As a full-time mother, what is the most difficult time for you?

Before the child is two years old

After being a stay-at-home mother for more than ten years, the most difficult time was probably the year when I got married and gave birth to a child. At that time, the child was born by caesarean section, and the wound could not be healed. It hurt, and I had to take care of the baby alone. The baby felt uncomfortable, had an uncomfortable stomach, and was crying and fussing. I endured the pain and held him in my arms for the whole night. My buttocks hurt from sitting. After holding him for several nights, the baby finally Okay, now I can lie down to sleep, and I can also lie down and sleep. The moment I lay down, I felt that the most comfortable thing in the world was to lie in bed and sleep. This is the most helpless time as a stay-at-home mother.

I personally think it was the time after I gave birth to my baby. Since I had a caesarean section, I stayed in bed for a long time. Then during the confinement period, the incision on the stomach was also very painful, especially when breastfeeding or holding the baby. Looking back on those days, it was really miserable. The old woman didn't know how to take care of the child, and then she threw the child to me when it cried. I endured the pain in my body, got up, ran around and coaxed the child. At that time, my son would typically fall asleep and fall asleep, making noises during the day without waking him up, and then start crying at night for several hours. So I almost never slept well at night, and I had dark circles under my eyes every day. It happened to be summer during the confinement period, more than 30 degrees. I was sweating profusely every day. The old lady had a chicken meal, but I couldn't eat it at all. I heated the chicken soup repeatedly for several meals at each meal. Then when the soup was dry, I added cold water directly to it. I ate one chicken with a bowl of white rice for a few days. , tears really welled up in my eyes several times. Then I had to get up at night to coax the baby. Looking back on those dark days, I really wanted to cry. It was also because the confinement period was not done well. Now I often have severe back pain. The old woman is illiterate and can even do the most basic tasks of mixing milk powder and changing diapers. Sometimes the children would even wear their clothes inside out. I do it myself a lot of the time, so I feel very hopeless! Later, even if the child stopped making noises at night, I couldn't sleep and started to suffer from insomnia all night long. I kept thinking about whether the child would drink milk and cover his mouth when he fell asleep. She often loses her temper with her husband, and then becomes particularly vulnerable. It's easy to cry. I felt like I was depressed. My husband started to worry about me when he saw that I was losing energy day by day. When I have free time, I take the initiative to take care of my children, let me sleep alone, and often take us out to play. The child gradually grew up. He also became less crying and more likely to laugh. Slowly my mood began to improve. I usually take my baby to play alone in the community, and I also get to know some BMWs. We all have the same topics, and we make appointments to walk the baby and go shopping together every day. My life is back on track. I am very satisfied now, but I don’t want a second child anymore and I don’t listen to anyone! Unless, of course, you get rich overnight. Ha ha!

I have been a stay-at-home mother for more than ten years. The hardest and most difficult thing is when I get sick in the middle of the night, no matter how big or small. I take my two sons to the hospital for intravenous drips. Sometimes it rains, and the mother and son sleep in the hospital, and the older one has to go to school. There was no pick-up and drop-off. There was no day care in the school more than ten years ago. When I was sick, I had to go to the hospital for injections. I felt like crying but had no tears. I slowly got over it alone.

The child fell ill in the middle of the night.

In the dark night, a person, a sick baby. The child has a fever and is very sleepy but cannot sleep. When I vomited or had a bowel movement, I was even more anxious and confused. The night can be as long as seconds, or it can be dawn without even realizing it.

After a few years, I feel that this is no longer the most difficult thing.

The most difficult thing was that both children were sick. One was crying and the other was making noises and wanted to be hugged.

At night, one person and two children. Xiaobao has a high fever and is struggling with whether Dabao should be let go home or taken away. Take care of this, leave that behind.

When you stay up late at night, there is no one to help you. You are very sleepy and you have to play with your baby for a long time. Sometimes you will shed tears and then your emotions will get better and you will cry non-stop