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How to deal with a marriage without sexual life?

1, if analyzed from a man's point of view, his sexual ability is problematic, which is the last problem that men want to face, because what men fear most is the word "no". But if a man doesn't pay attention to this problem, then he may be afraid to see a doctor. At this time, his wife should encourage him to show how much he cares about his family and hope to go with him to see if the man is willing to confirm this problem and receive treatment. 2. If the other party is still unwilling, then the wife can consider divorce, because in a family without love, the harm to the children is the greatest, and the children's three views on marriage will be subverted. There is no sexual life between husband and wife. If you are interested in communicating with each other, you can learn how to communicate more, you can guide each other to help more from their children and yourself, and you can also guide each other to join the family to praise each other for giving them confidence, which will also have a positive impact on physiology. 4. Children can be used as a bridge of interaction, and some parent-child activities can be arranged, such as watching movies and having an outing to enhance the feelings of both sides. The above is the introduction of how to deal with a marriage without sexual life, hoping to help everyone. The expression that the wife doesn't want to live is 1. When the husband comes home at night, his wife will keep calling to urge him. If a woman doesn't want to live, this kind of performance doesn't exist. Even if her husband doesn't come home all night, she doesn't care. 2. A woman wants to end her marriage. No matter what the other party does, she doesn't care. In fact, even a good wife can find fault. When a woman loses her feelings, it's like being locked in a cage, and she really wants to escape. As long as you don't break up with your husband, you are very happy under the same roof with others. If she doesn't like going home, then she wants to break up. How to deal with a marriage without sexual life? Asexual marriage refers to a marriage without sex. Sociologists say that if there is no physical illness or accident between husband and wife, but there is no tacit sexual life for more than a month, it is a asexual marriage. Asexual marriage also means that both men and women form a husband-and-wife relationship on the basis of promising not to have sex. Some time ago, I also learned about "asexual" marriage with some married friends. For them, if there is love between husband and wife, there is no harm in having sex. If there is no love between husband and wife, there will be no physical contact, and such a marriage will make people crazy. To be precise, that is to say, if a couple does not have sex, but has intimate actions such as kissing and hugging, they can also feel love for each other instead of having sex. However, if one party "coldly treats" the other party for a long time without any physical contact, this is the most tormenting and chilling. Liu Shufen and Xu Bochang in the movie Nothing Want are the typical representatives of the second "asexual" marriage. Liu Shufen and Xu Bo often belong to two strangers living under the same roof. They don't talk, sleep in separate beds, eat, drink and even share a piece of cake. Their marriage has reached the point of mutual torture. This kind of marriage is really painful, and it is certain that there is no love between them. Living under the same roof, I still hope that one of them is the intimate partner of the other, not the most annoying stranger. Just like there is a saying in Zhihu: If there is love in marriage, then sex only accounts for'10% of marriage; If there is no love in marriage, then sex accounts for 90% of marriage. Can there be love in a marriage without sex between husband and wife? To solve this problem, we might as well listen to the heart of a married woman. Qingmang is a newly divorced middle-aged woman. She finally chose to divorce her husband. Qing Mang said that her marriage is like Liu Shufen in Mo Wen West East, and her heart is extremely desolate. Besides, I always think it's hard to say, and I can't tell anyone clearly. Qingmang said he was married like a fake. They have children, but after having children, she and her husband are in a state of less and less contact. Sometimes Qingmang wondered if she was too passive, but when she took the initiative to think that her husband was approaching and her husband was still dodging, she realized that there was something wrong with their marriage. The husband didn't want to have any physical contact with Qingmang. Even if Qingmang asked for a hug, the husband refused. In the end, they had no choice but to sleep in separate rooms, but what about sleeping in separate rooms? It will only make the marriage of two people in a more embarrassing and hopeless situation. Qingmang once humbly asked her husband: Did you love her? Husband said yes, I love you, but I don't want to have physical contact with you. What her husband said made Qing Mang feel ridiculous. She felt cheated, so she approved the marriage, and then she lost love and sex and had to divorce. Also, how much love can asexual marriage have? If it's because I'm too busy at work, it's understandable, but how much love can this marriage have if I don't even want to talk about it? If we strictly follow the definition of asexual marriage, Ning's marriage also belongs to asexual marriage. After having children, Ning and her husband basically have sex once every two or three months, which is also a asexual marriage by definition. But Ning Xiaoguo knows what their problem is. They are both too busy. Xiaoguo was busy taking care of the children, and her body never recovered after giving birth. The disharmony in sexual life also made her somewhat resistant to this aspect. On the other hand, the husband is also very busy. Sometimes it's one o'clock in the morning when he works overtime for entertainment. How can he think of this? Xiaoguo is also very tired to take care of the children alone. Children are really annoying when they are young. Another reason is that they don't see a good time. Sometimes when two people are ready, the child suddenly wakes up. For various reasons, their husband and wife life is getting less and less. However, Xiao Guo said that she could feel the love between them. Sometimes, although her husband is very tired, he still wants to hug her, which makes Xiao Guo feel very warm. For Ning Xiaoguo, sex is harmless. As long as the husband takes this family seriously, they can still hug and kiss, which is enough for them. Can there be love in a marriage without sex between husband and wife? Ning said that there is love in their marriage, because she and her husband will still stay on the sofa and watch TV, hug each other and sleep together, and sometimes kiss each other. How can they not love each other?