Boyfriend is not self-motivated and can't bear any pressure. What should I say if I want to break up?

First of all, you want to break up with him, and you don't want me just because he is not motivated. But because he didn't listen to you, he let you down countless times, thus killing your feelings for him. But if you think back, why did you kiss each other during your love? What did you like him for? He must have been a little unusual and attracted you. If you think about the happy memories of the two of you in the process of love, your mind has gradually dispelled the idea of breaking up. Instead of choosing to tolerate him blindly as before, it will only make you want to break up with him countless times. In the end, I could have broken up peacefully, and finally I became an enemy from a lover.

If you decide not to break up, what you should do now is to have a good talk with him and let him know that he is a man. If he gets married in the future, he will be the pillar of the family, and there will be a lot of things to carry on his shoulders, so you should exercise your ability to resist pressure slowly. If you don't make positive progress, it's hard to manage your family and your own food. Isn't that a man who lived in vain all his life? You should talk it over with him in an audible tone. If he makes progress, you two will have a good life. If you don't improve, don't give him another chance, then disconnect completely.

If you still decide to wait, ask him out sometime. Tell him that if your boyfriend Aoki wants to be excellent, the most basic thing is to be positive. Break up peacefully.

Follow your heart.