People nowadays are just playing tricks.

What people play nowadays are all routines.

What people today are playing are routines. Society is an aggregation of people, and it is full of the borders formed by the development of a country. With structure, in a society where people don’t have to worry about food and clothing, people’s social anxiety becomes more serious. The people who share below are just playing tricks. Nowadays, people are playing routines 1

The complexity of society is full of all kinds of routines. Nowadays, it is almost impossible to find a person in this society who does not play routines, whether it is a friend or a classmate or colleague. , always ready to trick others, or on the way to trick others.

Every day, many people say that it is impossible to make true friends in this society. In fact, before saying this, you should reflect on whether you are worthy of the other person's real relationship with you. At least others are not interested in your money or profit. Also, if you are a sincere person, no one will make friends with you if you are a good person.

Many people say that there are too few opportunities in today's society. In fact, there are many opportunities, but you have to create them yourself. Most of the opportunities are given to you or given by others. What you have created is that if you are a master of routines, others will just want to stay away from you and will not give you any chance.

In this society, many people see what others do and follow suit. They follow others’ evil deeds. Others follow their own tricks and learn to do the same. Over time, they develop an unreliable temperament and others After interacting with you a few times, I can tell that you are a very conventional person. If it were not for profit, no one would want to remember your name. In fact, these consequences and phenomena are all planted by yourself, because if you are not sincere, there is no need for others to talk to you about relationships other than interests.

As a human being, you should have fewer tricks. Use sincerity as the principle of life. Don’t trick anyone. Just prevent others from tricking you. Sometimes life is just that simple. Don’t make yourself complicated. Because you don’t have complex capital. What people nowadays are doing is routine 2

In some mythological novels, the explanation for chaos is "no black and white, no color, no height, no sense, no self, no other, no anything." "Rules and laws." In my opinion, chaos is a means of confusing audio and video, and it is an instinct at the beginning of human beings.

When a baby is born, there is no distinction between good and evil, no beauty or ugliness, no distinction between good and bad. He only follows his own joy, cries, laughs and plays, and only follows his own "survival instinct". Constantly asking for things that can feed them from those who love them, and never thinking about giving, this also causes parents to be distressed and painful about their children's emotions and lifestyle.

Human beings are selfish at the beginning. Simply put, selfishness is human instinct and the foundation of human survival. We cannot ignore its existence, let alone make good use of it. However, some people do not understand this truth at all, and always treat "selfishness" with a "contemptuous and contemptuous" attitude.

For those who do not understand this truth, I call them not excellent people, people who have not seen through the essence of life. For those who respect their own instincts, I call them "excellent people".

Why excellent people love to play "routines" and are masters of "routines", the root cause lies in this, because if you don't play "routines" and don't make good use of your own "selfishness", you will You will be oppressed and bullied by others, and you will not be able to succeed.

Competition among colleagues requires intrigue. If you give all your skills and knowledge to your colleagues, you will not be promoted. The struggle between businessmen requires even more intrigue. If you tell your bosses about your plans and plans, you will only be "eaten" by the other party.

What about between husband and wife? In order to work less, men will play some "routines" to make their wives willing to pay for them. In order to live comfortably, happily and enjoy a better life, women will impose some "routines" to make their husbands work hard to make money for themselves like a "cow".

Since ancient times, "routines win people's hearts". If you don't play "routines" and treat the other party sincerely, you will only become someone else's fish and be slaughtered by others, without any chance of success.

The "routine" I am talking about does not mean that you interact with others without conscience, nor does it mean that you ignore moral and legal principles. It means that within the scope of reasonableness and legality, you can fully let others realize their own value and know their own value. He is the irreplaceable person.

It’s like what Bai Yansong once said. I can’t remember this sentence clearly. It roughly means: You get a salary of 15,000 and do the same work as an intern. You let you How do your leaders value you and give you opportunities?

