How to spend the confused period in the workplace?

First, go ahead, there is nothing to pass.

In fact, since graduation, my life has not been as smooth as I thought. When I first started working, I ran into a wall everywhere. When others tend to be stable, I stumble.

It is also those experiences that have honed my tough self. Accept the challenge of life arrangement again and again, and reconcile yourself with life step by step.

No one's life is easy and nothing is impossible. I thought I would avoid those difficulties, but when the problem approaches, you will be braver and more decisive than you think.

Because all you could think about at that time was how to solve the problem. There are always more solutions to problems than problems.

Life is hard, but it won't be at the end of its tether. Let yourself become mature, optimistic and strong. If you go forward bravely and stride forward, you will certainly be able to cross those sad hurdles.

Second, take your work seriously and control your emotions.

In the workplace, I'm an afterthought. In fact, there is not much dry goods to share, because I have been hovering on the edge.

But I know that no matter what job you are engaged in, you must have a loving and serious heart. Love your job instead of moping and complaining every day. Take your work seriously, not just as a task.

Work, not a task.

The workplace is like a small society. Here, the growth you get will be the improvement of your own ability. You can also clearly know what you are suitable for and what kind of work and environment you like.

If you complain about your work every day, at the end of the day, your mood will be very low and your work progress will be reduced. And you, the day you have experienced, are like a machine.

You should also learn to control your emotions at work. Don't bring your bad emotions to work, and don't influence others because of negative emotions. Because no one has the obligation to bear your negative energy.

We should treat your work with peace of mind. Learn to enjoy work, set goals for yourself, and know how to improvise.

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Third, keep learning, keep reading and master a skill that belongs to you.

In this rapidly changing era, the ability to learn quickly becomes more and more important. The same is true of mastering a skill of your own.

When we are faced with unfamiliar fields in our work and life, we will need to master a skill more. We are not afraid of not setting goals, and we are afraid of insufficient execution.

Persist in learning, learn skills that you are not good at, and learn skills outside of work, even if it is simply painting; Insist on reading, read all kinds of books, increase knowledge and reserve knowledge.

Over time, you will understand that these are your wealth.

Fourth, the material may not be rich, but the spiritual world must be rich.

The pressure of our life will be greater and greater, and the demand for materials will be higher and higher. Maybe you are not rich in material and wealth. It doesn't matter, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will become richer and richer.

But in any case, your spiritual world must be indispensable. Poverty in the spiritual world is far more terrible than material poverty.

Material poverty lies in more money and less money. The poverty in the spiritual world determines your pursuit, your pattern and your vision. Just like that sentence, the pattern determines the outcome, and the attitude determines the height.

When your spiritual world is enriched, your world outlook, outlook on life and values will also be enriched, and your personal ability will also be enriched. With the ability, there will be many ways to earn material.

The spiritual world promotes material development.

Fifth, learn to manage time and have your own life framework.

Sometimes, we feel that we are obviously busy, but we just don't know where our time is spent. I didn't do anything, so time passed.

That's because we don't manage our time well and make a time plan.

I keep a small notebook and a pen in my bag for a long time, and everything I need to do that day is recorded in the notebook. Put the important things first, the minor things and so on.

I will check each item, so that I can know what I have done and what I haven't finished. In the long run, you will know clearly where your time is spent.

The framework of life is to know what you want to do. Simply put, it is to arrange the things that need to be done one by one every day. In this way, even a person will not feel bored and idle.

A framed life will also become organized when you do things. Even if you are busy, you will enjoy this busy time. Therefore, it is a good choice to remember to adjust yourself at any time, live a good life in front of you and make a good plan for yourself and the future.

6. Just stick to what you like.

You must have something you like, so you have to do it and stick to it.

It is an instinct to insist on doing what you like. This instinct is actually self-contained. When you have something you like, just go ahead and do it well.

For example, if you like reading, tell yourself that you must read for an hour every day. Whether it works or not, I believe you will find out for yourself after a long time.

Or, if you say that you like traveling, you can make travel plans and write travel notes for yourself from time to time, even if it is just a short trip or a day trip, you will gain something.

So, act now. Action is the key. In this process, you will definitely like this persistent self more and more. When you do what you like to the extreme, and do it better and better, it will definitely bring you gains.

Learn self-decompression and mediation.

There are many ways for me to decompress, and the most common one is probably lying there listening to music or running over and over again.

As I mentioned in the article before, running became my first choice for decompression for a long time last year. Because in the process of running, bad emotions will disappear.

For the increasing pressure of life, bad emotions will disturb us irregularly. At this time, you should learn to mediate by yourself. Find a decompression method that suits you, don't pile it up in your heart, let it be.

You can choose to chat with your friends and confide in them. You can also do nothing alone, but don't go through the funeral. Don't let bad emotions dominate you.

Eight, enjoy the time alone.

I don't know if you ever feel that sometimes you want to spend more time alone than with a group of people. For example, I am used to being alone when I am reading and writing.

Because at this time, I can indulge in thinking, thinking, manic and unrestrained. Writing is lonely and needs such loneliness.

I like and enjoy this time, just myself, without taking care of others or pretending or paying attention to anything in front of others. Especially when you are busy, it is really good to have time to be alone.

Only when you treat solitude as a kind of enjoyment and learn to be alone with yourself can you enjoy solitude.