Mother always dislikes me for being ugly. What should I do?

Your mother is really something. Did you pick it up? It is generally said that "things are other people's good, children are their own good", maybe your mother remembered it backwards! I think the next time your mother says you are ugly, you can say, "Didn't you give birth to ugliness? The gene is too strong for me to resist! "

Actually, this is not the first time I've heard it. There was a lovely roommate in high school. But one night, she told us that she felt particularly inferior when she was a child, because her mother always said how she gave birth to such an ugly and stupid daughter, and almost grew up with her. To tell the truth, my surprise at that time was indescribable. As far as I know, when she entered school, her grades were the first. She was really cute. I can't imagine that such a girl will feel inferior, all this is caused by her mother. Later, even though she was better than her peers, those stubborn ideas made her forget her Excellence, as if she were really as useless as her mother said. I think this is a shadow!

Sometimes, I really think that what parents say and do will have a great influence on their children. I don't think you should pay too much attention to the problem that your mother always thinks about your appearance, and don't feel inferior. If you really can't stand your mother's behavior, talk to her, let her know that her unconscious words have brought you great psychological trauma, and let her pay attention in the future. Besides, "three-point looks and seven-point dresses", you must learn to make up! I think makeup is a necessary skill for women. They all say that "there are no lazy women, only ugly women". You should learn to show your beauty.

In short, you just don't care too much. If you can't stand it, even your own mother can go back. Uh, well, it's wrong to hurt each other. Let's be reasonable After all, it is our own mother!