What is a warm-hearted mother-in-law

I have met the warmest in-laws, who take good care of their families and have no complaints. We get along very well, which is really enviable. Have the following characteristics!

Don't interfere in the lives of your son and daughter-in-law.

Some mother-in-law is very controlling, as long as she wants to take care of her son. Even after her son gets married, she has to intervene in her life, which makes people feel that there is no personal space. Sometimes, because she doesn't understand the situation, it will get more and more chaotic and intensify contradictions, and the originally small things will eventually get out of hand. Some mothers-in-law don't care about these things. They think that when their son is married, they should not care so much, let alone tell them what to do with their lives. If there is any problem, the son and daughter-in-law will solve it themselves. As an outsider, she doesn't know the situation, and casually intervening will only make the situation worse. So, if you meet such a reasonable mother-in-law, just have fun.

No preference for boys over girls.

After giving birth to a daughter, many women are most worried about their mother-in-law, not their husband's attitude. Older people generally prefer grandchildren, and the requirement for a daughter-in-law is to have a boy. Especially for the mother-in-law, whether a boy can be born has become the standard to judge whether a woman is a good wife. Some mothers-in-law throw their faces on their daughters-in-law because they can't have sons, and even divorce their sons. For some mother-in-law, no matter whether the daughter-in-law has a boy or a girl, she is equally happy and will not have any opinions on her daughter-in-law. I will also understand my daughter-in-law's difficulties and take care of her during her confinement.

Will not interfere with children's education.

In educating children, it is also easy to have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Some mothers-in-law educate their children according to their own ideas and keep their daughters-in-law out of it. Even if some of my ideas are wrong, I will not correct them, and even lose my temper because my daughter-in-law is in charge of the children. Although a good mother-in-law loves her children, she knows in her heart that the education of children should be managed by parents, not so much. Otherwise, it is easy to cause conflicts, which is not good for children and is not conducive to family harmony. Therefore, a mother-in-law with these performances is a really good mother-in-law, who can think for her son and daughter-in-law, and at the same time knows what she should and should not care about. It is very lucky to meet such a mother-in-law woman.