Is it easy to be a door-to-door son-in-law

In China's traditional concept, the door-to-door son-in-law is a derogatory term, that is, a person who has no ability to earn money to support his family, has no strength to rely on himself, and can only make a living by being a gigolo.

Being a son-in-law is naturally not easy, even difficult. The first is the identity problem, which is also the most basic problem. It's no problem to meet someone with a good family and education. Maybe the son-in-law can get some status. If you meet a strong family, it's hard to say. It's simply torture for the son-in-law.

The second is economic rights. This is a key point. If a person can't control his own economic rights, there will be no freedom. The most terrible thing about a son-in-law is that he has no status and no money. Every day, he asks his wife for pocket money, which gradually wears away the spirit of a man and gradually becomes a pure gigolo.

The third difficulty is that parents provide for the elderly. The average family is that the man can take his parents to live and support the elderly, but if he becomes a son-in-law, even the idea is impossible. The parents in his hometown can only stay in their hometown, because this is the woman's home and they have no right to do such a thing.

The fourth is husband-wife relationship. Those who can afford a son-in-law must have a good family situation. If there is a contradiction between the man and the woman, the man can't quarrel, because the woman has the support of her parents and you live in someone else's house, so it's embarrassing to encounter this situation.

Therefore, it is still very difficult to be a door-to-door son-in-law, unless you have a successful career and can make others admire you, or you are an out-and-out white face who tolerates and opens up these contradictions everywhere.