Teacher Bai Yansong started from scratch and has worked hard all the way to the present. He has become the envy of many young and middle-aged men and women. His experience and his understanding of life are what we all need to learn from. People nowadays are playing tricks 3

I don’t know since when, smart modern people started playing tricks and abandoned sincerity. There is evidence for this, haven’t you heard the popular saying? "However, the deep love cannot be retained, and there are always tricks to win people's hearts!"

Look at the real estate sales. Before the sale starts, the sales department has started activities. Activities generally have two keywords: profit and discount. Let's give it a profit, let's give it a discount. He doesn't give it directly. For example, if the house is supposed to sell for 400,000 yuan, it will be cheaper for you, and you can get it by paying 390,000 yuan. He has to go around in circles to give you discounts and give you profits. The most common one is to ask you to pay a deposit of 5,000 yuan before buying a house. After a while, when the house price comes out, the 5,000 yuan will be used as 10,000 yuan.

In fact, can five thousand really be used as ten thousand? In fact, you can't. If you give someone 5,000 yuan for an air conditioner that costs 10,000 yuan, you won't be able to move it home. But in the words of people in the sales department, five thousand can be used as ten thousand: you pay five thousand, and I will give it to you as ten thousand when the time comes, letting you earn five thousand for nothing. But have you ever seen a mosquito suck a mouthful of your blood and then give you half a mouthful of blood? House sellers are like mosquitoes, always trying to find ways to suck more blood from buyers. How could they be so generous and let you make five thousand yuan for nothing?

This is the trick they play: For example, if they originally planned to sell a house for 400,000, they deliberately ask for 410,000, and then they will organize activities and discounts for you, asking you to pay 5,000 first, and then count it as 10,000. In the end, you actually paid 405,000 for the house and the deal was completed.

Once you play this trick: the sales department is satisfied, because in addition to the profit they want to make, they also earn you an extra five thousand for nothing; you are satisfied and feel that it is because you participated After participating in the activity, I suddenly paid 5,000 less than those who did not participate in the activity. This routine is really played by the merchants, and you are willing to be tricked. In fact, if you see through the merchant's tricks and identify a deadlock, I will offer you 400,000 yuan, and you may be able to buy it if you want to sell it or not. It's a pity that you don't dare, because you just arrived at the sales department, and the people in the sales department have brainwashed you: come to the event quickly, we will sell the house to the customers who paid the intention deposit first. If you don't participate in the event, you will be late. Can't buy a house anymore. After such a wash, you are afraid that your house will be blown away, so just participate. You won’t suffer any loss anyway.

It’s not just about buying and selling houses. There are also tricks in getting married. When a young man and a woman have agreed on a partner, and it’s time to get married, the girl’s parents begin to ask for betrothal gifts, such as “one in a million” (9,999 yuan, but this is already outdated and was the market more than 10 years ago), “everything in red and green” (“everything in ten thousand yuan”), and so on. "Purple": Ten thousand red 100-yuan bills, which is 50,000 yuan. "Qianhong": It is one thousand red 100-yuan bills, which is 100,000 yuan. "Green" is even worse, it is The amount of 50-yuan banknotes can be scattered according to the requirements of the woman's family, that is, starting from 150,000 yuan, there is no upper limit), "three catties and three liang" (three catties and three liang of hundred-yuan bills), "not moving" ( A small bridge car with an estimated value of not less than 100,000 + a house in the county)... etc., etc.

You say you want money, you want money, and you come up with so many colorful new terms that mean praise and blessing. This is the trick: Have you ever seen a prospective father-in-law’s mother-in-law say something like this when asking for a bride price: “Girls are few and far between now, so I’m in need of a rare gift, so I want to ask for a few extra bucks.

"Then saying it makes you look so unnoticed and vulgar. I'm so greedy for money and so low. These new terms that mean praise and blessing are like a fig leaf. If you don't use the fig leaf to cover your face, you will How do two parents sit at the same table for dinner?

