Talk about the feeling and mood of love.

Love is free and does not expect too much in return. Love is the connection between heart and heart. When the other person needs help, when he/she is in trouble, he/she is given support, which adds an impetus to his/her life. Love can't be supported by one person, it needs the sincere support of both sides. In life, the most important thing to love a person is to respect his/her own independent time and space so that he/she can help himself/herself.

When you have love, please cherish it. Feel the joy of life brought by love. Love is not only sweet, but also delicious. Love may not be smooth sailing, but it will be more perfect after suffering, and you will sincerely pay no regrets for love. The feeling of love is always sweet at first. I always feel that with one more person to accompany you and share with you, you are finally no longer lonely. No matter what you do, at least one person thinks of you and loves you. With the deepening of mutual understanding, we began to find each other's shortcomings, so problems followed. You start to feel bored, tired and even want to escape. Some people say that love is like picking up a stone. You always want to find one that suits you, but how do you know when you can find it?

In fact, love is like grinding a stone. You may not be so satisfied when you first find it, but remember that people are flexible and many things can be changed. As long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have.

Many people think that people become lazy because of their weak feelings.

No! In fact, people are conquered by inertia first, so feelings will fade.

At a dinner party, it was suggested that eating more shrimp is good for health. At this moment, a middle-aged man suddenly said,' Ten years ago, when my wife was my girlfriend, she said she would eat ten shrimps, and I peeled twenty for her! Now, if she wants me to help her peel shrimp shells, just kidding! I'm not even interested in helping her undress. I'm still peeling shrimp shells! "

Did you get a look at him? Do you understand?

No wonder more and more people just want to be in love for life, but they don't want to get married. Because marriage makes people lazy. If everyone is too lazy to talk, too lazy to listen, too lazy to create surprises, too lazy to be gentle and considerate, then how can lovers or lovers not drift away and become silent?

So please remember: energetic love needs moderate and diligent irrigation.

Originally, a couple had an appointment to have dinner and go shopping together after work, but the girl was delayed because of the company meeting. When she arrived in the rain, she was already more than 30 minutes late. Her boyfriend was very unhappy and said,' You always do this. I'm not in the mood now. I will never wait for you again! In a flash, the girl finally burst its banks and collapsed. She is thinking: Maybe they have no future!

Similarly, in the same place, another couple faces the same situation; The girl was half an hour late, and her boyfriend said,' I think you must be very busy!'

Then he wiped the rain off the girl's face and took off his coat to cover her. At this moment, the girl shed tears! But the tears running down her cheeks are warm. Do you feel it?

In fact, love and hate are often between our thoughts! Love should not only be tolerant, but also timely. Many things may lie in the change of your mood!

You got it? When a person falls in love with you, you think he is good. That doesn't mean you will choose him.

We always say,' I want to find someone you love so that you can fall in love.' But when the other person asks what you mean by loving you very much, you can't answer him because you don't know it yourself.

Yes, we always think that we will find someone we love very much. But later, when we suddenly look back, we will realize how naive we were. If you never start, how do you know if you will love that person very much?

In fact, the feeling of loving very much will not be realized until we have experienced a lot of things together. Maybe everyone wants to find a 100% partner in their own mind, but have you ever thought: "Will someone around you have been quietly paying for you for a long time, but you don't realize it and take her (his) contribution for granted?"

So, take a closer look at the people around you! He may have been waiting for you for a long time! Some people say that when you drink, you feel most comfortable when you are half drunk. Muscles can relax and everything you see is lovely. If you continue to drink, you will probably have a splitting headache and feel uncomfortable all over the body the next day, and completely lose the fun of drinking. When eating, seven points of satisfaction is the most comfortable. With the smell of food in your mouth, plus dessert and fruit after dinner, it is definitely enough to keep fit. If you continue to eat, you will probably have an upset stomach, want to sleep after eating too much, and completely lose the fun of eating. When you love someone, it is absolutely just right to love to eight points. All expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points; The remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. Often after you love someone, you really want to love him, but you don't know how to love yourself. In fact, this is a mistake. Love is mutual and equal. Don't take her (or his) love for you as a weight. She (or he) dotes on you because she loves you, so you should love her more.

