My husband always thought I was a loser, saying that I could only do his laundry and cook, and nothing else could help him. He hates my poor ability and says I have no initiative. What should I do?

Most of what your husband thinks is wrong, and a few are reasonable. So see if you are willing to help him. If you are willing, take the initiative to help him share some things within his power, and the husband and wife will work together.

But don't try to be brave, you can't do it yourself, or you don't have the strength to do other things after busy housework, which won't help.

This is the general way to deal with it, and it depends on your husband's personality. It is useless for greedy and ungrateful people to do so.