What's the difference between before and after divorce?

Marriage is a lifelong obsession, and you can't divorce unless you have to! However, there are too many so-called "emotional masters", and you don't have to be responsible for what you say, which ruined many marriages that could have been ok!

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Why did the divorce rate suddenly rise? There must be the "credit" of these "masters"! In the eyes of these "emotional masters", the husband and wife are slightly contradictory and separated! Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a little quarrel. Leave! The other half accidentally made a mistake and left! In short, divorce has become a panacea for their pursuit of happiness!

Seeing that many "emotional masters" are writing articles advocating divorce, advocating that "everyone can pursue better love", the couple feel unhappy and have to divorce! Under the influence of their poisoned chicken soup, many couples seem to see another open door when they are in a bad mood! There are flowers and applause, happiness and romance. It seems that as long as divorce, life will be better!

Is there such a simple thing in the world? What's more, getting married is a major event that affects the whole body! Can divorce really be done once and for all? It's not that simple! Only people who stand and talk like babies will persuade people to divorce, and only fake emotional masters who have never seen the world will add fuel to the fire of many fragile marriages, instill poisoned chicken soup and keep coming up with bad ideas!

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Summarize one of the most important characteristics: whether it is because of extramarital affairs or other chores, most people will occasionally miss the past days after divorce! Most people will regret the original impulse and should not divorce! After all, most divorced people regret it!

Not only those couples who divorce because of general contradictions will regret it, but also those who have had extramarital affairs will regret it! Even people who are hurt by extramarital affairs will regret after divorce! I've talked to more than 200 men and women who have been hurt by extramarital affairs. More than half of people think that they should not divorce at the beginning, but should choose to forgive and give each other a chance!

Before divorce, many people yearned for a better life, or dreamed of escaping from suffering, but after divorce, they often lived worse than before! This is the common feature of second marriage today! But now that I'm divorced, what's the use of regret?

Always advise people to cherish marriage, no matter what problems they encounter in marriage, the integrity of marriage should be the bottom line that everyone should finally stick to! Whether it is really unbearable, for the sake of children and the elderly, please carefully consider the following questions. If you want to leave after thinking about it, it is really the end of fate, whatever.

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1, please think about it, what is the reason why you can't live? Is your marriage really dead? Is there no room for manoeuvre?

This question should be thought over at least ten times. I won't lie to you. When you plan to divorce, think about it more than ten times a day, and you will get new insights every time! You have to believe that there were people who wanted a divorce more than you, but they persisted and the marriage became better! Do you have the heart to miss the happiness in front of you?

Please think it over before you divorce. Where are your children?

Since it is a divorce, it means that love has been completely destroyed. Love does not exist, and the relationship between husband and wife is not as good as passers-by! Children need to grow up. Divorce doesn't matter, but can you figure out the psychological shadow of the child? Can you stand being bossed around and scolded by your stepmother and stepfather all day after divorce? Not bad. Cann't stand it?

3. Think it over before divorce. What will you do in the future?

Do you think your future life will be smooth after divorce? After the divorce, you divorced! Most people don't know how bitter the second marriage is, and most people look at the future too simply! Many people may live alone for life after divorce!

4. Before the divorce, think about what your friends and witnesses of your love will do. How do you explain it?

There are relatives and friends here. People are used to calling you big brother and sister-in-law. How to change your mind after divorce? How do you change your mind? The longer couples get married, the less likely they are to get divorced. The way of the world is not clear in a few words!

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People have advised him not to leave since ancient times. Were the ancients stupid? The ancients were smarter than you! It makes sense to persuade or not to persuade, because divorced people will regret it!

Married people are adults, not children. Everyone can be willful, but you can't be willful to your family. It's not your own. Don't be willful to old people and children, you are not qualified. Cherish marriage, wait until your children and grandchildren are full, and when your great-grandchildren crawl around the world, you will know that although life is a bit difficult, you have made a long life together. This is a perfect marriage. At that time, there must be many lonely old people who missed that year in the cold wind. I hope it's not you! From now on, cherishing marriage is actually cherishing your future!