. I am willing to accept all children's faces, good or bad. It is said that every child is God's best gift to his parents. Since it is a gift, I think that as long as we accept it frankly, not every child is perfect, and every child may have shortcomings. But do we feel that children are inferior to others and that children are mediocre because of this shortcoming? I believe that every mother will not feel that her child is like this. No matter how the child is, the mother will always be proud, not sorry.

Second, mediocrity does not mean that it is a bad thing. Maybe many people want their children to be successful, but it is not so easy to be a dragon and phoenix in life. If the child's qualifications are average, he has no ability, and he has no mind to be a dragon and phoenix in the crowd, there is no need to force the child to be too tight. Let the children do what they want and do what they like. Parents should not be the leaders of their children's roads, but should be nudists. When children encounter difficulties, they should be given a proper push, but what should children choose to do? This is his freedom, no matter he is mediocre or gifted, no matter who he becomes, he will always be my child, my child, so I won't feel sorry.

Third, be good at finding good things in children. There are always some parents who want to compare the shortcomings of their children with the advantages of other children, but perhaps the advantages of their children are the shortcomings of other children. Maybe your child is not as talented as other children, but he has high emotional intelligence. He will help you with the housework. She is your little cotton-padded jacket. How can such a child feel regret? Shouldn't it be that the more you watch, the more you love?

Every child is a work of art, and the creator of this work of art can only be themselves, not their parents. Parents are more about guiding their children not to take detours, rather than letting them go which way.