Who is happier in his later years, the old man with grandchildren or the old man without grandchildren? See what people who have been there say.

What do you imagine your old age will be like?

When I chat with my mothers, I always say: I don't want to help my children with their children in the future. Work hard for the children now, and help them take care of his children in the future. What free time do you have?

Ma Bao always suggested that if you don't give your children to others, people will blame you in the future. Look at those people who live in nursing homes. They are always abused. How miserable!

How children grow up and get married in the future is unknown. At least now many families have old people to help.

Every time I take my baby out for a walk, I will find that most of the children are followed by grandparents, and a family comes standard with at least one old man.

Yes, young people have the helplessness of young people: the pressure of life is high, the family expenses are high, and the elderly have no money to live and can't afford to raise a baby. If babies sign up for one or two interest classes, they can't afford to live!

Old people not only help with children, but also give money to young people.

There is a baby named Lele in the community. He got help from his grandparents. Parents' salary is not high, and grandpa will get a pension every month.

Maybe the old people at home often say. Every time the little guy comes out, he says: My parents earn less money at work, thanks to my grandpa's subsidy!

There are not a few elderly people who have contributed and paid. After all, after retirement, there is nothing to do but walk the birds and dance, help with the baby, and use the pension to pay the tuition and living expenses for the grandson.

Different people have different views on the matter of the old man taking the baby!

Sacrifice the freedom of old age, help children with children, make young people happy and make families happy!

"I have retired. I come to help my daughter take care of the children every day. We don't live together. My daughter goes to work, so do I. I'll leave when she comes back! "

Grandma DOG has come to take care of the children regularly every day for four years. Now that she is in her early years, her grandson is in kindergarten.

Compared with other old people's complaints, Grandma DOG is enthusiastic:

Why don't you take the baby? During the day, that is, when dancing in the square dance, the children need help, and when they are exhausted, they come to help the children. How happy the family is!

Many old people hold the idea of caring for their children and helping them tide over the difficulties when they need them.

Some old people also said:

You should have your own free time in your later years!

These old people have high self-pursuit, and they hope to have time to do their own things when they retire in their later years. When they were young, they devoted their time to their children and families. When I retire in my old age, I finally have some time to myself, so I should enjoy my old age.

Many people support the idea of these elderly people: they have been paying for their families for the first half of their lives, and they should always have their own time in their later years.

Happiness is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold. In fact, it is the same whether the old help the young to take care of the baby or not. Old people who like children are also happy to help young people take care of babies.

Old people who want to spend their old age easily will also have a good old age.

Young people can't take this as the standard of filial piety for the elderly, whether the elderly bring or not.

A few years ago, a sentence was particularly popular on the Internet:

No matter how young I am, I won't raise you old!

The whole network is following the trend: if the mother-in-law doesn't help with the baby, she will be left alone in the future.

But have you ever thought that no matter whether you take care of your mother-in-law, you can't change the fact that she is your child's grandmother or your husband's biological mother. Even if you don't take care of it, you can't interfere with your husband's filial piety in front of your in-laws.

It is a choice, a right, not an obligation for the elderly to take care of their children. Of course, young people can also refute: filial piety is the obligation of the husband, and the daughter-in-law has no such obligation.

If this is the understanding, then keep a bowl of soup away from your in-laws. Of course, you can also keep your husband away from your parents.

Just like papi sauce: get married for a few years and don't have to see each other's parents. Go home for the New Year and find every mother!

But most people can't do this kind of free and easy, so young people should know more about whether the elderly can help with the baby. After all, everyone is an independent personality and has the right to choose.

Is there an old man with a baby in your family? What do you think of old people taking care of babies?

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