Past lives of hybrids

In that case, there are two children and two boys, and I'll tell you together. Gao Heyang, two third-grade children, told their stories with blood and tears. It's real tears, real blood.

I wonder who invented the word "slacker". Since the gang boss was released in Chinese mainland, the name "Big Brother Hao Nan" has been popular on campus for more than 20 years. Seriously, I started when I was at school. That was the first generation of imitation, and now there are movies on the school campus. The charm of movies is really endless.

These two children are serious "slackers" of others, not only because I trained in Changchun in the northeast, but also because in other parts of the country, a school without young people and dangerous people is not a good school. The more good schools, the more. This is not a disgrace to the school, but a phenomenon that requires self-identification. It seems that some primary schools have already started school, and the "school bully" has entered the campus, becoming the second after the "school flower"

Gao and Yang told me their battle history.

These two brothers belong to a gang, and Ma is their boss. The two sides fought again, and everyone was carrying knives and knives. Their boss and several people chased Yitong River on Asia-Pacific Avenue from Guilin Road. The boss was chopped several times and was admitted to the hospital. Several of them got away. Gaotiaohe hid in the community. Yang's arm was cut open, wrapped in a sleeve to stop bleeding, and hid.

I am happy to face them and listen to their stories. "No, those brothers on Guilin Road, now the prodigal son is back ..."

I didn't put them in the teaching classroom to listen to their stories, but chose an empty building with few people to change channels and took out a cigarette for each of them. "Come on, I know you smoke!"

"First of all, I especially understand you, because I met too many such bastards when I was at school. This is very realistic. Not talking about it doesn't mean they don't exist. It is less than 120 days before the senior high school entrance examination, which is almost the rhythm of salted fish turning over. By the way, doesn't your school know these things? This kind of thing can't be hidden. "

They looked at each other and motioned for each other to say.

"Fired?" I asked.

"I was fired twice. Now I am studying in a remote suburb, and my class is almost all students expelled from other schools. "

"There is such a school that accepts the dregs students in the eyes of others. Where is the school? " (The more direct the junior high school students who mix with them, the better)

They told me about the school. By the way, they talked about the characteristics of the school. Few people know the name of this school. There is only one class in grade three, and there were more than 20 students in the class. However, with the approach of the senior high school entrance examination, several students who studied excavators left, and several of them were lovelorn and injured. There are less than ten students in the class now, and two of them are progressive.

"Teacher, do you accept us? Oh, by the way, the gate of our school is under construction, and there is a big pit of more than ten meters at the gate. Go home at night, almost fall to death, roll down. It was too dark that day. " Gao is embarrassed to admit that he is stupid.

"You know there is a pit, but you have to jump in. You are either stupid or stupid. " I said, "Whether you are really studying or pretending, I welcome you very much. Does your family know that you make up classes? "

"Yes, my mother will pay." Yang said.

I can make my own decisions.

Compared with other students, this kind of misguided student is not bad in essence, but can't find himself, and there are more elements of playing tricks with the wind. I also told their parents what I thought of them on the phone, and their parents didn't mean to come over. I really don't know why he trusted a teacher he had never met to teach his children. Imagine the situation of the two children. No children will be ignorant for no reason, and no parents will turn a blind eye to business.

The trust from my parents made me decide to adopt an unconventional teaching mode. I was curious about my children's learning at that time, because students who would not have been like this suddenly turned back to study. What prompted them?

I made a calculation and verified the result.

Of course, I welcome them to make up lessons. A child who is studying wants to be admitted to high school, which is something that makes people write. I didn't ask them directly about their motives, but separated them when making up lessons and solved their problems one by one.

Gao Jia opened a rice noodle shop near Guilin Road, and the business was very prosperous. He has been responsible for food delivery since primary school, that is, he is a part-time food delivery clerk for children (free of charge) and goes to school part-time. The main business is playing. When he is older and knows the function of the former, the meal delivery will not be free. He has money to go to the internet cafe to play billiards. The rich man met people from different classes, and curiosity and ignorance made him lose the opportunity to be a good student. But he was bullied because he was timid, and his family didn't care whether he liked bullying or not. Therefore, he thought of asking others for help. Kyle was a gangster at that time, working as a part-time network administrator. Marco stood up for him and built a school to bully tall students. It turns out that being a bad guy has so many benefits, and being a stupid student suffers indignities everywhere, so Gao chose to bully others to protect himself. This is what Gao told me about his short childhood and the whole junior high school life.

