See "My First Half Life" and realize the life of a woman.

In the past, when I was at work, I was as busy as a bee all day. Within eight hours of work, I always try my best to let people see my efforts, and I never dare to beg. The other ten hours that belong to me, besides eating and sleeping time necessary for commuting and maintaining physical fitness, are also responsible for the daily life of the family. The rest of the time is very few, and I can't wait to keep my heels forward, and I don't even get enough sleep every day. How can I be in the mood to pursue drama in luxury? However, since I got sick, because I can't do anything, I have more leisure time. Boring dog blood dramas and soap operas that I used to despise have become the best way for me to spend my lonely time.

Recently, I was chasing an urban emotional drama "The First Half of My Life", in which the heroine Luo Zijun suddenly had to start her life again because of her husband's ruthless marriage change from a pampered full-time wife. There are no ups and downs in the play, everything is natural, dull and true. Every character in the play seems to be our friends, colleagues and even you and me in reality. Life is not smooth sailing for everyone, as the narrator said: life is an unfathomable sea. Yes! On the seemingly calm sea, there may be rocks and undercurrents below, and I don't know when the waves will suddenly set off. Most of us, however, are a small boat drifting on the sea. Sudden changes often make us helpless, even the change of fate and the sinking of life. Luo Zijun, the heroine of the play, suddenly realized that no one was her safe haven after her life was zero.

In the face of love, a woman's brain becomes stupid and her IQ is almost zero. The love in their hearts is so pure and sacred. There are not only love stories of beautiful women and poor boys on the screen, but also countless in real life. Marriage always seems to be the ultimate goal of love development. The poor boy made a promise of love, and the woman broke through the tight encirclement and pursued her happiness without hesitation. Both Luo Zijun and her sister in the play are like this. However, the deep affection is finally diluted by the triviality and triviality of life. When the once poor boy becomes an independent and successful social elite, professional differences and communication barriers will also make him ruthless. Luo Zijun is undoubtedly a victim. She is addicted to the life of food and clothing, forgetting that marriage also needs to be preserved. This kind of preservation is not to go to a famous brand in buy buy, pack herself up and down, or do a SPA or something like that. She ignores her internal cultivation and improvement. In most couples, men have a worse sense of responsibility for their families and children than women. It is much easier to break up a family than to reorganize it. The third party in the play justifiably defends himself: "Even if it weren't for me, Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun would have lived like years." The women in the play, divorced, single and of all ages, are all looking for their own marriage. Probably marriage is the safest and most practical shelter for women. They wandered around, met, missed or got separated ...

Zijun, who lost her financial resources and was unable to survive, was forced by life and had to enter the workplace and be divorced from society for so many years. She had almost no competitive advantage. However, the workplace is even more chaotic. No matter what class of occupation, the survival rules are basically survival of the fittest, the law of the jungle, and intrigue. There are not many people who hide their swords in the front and hide their swords in the back, and there are many people who want to climb on others' shoulders. The workplace is not pure, even if you just want to get paid through your own labor and show no ambition, you will inevitably be regarded as an imaginary enemy and competitor, otherwise you will have to pretend to be deaf and stupid. Zijun, who just entered the workplace, didn't work hard and didn't want to do his job well, but he still lost his first job. Fortunately, with friends, she can move towards higher ideals and goals step by step. The workplace always seems to be men's world. If a woman has no relationship and background, it is much more difficult to rise to a high position. Therefore, most people who have worked for many years are just shrimp and irreplaceable. The workplace is not peaceful, we need to look at the wind direction and take sides ... There are still hidden rules in the workplace, and the boss's difficulties and whispers behind it make it difficult for newcomers to gain a foothold. However, the strong social relationship of friends finally made Zijun receive incredible preferential treatment, which also made us see the workplace clearly: the leader said that you can do it, and you can't do it if you can't. In a second, the subversion of black and white and the wrong comments determine the fate of a workplace person. Of course, there are people in the workplace who only watch you do things like Aunt Wu, but such people are rare. Luo Zijun is lucky. She has affectionate and righteous friends who are willing to go through fire and water for her without asking for anything in return. This is the most precious wealth in her life.

In fact, everyone has potential, which can only be shown when stimulated. The woman who is almost unattractive in the eyes of her ex-husband keeps growing and making progress through hard work, which makes people sit up and take notice. Achievement is not only to make yourself happy, but also to make people who have despised and insulted themselves reflect well. Life is neither long nor short. Don't live with pretence. Be proud of live high's dignity and let everyone see what you have lived hard. For some people, it seems that life is always somewhere else, and it is good to look at others. Chen Junsheng, who entered the marriage again, also became bored in the repetition of daily necessities.

Marriage is like a besieged city. Some people want to come out and others want to go in. For most women, marriage and family are what they are willing to spend their whole lives together and defend. When Zijun's best friend, Tang Jing, a courageous and independent strong woman in the workplace, unexpectedly gave birth to an insignificant minor illness, she woke up from a dream and felt that accidents in life could happen all the time. When you are dying, it doesn't matter what job you don't work and what others think of you. What she wants to do most is to go back and marry He Han, who has been in love for more than ten years, but is still wandering because of the pride and reserve of both sides. As she said: "Choosing to get married is not just wearing a ring or a wedding dress, but choosing a new way of life." Before that, she always disdained Zijun's housewife life. Now she is going to get married like Zijun ten years ago, and Zijun has to catch up with Tang Jing's life in her twenties because of divorce. There is no right or wrong in life, and there is no right or wrong in marriage. Only in marriage can women feel safe. No one can hold an umbrella for you all your life, except yourself. Women in marriage can't rely on it, but need independence. It is very important to know what they can do and what they can do.

Life is wonderful for women. Some people want to go down the mountain and retire after seeing enough scenery. Some people have just found the pleasure of climbing and are trying to climb up. Some people are still at the foot of the mountain, waiting for the weather, mood and time to be just right. When everything is just right, I am afraid that the mountain is not the original one.