I gave my daughter away 28 years ago, and now I am seriously ill and want my daughter back. Is this a moral kidnapping?

This kind of behavior is undoubtedly a moral kidnapping. Don't be too shameless.

One: The girl was sent away only 26 days after birth. Are people like this? In a special period, super life is really a very troublesome thing. Having more children will not only bring great pressure to society, but also bring a heavy burden to families. But then again, since it has become an established fact, it will not be born in the future! Isn't it the epitome of a happy life that the woman is ligated and the man makes money and raises the existing children together?

But Deng Hua and his wife in Zhoukou, Henan, just don't take the usual road. 1992, Deng Hua's wife, Gao Huai, had a third child, who was found to be a daughter after birth. This worries the couple. They already have two daughters, so what should we do? Then the couple began to calculate in their minds, and finally reached a unanimous decision, that is, to give away their daughter, which can not only reduce the burden on the family, but also satisfy the desire to have a son. After the agreement was reached, it meant that it was done, and a 26-day-old daughter was given to a couple in Shenyang with lightning speed. You think this is personnel? To put it mildly, it is the dog at home. Less than a month after birth, I can't bear to be taken away by others, let alone a person. Therefore, this couple is simply inhuman. Now that they are ill, they think of this daughter and want to get her back and meet her. What are you doing here? Moral kidnapping, it's useless. Let me tell you something.

Two: Both husband and wife have unknown addresses. Have you looked for your daughter? Don't pretend to be sympathetic, thank you! From the story of the couple, we can know that they have been looking for their third daughter for years, and they also released "Looking for You" on TV. However, they haven't heard from her for so many years, and finally they will go away. I want to laugh when I see this statement. Oh, I have already looked for it! Then can I understand it this way? Husband and wife have long found their conscience, and we have also gone to find our daughter through some channels, but we can't blame us. Now that my wife is ill, I miss my 28-year-old daughter very much and want to keep looking for her. I want to post a message on the internet, so please ask good people to help us. Titanium, I'm so ashamed of you. Have you looked hard? I am lying here with my eyes open. I don't believe that the internet only rose in these two years. If you really want to find it, you will post a message on the Internet to find your daughter. Why wait until today? Still playing risks here to gain sympathy, it is really that we netizens are fools and can't see your little tricks and careers. If you ask me, you should directly catch such people and help you find your daughter. Dream on!

Three: Illness is the retribution for doing bad things. Please don't disturb your daughter's quiet life. No matter what others think, I always think that parents' greatest kindness to their children is not only birth, but also education, which is the most important part of maintaining parent-child relationship. If you just gave birth to him (her) and didn't raise him (her), then the child has no obligation to take care of you. Just like Mr. and Mrs. Deng Hua in this incident, you took the initiative to give away your third daughter. You have done something wrong. Is it cruel for your daughter not to complain about you in turn, but to take the initiative to disturb her quiet life? For so many years, people regarded adoptive parents as their own biological parents, so suddenly another pair of biological parents appeared. Isn't this a bolt from the blue for her? If you are a person with poor endurance, you may pass it all at once. ) So if you have any conscience, you shouldn't be so selfish. If you are sick, you must be treated. Don't engage in moral kidnapping here. I can't believe you can't live without this daughter! If it can't be cured, forget about it. In addition, whether it can be found is another question. Even if you find it, I'm sure your daughter doesn't want to see you. I don't want to put this aside. Who can stand this kind of crit? If you really have nothing to do, then reflect on whether you got sick because you did something immoral before, and then God punished yourself.

Finally: Maybe what I said above is a little unreasonable, and some people will not accept it, but it is true. Moreover, this matter is put on any girl, and I don't think she can accept it for a while, and it takes a long time to digest it. Therefore, this also sounded the alarm for parents. Don't be born without raising, the child will be responsible for the end when he is born. Otherwise, don't bother your children, your regrets and your conscience are borne by yourself, and don't pass them on to your children, not to mention moral kidnapping.