Tell me about the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

1, lev tolstoy said: "All happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." I said, "Happy families are all similar, because the daughter-in-law meets a good mother-in-law. The unfortunate family has its great misfortune, because the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are equal in skill, neck and neck, and they are thorns in each other's eyes, twisted into twists to live, strange and awkward. "

2. Treat your son as a treasure, carefully hold it in your hand, and treat your daughter-in-law as a grass. I'm so disgusted that I can't wait to pull it out in minutes. Good flowers need green leaves to set off. Besides, I am also a precious daughter at home, and my parents take good care of me. Into your house, all the way down. My haggard and pitiful appearance almost made my mother cry.

3. Why do women bother women? Can't they get along in peace and friendship for the same man they love deeply? Maternal love is great, which is a universally recognized philosophy, but the essence of love is different. Can the love between husband and wife be compared with maternal love? Husband and wife have their own private lives, their recognized emotional attitudes and value judgments. The mother-in-law of the older generation always meddles in the affairs of the younger generation. When encountering problems, they often can't talk calmly, so they can only rely on the old to sell the old. This is not a positive and healthy psychological cognition, it will only cause the daughter-in-law to complain and the son to be embarrassed.

4. I got up late when I didn't go to work on weekends, and my husband didn't have breakfast in time. You called me a slacker and told my husband not to spoil me. Apply a mask for a few dollars at night. You said I was a devil who squandered money. You said that my child is a few years old, not serious, wild-minded, regardless of home. Watching videos on the computer, you say I waste electricity, why not watch TV programs in the lobby with everyone; You said my room was a mess, and I was too lazy to clean it up. When you see me wiping the floor with a towel, say I'm too extravagant and prude. You often say that you were born in a rural family, and it is extremely difficult for your son to earn such a life today. I also said that I am not a lazy girl. I have been independent and self-reliant since childhood, and my learning ability is not bad. Now I have my own job. I have nothing to do with your family. I have my own life principles and bottom line. The prerequisite for people to be respected is to learn to respect others first.

I buy things for my parents with my own money. As a daughter, it is natural that I should be filial to my parents. People should know how to put themselves in others' shoes.