My friend asked me that day:' What should I do to love someone?'

I smiled and said to him,' In fact, everyone has different views on love. If you say it right, it will enlighten you, but if you are afraid of saying it wrong, it will become misleading. "That's too bad,"

If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some enlightenment: love a person, understand, understand; To apologize, but also to thank; Admit mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; Is to accept, not endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is sympathy, not questioning; It is to talk, not to blame; It is unforgettable, not forgotten;

Communicate with each other, not explain everything; Pray for each other silently, instead of making many demands on each other; Can be romantic, but don't waste it; You can hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually.

If you do it, even if you no longer love someone, you will only have nostalgia and feelings in your heart, and there will be no resentment.

Before I got married, my marriage was very happy, considerate and caring. Maybe laziness after marriage really created an illusion for me. When talking about what happiness is, Uncle Fan Debiao West said, "Happiness means I'm hungry. He was happier than me when he saw someone holding a meat bun in his hand. " I'm cold. He was happier than me when he saw someone wearing a thick cotton-padded jacket. I want to go to the toilet. It's just a pit. If you crouch there, you will be happier than me. "Some netizens also said:" Happiness means that cats eat fish, dogs eat meat, and Altman hits monsters! "Everyone has their own feelings about happiness, and so does love. Everyone's love is a movie, and I am the protagonist and director of this movie. Is this film performed by myself an art film? Sad film? Silent movie? Commercial film? Disaster film or pornography? It all depends on your attitude towards life! In 2006, there were 6,529,426,000 people in the world, and 6,700 languages around the world were saying, "I love you! """I love you" is only three words, and love only needs two people! In this neon painting world, how many couples can love each other for life? Like love songs, the highest realm is the lingering sound.

The saddest thing is not revenge, but regret

The best love is bound to have regrets. That regret has become a lingering sound, so we should pay attention to it.

The most beautiful love, don't cry for the land, just care for each other silently.

Disappointment, sometimes, is a kind of happiness

I will be disappointed because I have expectations.

Regret is also a kind of happiness Because there are things you regret.

Pursuit of love, and then found that love has always been a thousand turns, love is not as hard as we thought. There are many beauties worth discovering in life. These are some short stories about love in life, just like a refreshing cup of coffee, which comforts our hearts and warms our wandering at midnight.

insist on

Rong is the most beautiful girl in the compound. Wherever she goes, the scenery is beautiful. Many boys prostrated themselves under beautiful skirts. However, Rong's pursuit of everyone is faint, with no special antipathy or special liking.

After a long time, suddenly one day, all the boys gave up. There is a simple reason. According to reliable sources, Rong has had congenital heart disease since childhood. Although it doesn't affect his normal life, he can never afford to raise children. Rong finally heard the rumor, but she didn't give any explanation. No explanation is the default. Boys finally understand why Rong is always tepid and begin to regret wasting their youth.

On this day, a boy walked into her house and courted her. Rong only asked: don't you know I have a heart attack? If you marry me, aren't you afraid of breaking the incense?

The boy said, I thought for a long time and wanted to give up. However, I think I love you. I don't want to give up my love for you for the unknown future. Even without children, I still have you.

Rong is married. To the surprise of others, Rong gave birth to a boy for him after a year and a half of marriage. The original rumor broke down.

How hard is it to get a person's heart? Perseverance is the best sail.

faith

This is the story of mom and dad.

At that time, it was still the Cultural Revolution. Grandpa, as a surrendered Kuomintang soldier, was sentenced to counter-revolution in history, and Dad, as a child of the Black Five, was forced to reform through labor. Mom and dad were already in love before they were transformed. That year, my father was 23 and my mother was 20.

Mother was born, is the child of standard proletarian industrial workers, and belongs to the successor of the party's cause. Regardless of other people's eyes, she continued to visit her father on time. Until my father finished his reform career and married my mother. When my father was 33, he had me.

Many times, I asked my mother why she didn't want to give up. Mom just smiled and said, I also want to give up, but I just couldn't figure it out at the time. I have no reason not to believe in your father's kindness. I don't believe what they say. Your father is really not a bad person.

Mom and dad's life is very ordinary, but it is because of trust that ordinary life has more respect and romance.

high-capacity

Once, my brothers went to a friend's house to watch a ball game.

