What did you do when you were in love?

We often say that women in love have negative IQ, which I think may be true. Why else would I be paranoid? I spend every day in panic, as if the other person could break up with me the next minute. Every day, I think about what the other party is afraid of making mistakes, so sometimes I die.

I often check his cell phone. Although I know this behavior is incorrect, I just can't help it. We usually know each other's mobile phone password, but there is no privacy problem, but sometimes I am very serious, especially when he keeps playing with his mobile phone and feels that something is going to happen. I have to read it myself to rest assured. In fact, nothing happened, and gradually he got a little tired of me.

Another time, we had a good relationship, but I just went looking for trouble and wanted to break up with him. In fact, I just want to prove that I am very important in his heart, because he will take the initiative to coax me every time. None of us should learn from me. If the quarrel lasts for a long time, there is only one choice, breaking up. Cherish each other emotionally and don't do these things for yourself.

Besides, I never let him look at other girls outside and let him talk to girls. I know my behavior is too much, but I just can't control myself and want him to stay with me forever. Sometimes I will go with him when they eat in their unit, and I am afraid that some girls want to be close to him. The only way for me to do this is to break up, but now I also want to understand that I won't do such a thing again.