Conversations and pictures of halfway couples (cohabiting halfway couples)

Some people say that when people reach middle-aged and old age, it is not children, not parents, but people who can accompany them.

I'm impressed.

A few years ago, my mother met someone who knew how to hurt her, so she discussed with us whether we could form a family again. Our brother and sister discussed it and expressed their support for mom's choice. Because at my mother's age, I really need someone who knows cold and hot, and those, perhaps, are far beyond our reach as children.

Last year, my mother had a bad heart and was hospitalized for some time. Because my brother and I are both working and living in other places, my mother didn't tell us when she was sick, and she didn't ask my uncle to mention it to us. During the period of hospitalization, my uncle took care of my mother alone. Going back and forth between the hospital and home every day, just to let my mother eat fresh meals. Later, I quarreled with my mother and got a little angry. The uncle hesitated, and finally told my mother that she was hospitalized some time ago.

At that time, the mood was very complicated, with guilt, discomfort and a lot of gratitude. I feel guilty that I didn't know my mother was ill in time, and I feel uncomfortable that I didn't accompany my mother. I also appreciate the meticulous care my uncle can give when my mother is ill. Let me also confirm one thing. Couples also have true feelings halfway.

It is easy to share weal and woe, which is a reality.

Yesterday, when I was brushing the question and answer, I saw such a question: an aunt and an uncle are also half-way couples. After they got married, they have been adopting the AA lifestyle, spending their own money. But then my uncle got sick and needed a sum of money for treatment. So the aunt hesitated a little, and chose to ask herself if she wanted to take her own money out to see each other in the Q&A session.

Aunt's problem is a consideration that many people will make. Many monogamous families will hesitate when they encounter this problem, let alone half-way couples.

In fact, most people look for wives in middle-aged and elderly people because they want to find someone to rely on and a partner to chat with and live with. During this period, most people's mentality has changed. They are no longer as high-spirited as when they were young, but marry for love, more because of need and suitability.

Therefore, the feelings between husband and wife have faded a lot halfway. At this time, if one party has problems, there may be a hesitant stage to consider whether he should help the other party.

So, should a half-way couple pay for each other when the other half is sick? My answer is yes.

First of all, all the choices in this world have two sides, the good side and the bad side. We can't just enjoy the good side and abandon its bad side.

Most of us choose to find the other half in middle-aged and elderly people, in fact, to a large extent, in order to alleviate our loneliness and find someone we can rely on. Then, in fact, at this time, we are enjoying the benefits brought by the other half. However, if you don't want to pay when the other half is sick, it goes against your original intention of caring for and relying on each other.

In a word, whether we get married or remarry, we all choose to get married, because being with each other is better than being alone. Therefore, we have the right to enjoy the protection brought by this marriage, but we also have the obligation to bear the responsibilities in this marriage.

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