My mother-in-law is ill, but I am at work. Do you think I don't care about her?

First of all, the daughter-in-law should learn to empathize. Since they all come together for love, there are not so many principled problems. Old people's living habits for many years are hard to change, and young people should be more patient.

Second, take care of each other. Many daughters-in-law think that the old man is too protective of his husband and too critical of himself. First of all, he should face up to the fact that his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not related by blood. As a mother, he will know that love for his son is an instinct, and it is good to be kind to his daughter-in-law by the way. If you want the elderly to be sincere to you, you must first be sincere to the elderly, observe their needs and satisfy them as much as possible. But according to my observation, the spiritual requirements of the elderly are far more than material, at least in my family.

Third, be patient. People are often like children when they are old. They are wordy and have a bad memory. We young people should never be disturbed, but we should think about the day when we are old. At the same time, I also set an example for my children, and then I want to open everything.

Fourth, housework should be shared. It is not easy for old people to work all their lives. Try to share the housework when you come home from work and let the old people have a rest. The old people changed their schedules for their children and grandchildren without complaining. This is our old people, our parents, and our old baby. Naturally, we should undertake housework as much as possible.

Fifth, learn to muddle along. Most men are rough and inarticulate, and many men treat their parents the same way. As a daughter-in-law, a woman should pay more attention to her in-laws and learn to muddle along when her husband doesn't express well. Old people often feel sorry for their children and want to save face. When the husband has a bad attitude, the daughter-in-law must stand on the side of her in-laws, so that everyone will like you.

Sixth, never lose your temper with your husband in front of your in-laws. As a mother, I know that my children will always be unique. How distressed my mother would be if she were angry with another woman (daughter-in-law). No matter who is right or wrong at this time, she will be desperate!

Seventh, on the issue of caring for children, if you want to reach an understanding with the elderly, you must first get the support of your husband. In the mind of in-laws, the son's opinion is always more important and persuasive than the daughter-in-law's. First of all, when young parents discipline their children, even if the elderly have objections, they can't show them in front of them, which is conducive to their growth. Parents have the right to educate their children, and the elderly have only the obligation to help. As long as the division of labor is clear, there will be no quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of children's problems.