I asked him, "What classes did you take in the third grade?"

"all"

How much can you do in math?

add, subtract, multiply and divide

What about English?

I can only ABC

What? That's nothing. What classes do you take? You should re-read the first grade.

The teacher won't let classes resume, and my family can't help it. A dead horse is a living horse doctor.

I know idioms, too, son. Let me give you a suggestion. Call your parents. Your biggest task now is not to study, but to think about how to live in the future.

Even if I compress the course in the shortest time, you can't absorb it. Many times when you miss it, you miss it. It's not something I can fix. That is the reality. Not that you give up on yourself, of course. There are many roads in life. If you miss the way to school, you can only choose others, and you may not be worse than others.

"That I choose what road, I what also can't, fight, afraid I start work beaten. So I am the fastest every time I run. "

Can you imagine my mood at that time? I really want to slap this guy who is not a qualified student or a qualified hooligan. It is wrong to start work, but I still encourage him. Such a lovely student really can't be angry.

"Be a soldier!" "As a soldier?"

"Yes, when you are old enough to be a soldier, go to the army to sharpen the edges and corners of your body. Society is playing around. Being a soldier will die, and you can't be a deserter. You are timid. Dare not! "

Will I die in the army?

No, you don't have such a strong sense of honor. I will help you with your home work, and they will agree.

"Why didn't you choose?"

He didn't sit on the chair in the classroom, but squatted on the ground, holding his knees, and bowed his head in thought.

The best way I can think of is not to recommend being a soldier, but if he is forced to take the exam, he will fail, either continuing to deliver meals part-time or digging holes like other students. However, he will still be blind. A loose teenager who has no self-control and cowardice can only be strengthened by militarized management.

I confiscated his money when he left. He told me that in fact, when he came to make up lessons, he wanted to pursue a girl in his class, and that girl studied better than him (I answered that if he was human, he would be better than you). If a boy who loves to study pursues her, it is possible. A boy who fights worse than he studies can really bring her nothing.

Finally, before she joined the army, he introduced his girlfriend to make up lessons here.

What needs to be said is that these stories are true, and I also deleted some words (some dirty words) that are easy to shield. This is the whole story of Gao. I didn't help him study hard, and I didn't help him get a girlfriend. Those are his own life experiences, he has no experience. No one can replace him. As a teacher, I found that I could do too little, so I went to a psychological counselor. But as a psychological counselor, I also found that many things can not be solved by psychological knowledge or technology alone. Psychology thinks too much. I want too much. You have to adjust your mentality. Many things cannot be solved by human efforts. I really miss myself. God is not omnipotent. I'm not a teacher in an ordinary cram school, and I can't be a psychological counselor.

Let's talk about Yang again. Let's start with the ending. Yang's present occupation is a glorious pediatrician. Who would have thought that once a slacker was still in the ranks of hooligans in the third grade, and a few years later he became a hospital doctor and a good doctor.

Yang's mother appeared in the classroom. As a mother, she still came to see the children's training places and teachers. After meeting and chatting, everyone sat together and talked about the arrangement of study. The child didn't sit down, but stood behind, acting like a child who had done something wrong. Although Yang did something wrong, both he and I chose to hide it. This has nothing to do with learning, and there is no need to say anything. It's over.

Mother is always such a sacrificial role. Pay. Thank you. Please.

I will try my best to repay, but my grades will not fly into the first class. A good second-class high school is no problem. It's up to him to go to college.

After Yang's mother left, I briefly talked about Gao and asked him about his future plans.

Ask him directly: "He started studying because of a girl. What about you? Is it a truth? "

"Teacher, at the beginning, I want to get along like this. Later, I found that I couldn't get along. Being an illegitimate child will not bring me much face. I don't know, teacher. I don't know if I can come now. Can I come in? "

"It's too late, but it's good that you've changed your mind. You wasted three years. If you can do well in the exam easily, will those who have studied hard for three years all die? How can there be such a good thing? However, there is still hope for you to work hard in a second-class school. "

"Really?"

"First of all, you should know that you have missed three years of study. You should be responsible and bear it yourself. You also know your current situation. I am not the one who can help you now. Don't pin your hopes on me, but you still have to be admitted to high school. "

"I ..."

"Don't rush to give yourself an answer. On the way to study with me, we don't have time to sort out many things carefully. Therefore, my ability is only to raise the subjects that you can improve your scores to above the second-class admission line in high school. "

"Thank you, teacher!"

"Thank you! In the future, you will be grateful for your hard work now. "