Does it make sense that couples try to save money and lovers try to spend money together?

I used to think that love is love, that is, love to the bone.

Later, I learned that love is very different, not all love will go deep into the bone marrow.

Some love, such as a dragonfly, ends with an understatement; Some love, like a flame, can't be extinguished even if it rains heavily; Some love, as plain as water, will never be forgotten; Some love comes and goes quickly; Some love has never been mentioned, but it has been buried deep in my heart. ......

There is a difference between the love of husband and wife and the love of lovers. Romance is not necessarily a good thing, and dullness is not necessarily a bad thing. Only by being a wise man can we find true love.

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Husband and wife work together to save money; Couples spend money romantically together.

Any love is inseparable from money. If you don't talk about money and love, then love is ruined. Any feelings are not castles in the air and need material support.

When husband and wife are together, they should not only make money hard, but also save money desperately, because they are thinking about long-term life, not the immediate distribution of interests. For example, children need to spend money to study, and parents need to spend money to support the elderly. If you don't prepare a deposit, you will have a bad life in the future and have no ability to resist risks.

Some wives are very stingy, clutching their husbands' wallets. Such a wife looks annoying, but virtuous and reliable. Take care of your family's money, and there will be hope for your future life. Couples who eat all the food are usually unhappy.

When lovers are together, they never think about how to save money. They only know how to spend money, like to eat in high-end hotels, and even often buy luxury goods. Take luxury as a gift, you will be very happy, and you will never think about where your future life will go.

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Husband and wife often quarrel; Couples seldom quarrel.

Someone said, "What is true love? Just make a noise. "

It's not that there are couples who respect each other as guests, but they still quarrel and blush. Noisy is a common occurrence. As long as you don't hurt your bones, you won't hurt your feelings. On the contrary, many things will be solved because of quarrels, and you can see each other's sincerity.

For example, when couples go shopping, the man wants to buy a pack of cigarettes, and the woman rushes to buy cigarettes, but the cigarettes bought are very cheap. The man is angry and feels that he is living too unintelligent. Women confidently say, not just to save money, not just for this family, not just to make you smoke less.

When quarreling, some angry words are often from the heart, not from the heart. After the quarrel, some people will bow their heads first and coax each other, and all the unhappiness will disappear.

Lovers rarely quarrel, and both of them regard each other's shortcomings as advantages. Even the black spots on their faces are so beautiful, just like a flower in a green leaf, which is a beautiful ornament.

But when lovers quarrel, it is estimated that their feelings will be gone, and no one wants to bow their heads or even save this relationship.

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Husband and wife are separated and care for each other; When lovers are separated, they will always miss each other and always contact each other.

A family has many places to spend money. In order to make money, husband and wife often separate. Of course, separation is for better reunion. After a few years, the family is rich, and the family is round and round, and the suffering is worth it.

On the day of separation, the two people cared about each other, but they didn't chat anytime and anywhere, because they were both busy and had no time to chat. Only when I am free, I remember to make a phone call, send a WeChat and video chat, but when chatting, I often look at my child's face.

Lovers are separated, one minute is separated, and sixty seconds is missed. A day without seeing each other is like Sanqiu. Because I miss you for too long, I can't see you again, my feelings gradually fade, or I fall in love with someone else as soon as I turn around.

Waiting is long, but many people can't stand the pain of waiting. When waiting, two people always want to chat and tell each other what they want, but after a long time, they suddenly realize that this kind of waiting is fruitless and it is better to give up.

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Husband and wife together, guarding a family; Couples want to have a home.

Husband and wife are the guardians of the family, and lovers may want to form a family, or just cheat each other on the pretext of forming a family.

Home, what a beautiful word. Isn't it great that the family can unite and rely on each other every day, resist the storms of life and create more warm pictures? This is the common wish of husband and wife, so they make unremitting efforts for it.

The best way to protect the family is to create more happiness. When couples understand this, their feelings will be better and their joint efforts will be stronger.

Lovers also want to have a home, but home is like air, as if it were nothing, and like painting cakes to satisfy their hunger. In the long run, the concept of home will be blurred, and I don't know what two people want to pursue.

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When husband and wife are together, there are fewer and fewer festivals; When lovers are together, there are more and more festivals.

Ask the old couple how long it's been since you bought roses. How long has it been since we had a big meal together? How long has it been since you had a good holiday? Perhaps, there have been no festivals for many years. At most, it's the Spring Festival. The family has a good meal and has a rest for a few days.

Plain is true. Many families, the more dull they cross. It's hard for men to make money outside. They are so busy that they forget the festival, or they always remember a festival, but they don't want to buy flowers. They are tired of this way of life.

When lovers are together, they always seem naive and remember all the festivals clearly. We will also create some inexplicable festivals together. For example, the first anniversary of meeting, the first day of eating together, the first day of holding hands and so on. But the best day I can think of is Valentine's Day.

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Husband and wife divorce, but not easily; Lovers break up and leave at once.

It is not surprising that couples divorce. Some couples have quarreled many times and have reached the stage of divorce. However, after all this trouble, the two still didn't get divorced, because their children were young, their parents were old and they were old.

In fact, many couples divorce just because they are angry and don't really want to leave their families. Looking at the hard-working family, I really want to break up, and I really can't bear to part.

Lovers break up, maybe after a period of time, want to open, nothing, too lazy to care. But after a few fights, we really parted ways and could live and die together.

This is the difference between "tight organization" and "loose organization". As the saying goes: "A man never leaves his wife, and the scale never leaves his weight." If the husband and wife get divorced, what was once a good scale suddenly becomes useless. Lovers break up, leaving only faint memories, and even memories are redundant, that's all.

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There are often "lovers talk too much" between lovers; Lovers are always "a thousand cups don't pour wine."

After many years together, the husband and wife found that * * * didn't speak the same language very much. The family is getting quieter and quieter, and no one wants to take the initiative to speak.

After work, after dinner, we look at our mobile phones in a corner without disturbing each other. I am used to not talking, because it is easy to cause contradictions when I open my mouth. But you can guess each other's thoughts and know each other's feelings without talking.

The words between lovers are always endless, even if it is nonsense for a day, it is still very beautiful. Yes, I have said it many times, but I don't think it is enough. It seems that I keep in touch by talking nonsense.

Perhaps, many people mistakenly think that lovers are the people who really know each other. When two people started talking, they both spoke from the heart. In fact, this situation is not without, just naive and has some one-sided views.

When you are in trouble, you know that the best support is to love someone. Lovers communicate less with you, but pay more attention to you. They know your pain and fatigue, but they just say nothing.

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The relationship between husband and wife is a responsibility; Lovers are often irresponsible.

The best feeling should be to take responsibility for each other, not to break up at once, and no one is responsible.

Because the responsibility is on the shoulder, life is stressful, romantic is lighter, but there are more real things. One meal and one porridge is hard to come by. After eating this meal, plan the next meal, and don't let your family starve.

Lovers are often not very responsible. Even at the critical moment, you can't find each other. For example, the career is frustrated and the other party suddenly disappears. After a while, you find him with a richer man. It's hateful.

In fact, we can understand that the love of lovers is the embryonic state of love, which is very innovative and promising; The love between husband and wife is the end of love. There is nothing new, only real life.

Someone said, "When the scenery is clear, I will accompany you to see the long stream."

When you get old, the scenery of love disappears, and someone will accompany you to watch the long stream of water. This is the ultimate version of love.