Men can't watch football without smoking. It was not until the end of the game that we found that we had smoked three boxes of cigarettes. My friend's wife has been with us, but she didn't say anything. Just when we are not paying attention, open the window and let in fresh air. We find it strange. Why don't you care whether he smokes like us? A buddy asked.

My friend's wife smiled and said, I also know that smoking is harmful to health, but if smoking can make him happy, why should I stop it? I would rather let my husband live happily to 60 years old than barely live to 80 years old. After all, a person's happiness can't be bought at any time and money.

Let's take a look at this friend again. He has given up smoking. Asked why, he said with a silly smile: She can think of my happiness, and I can't let myself leave her 20 years earlier.

Quitting smoking was originally the focus of a family's contradiction. However, because of the wife's tolerance, this laborious thing vanished in peace.

treasure

A friend has a new house. Let's go and congratulate him.

I always feel uncomfortable when I enter his house. After reading it for a long time, I realized that under the exquisite decoration, some old furniture was still preserved. Many friends asked: Why not throw away these old things? It's not like I have no money to buy a new one.

He and his wife stood beside these old furniture and asked us, which one do you think should be thrown away? This camphor box is where she put her dowry clothes; This double bed is the wedding bed where we spent three months' salary together; This cabinet was bought in the first year of our child's birth, and now there are clothes for children from childhood to adulthood in the cabinet.

We suddenly understood the reason why the enviable couple lived in harmony. In their hearts, they all cherish some old bits and pieces. Because these bits and pieces have not been abandoned, their love has not been eroded by glitz under the changes of time, and has always maintained its original purity and sweetness.

Liang Shan

He is the general manager of the company, but she is only a taxi driver. When they got married, many people wanted to know how such an ordinary-looking woman found a rich husband so easily. He just took her car at that time, and it was when he was slightly drunk at night. Like many drunk people, he forgot to take his bag when he got off the bus. In fact, there is no huge sum in the bag, only a locked mobile phone and some general business information. He slept until midnight and suddenly woke up to find someone's phone number, only to find that he had left his bag in the taxi.

Actually, he didn't mind too much. If he loses it, he loses it. This is not the first time. However, he habitually went to the window to look down and even saw a taxi waiting for him.

She fell asleep in the taxi in order to wait for him to get her bag. After waking up, she simply said: if something falls, it will delay things. Your mobile phone is locked, so it's hard to find you, so I can only wait here. You will always remember it when you go to work tomorrow morning.

Because of this sentence, he saw the goodness in her heart. The intrigue in the shopping mall made him lose his trust in people, but meeting her made him find the most important treasure in life.

Share the burden

Two families live door to door, one is an ordinary healthy person, and the other is a blind and paralyzed woman. Many people think that when two families live together, the healthy one is full of joy and the disabled one is full of difficulties.

The opposite is true. Healthy couples always quarrel over trifles, but there is always happiness on the face of disabled families. So, a healthy family goes to ask: Why do we have everything, but we are not happy? And your family, so difficult, has always maintained such a high enthusiasm for life?

The paralytic said, why should I not be happy? I can't go out, he carried me behind my back and let me see the beautiful flowers in the world together; The blind man said, although I can't see anything, I know where things are with her.

Only when healthy couples go home to reflect can they understand that they always want to live in their own way and never consider each other's needs. So they have been arguing constantly, always blaming each other for not understanding themselves.

In fact, under our sound appearance, there are often disabilities that we can't see. The road of life is very long. Only by learning to share can we go further.

Inclined to listen

She found a long hair on his shirt, and she has short hair. She found that he sometimes answered the phone to avoid her.

She told these findings to her best friend, who immediately told her that your husband must be having an affair. She thought about it, maybe it is also possible. After all, he has been in the middle of the company, and he is getting old.

Intimate friend said: there is only one way to make trouble with him. If you are sorry for me, I can't make you happy!

When she got home, she looked at his photo and asked herself, What is this for? Seriously, after so many years of family life and busy work, their husband and wife rarely communicate. If he really had an affair, did he do something wrong? Suddenly, she knew that she still loved him, but she felt strange.

