A poor family leads to a bad family (essay)

As the saying goes, a poor family gives birth to a dutiful son, and the national disaster shows loyalty. The meaning of this sentence is that only when the family is poor can we find a true dutiful son, and only when the nation is in danger can we show a true loyal minister. Fan Zhongyan in the Northern Song Dynasty lost his father in his childhood. He lives with his mother and is poor. He cuts porridge into pieces and pickles into pieces every day to cook for a day. This is the famous story of cutting porridge and pigs. After Fan Zhongyan became an official, he immediately took over his mother, took care of her, filial piety her and supported her life. Later, Fan Zhongyan finally became a famous writer, politician and strategist in the Northern Song Dynasty, and his prose The Story of Yueyang Tower also became a masterpiece.

A filial child must be a person who is beneficial to the family, society and nation in the future, and a person who contributes to the family, society and country must also be a dutiful son. It is hard to imagine that a descendant who can't even be filial to his parents can still expect him or her to make contributions to the family, society and even the country, or even devote his or her life.

In today's society, there are also some dutiful sons who were born in poor families or grew up in rich families. Their stories are inspiring, touching and deeply educated. They are the hope of society, the hope of the nation and the future of the country.

However, it is undeniable that while our society produces dutiful sons, it also produces a group of rebellious sons, rebellious sons from poor families. Last year, a man named Pei Mou in Gaoyou, Yangzhou City, Jiangsu Province, canceled the wedding because his family couldn't get a high-priced bride price when he got married. Pei was angry and killed his mother Zhao cruelly. Earlier, in 2008, a young man named Tucki killed his father and hid his dismembered body in the refrigerator. Let's go back to the Wu case, which was hotly debated in the previous stage. Please forgive me for not discussing the details of this case in depth. There are also tensions with parents, parents are abused, and the elderly are not supported. In a society that advocates socialist core values as the main theme, why is there a tragic scene in which human life concerns the sky? Why?

China has a vast territory and a civilization of 5,000 years. It once created a prosperous time when all countries came to Korea and all directions came to congratulate. Filial piety has always been the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. How many touching stories of dutiful sons have inspired future generations, passed down from generation to generation and rooted in the hearts of ordinary people. Filial piety is also an important cornerstone of our Chinese culture from generation to generation.

However, in recent years, the "legendary" stories of rebellious sons have frequently appeared in the media, which has caused extremely bad social impact. In principle, the high development of material civilization can't bring about the corresponding comprehensive leap of spiritual civilization? In order to improve the ratings, some bad media openly promote money worship, and online works promote mercenary, fantasy, supernatural and horrible extreme individualism, which seriously poisons teenagers and distorts personal outlook on life and values. Such people are selfish and indifferent. They regard ugliness as beauty, evil as good, hurt their families and endanger society.

In the eyes of ordinary people, children born to poor families must be dutiful sons, and it is said that children from poor families are in charge early, and children from rich families are likely to rebel. The reason is that they are pampered, spoiled, ignorant of human fireworks, self-centered, indifferent to their parents, and ignorant of the hardships and sufferings of the bottom people. Isn't this kind of family more important?

Things are not exactly what people think, sometimes the opposite is true.

Parents of wealthy families often have the following characteristics: high educational level, good self-cultivation, rich knowledge, wide experience, rich contacts and social resources. They know the importance of educating children and how to do it. For example, Hong Kong tycoons Huo and Guo Jingjing take their children to work every Sunday.

Now, there is a name: the rich second generation of poor families. Neighbors are a working couple. Men do manual work and women do cleaning. Their son uses an Apple 7 mobile phone. They are reluctant to eat, give their children the best, wear and give their children the best. No matter how tired they are, they can't be tired of their children, and no matter how hard they are, they can't be tired of their children, so the phenomenon of poor families has arisen. The poor family became traitors, killing their father and mother, losing all human relations and humanity. It's really painful and sad! This is a tragedy of family and society. They also have a beautiful yearning for the future, dreaming that their children can get ahead. The rebels struggled to raise the butcher knife and fell in a pool of blood!

The author believes that the reasons for this phenomenon come from two aspects, one is society, and the other is family.

Family reasons show that parents are poor and rebellious, and children finally rebel, and parents play the most critical role. The author believes that there are the following types: First, how can parents teach their children well if they don't have three views?

Second, parents are busy making a living and spend too little time with their children, which leads to alienation and estrangement.

Third, parents' improper education methods, such as doting and being strict, completely go to two extremes.

Fourth, parents' educational level is too low to know how to educate their children.

Social environment, everyone is the same, under a blue sky, breathing the same air, but because of everyone's inherent personality differences, because of different education, because of differences in family members and family culture, this social phenomenon has emerged. This is a social problem, which is even more chilling. Psychological education for teenagers is urgent and needs all of us. This kind of incident will not be completely eradicated. The author calls for the return of traditional filial piety education, so that Chinese filial piety can become an essential basic quality for everyone in China, especially teenagers, instead of just staying in the form, otherwise more tragedies will occur in the future.