There is another way to play the trick of asking for betrothal gifts, which is to smile and be reserved and generous on the surface, but in the heart, you are calm, stubborn and tough. Those new terms that make people happy, sound bright, and have extremely beautiful meanings, but the knife under their hands cuts the flesh with precision and precision: The man cannot be missing a husk. If he is missing, I will not marry my daughter. What should I do? ? I can’t watch my son being a bachelor, so I started making money as soon as he was born, and I’m saving money when he’s grown up. But when my son gets married, he still doesn’t have the money, what should I do? It was not easy for them to get a daughter-in-law. They were frugal and used their spare energy to repay the money. They did all this and did not dare to complain. Think about it, they spent so much money and finally got a wife. Daughter-in-law, I just want this married (bought) wife and son to live a good life, and don’t burn out the incense by making some mistakes every few days. How can I dare to complain? If I want to complain, I can only blame myself: I gave birth to it. "Build a bank", you have to build it yourself, what can you say? You are also willing to be tricked.

Men and women also play tricks when they get married. How to play? You can check online, It’s clear from the overwhelming number of articles on the Internet about how to get along between husband and wife, and how to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The theme of these articles is nothing more than: How to teach your wife how to make her husband willingly earn money for her to spend and cook. Feed her, pamper her, and trick her husband to willingly support her as a grandma; teach her husband how to make his wife bow down, be the leader inside and outside, support him, and at the same time take care of him all day long. He serves three meals, does laundry and cooks, and his wife respects him wholeheartedly as an uncle; I won’t go into details about the routine of educating mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along, it is nothing more than the word "fight", because the man in the family has both the roles of son and husband. People are the center of things, and they are fighting behind this person's back: You don't wash the pot, and I don't cook, let's see who can outsmart the other. Who does this man love more? Fighting back and forth puts this son and husband in a dilemma: the palms and backs of his hands are full of flesh, and both the mother and the wife are tired.

This kind of article not only teaches people how to play routines after getting married, so that you can live a better life (in fact, more often than not, it is worse, and more often than not, the routines in the family are broken up), but also what to do before getting married. Routine boyfriends and girlfriends worry about it for you: open a browser at random, and talk about "how to make your boyfriend (girlfriend) can't live without you", "how to make your boyfriend (girlfriend) do everything for you, blah blah blah" ", similar titles are everywhere. These articles teach people to play tricks, and the content is very comprehensive and detailed, ranging from psychological control to physiological operations. However, after operating like this, do you think you are still in love? If so The trick is true love. I racked my brains with my 41-year-old brain and couldn't figure it out: a little girl obviously can't live without a little boy for a moment, but she tricked him and deliberately let him go. Anxious to make him love her more deeply; I also can't understand how a little boy obviously has a crush on a little girl, but he deliberately treats her aloof and makes her worry about gain and loss. Finally, when the time comes, he rushes forward to express his feelings. Alas, maybe I'm old, so I can't talk about routines, and I'll be wrong when I say them. I can't think clearly about routines, and my mind is confused when I think about them.

However, according to my simple understanding, true love should not play tricks or have routines. True love should not be when you see my heart warm up, and I see your heart become kind, and then you give me papaya, and I give you Qiong Yao, you give me peach, and I give you Qiong Yao, and so on. , something like that? If the negotiation is successful, it means "the gangsters will get revenge, but it will always be considered good!" If the negotiation is not successful, it will be "one and two, and everyone will be happy." Why do you have to spend so much time and play tricks? From these routines, I don't see a trace of affection, only selfishness: I want that person to miss me, love me, and be unable to live without me. As for "I", what should I do in this relationship? , what should I pay? "I" am busy playing tricks, but I don't have time to think about that.

Therefore, true love is hard to find, and the so-called love created by routines looks like love. The faces of men and women in love will turn red, and their hearts will beat. But after tasting it, this kind of love is like love. Nowadays, the broiler chickens that are piled with hormones look like chickens, but they don’t taste like the chickens that were raised sincerely in the past. They are even poisonous if you eat too much!