She slowly tried to chat with her husband before going to bed at night. As time goes by, they chat with each other longer and longer before going to bed, and their feelings become sweeter and sweeter.

It doesn't matter whether he is having an affair or not. What's important is that they know what each other is thinking by listening to the voice in their hearts, so that the fading flower of love can bloom like the first time.

brave

Because the boy's family was poor, when she fell in love with him, all her relatives and friends were unanimously opposed to her. After all, they are so mismatched from their looks to their families.

When he broke up after graduating from college, he said to her: You wait for me for five years. In five years, I will definitely come back to marry you. After that, the boy turned south to Shenzhen and threw himself into the vast crowd of gold diggers. There has been no news between them for five years.

Five years later, the boy really fulfilled his promise and made up for her five years of youth with the most beautiful wedding.

Many people ask the bride: haven't you hesitated for five years? After all, girls don't have five years of youth to wait.

She said: Yes, I am worried, but I can't help being brave for love. I tell myself every morning that I will stick to it for another day, even if it is the last day. Even if he doesn't come back, I will face my heart bravely.

For the man, someone asked the same question, and the boy only replied: For love, I must face all the ups and downs bravely.

Because of courage and persistence, two ordinary men and women created a miracle of love in the real society.

Love is a simple flower.

On a TV blind date program, the host asked the male guests at the scene what their ideal lover was like.

The first person said, young, beautiful and in good shape, it is good to look like a painting.

The second person said, it doesn't have to be beautiful, but the height is not less than 1.65 meters, and you need to know some piano, chess and calligraphy.

The third person said that he looks average, but he needs a degree, preferably a bachelor's degree. I can't get along with people who just graduated from junior high school.

The fourth man said, anything, but gentle, like water, or like a Japanese woman.

It's the last person's turn to speak. He pondered for a while and said that there were no conditions. As long as I think she is the inevitable person in my life and the one I want to love, I will choose her. Because I think love is a simple flower, it should be real, just like we usually chat, drink and eat, so as long as I think this girl is the one I should love, I don't need conditions.

His speech won a house full of applause. He was chosen as the most popular man in the TV matchmaker program. Finally, his speed dating succeeded. Looking at the happy smiling faces of girls, I know that happiness is already around them.

In fact, many things are like this. Don't imagine it is too complicated, so is love. It should be just a simple flower, blooming in Shan Ye, natural and beautiful. You can travel around the world with it. If you want to add many conditions and notes to love, it is not pure love.

There was once a boy and a girl who were particularly in love, but that boy had nothing but love for that girl at that time. In order to give the girl a stable future, the boy left the girl and went far away to explore the world. 10 years later, the boy became a rich man, but he lost the girl forever. The girl said, I would rather keep poverty and your love than have everything now. Love should be like air and water. With it, we will have the treasures of the world, and nothing can be exchanged. It can enrich our days and make our ordinary life full of brilliance, but without it, even if there is a treasure of the world, it is just a pile of loans.

So simply understand love, it is only the simplest flower in my heart. If you insist on adding any embellishment to it, it will only make this flower more hypocritical. The more things you add, the uglier you get, until you can't recognize it, and there is no shadow of love at all. So, in order to let it accompany you to the end of the world, let it be just a simple flower.

The feeling of love

Everyone has to find four people in his life. The first is himself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person who has spent his whole life. First he will meet the person you love the most, and then he will feel the feeling of love. Because you know what it feels like to be loved, you can find the person who loves you the most; When you have experienced love and being loved and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the person who suits you best and can get along with you for a lifetime. Unfortunately, in real life, these three people are often not the same person; What you love most often won't choose you; What loves you most is often not what you love most; The oldest person is not the person you love the most or the person who loves you the most, but the person who appears at the most appropriate time. Love is not possession. You like the moon, it is impossible to take it down and put it in the washbasin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can have it in another way, making your lover an eternal memory in your life. If you really love a person, you should love him for what he is-love his strengths and weaknesses, and never want him to become what he wants just because you love him. You can't say why you really love someone. You only know that whenever and wherever you are in a good mood, you want this person to accompany you. True love is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time, but there is no requirement at all. After all, feelings must be paid, not just wanted; True love does not turn into resentment. The vast sea of people, who did you meet? Who met you again?