What is your heart when you see that the old man is seriously ill and will leave?

The other person is my respected old man. Each of us is vulnerable to illness because there is nothing we can do. If we have the ability, we are willing to pay all the costs to keep the elderly alive. Therefore, it is very painful to watch the old man leave with helplessness and regret. We want to cry but dare not show it in front of him, trying to hide our feelings.

1, life is impermanent, and there is really nothing we can do in the face of birth, illness and death. When my father died, I was only 13 years old, and I couldn't really understand the pain of where you were going. My father-in-law died five years ago. During this time 1, I feel that life is impermanent. My father-in-law and I have been married for more than 20 years, and I have spent more time with my father. My father-in-law treats me like his own daughter. When my father-in-law died, I felt particularly uncomfortable. After learning the news at 8 o'clock in the evening, my mother-in-law and I rushed to the hospital. At that time, I felt that feeling was too painful, only for a few hours. My father-in-law fell asleep forever because of acute cerebral hemorrhage. At that time, I felt very uncomfortable. I didn't expect my father-in-law to open his eyes again. I can't help crying when I write here. In the face of life and death, are we really powerless?

If I have the ability, I am willing to change back his life. My father-in-law suddenly left, and my mother-in-law cried like a crybaby. The most important thing is that she can't accept reality. She was always there for no reason, and she was haggard during that time. I have also thought for countless times that if there is an opportunity, we will be able to exchange his life and let the old couple live together well and spend their old age safely. But life is such a reality, there is no medicine for regret, and there are not so many ifs and ifs. When my father-in-law left, we were sad for a long time, which left a deep pain for each of us. After my father-in-law left, I became angry and had a toothache and pulled out a big tooth. My wife got acute hypertension and insisted on taking medicine for five years. After my father-in-law died, our family was depressed. Sometimes I think, if possible, I sincerely hope that my father-in-law can stay with us forever and not leave?

However, this is life and we can't stop it. Looking at the moment when our loved ones are about to leave, our hearts are very painful and helpless. Sometimes we really hate diseases. Without this disease, we would not be separated from each other. After everything happened, I stood up again after being sad and told myself that I would start over and not think about any problems. Live high should live and be strong.