Is sex love between them?

Men and women are the two most basic subjects of this society. Since they are the two subjects, the love, sex, and marriage stories of men and women make social life rich and colorful. There is romance, warmth, passion, enjoyment, loyalty, betrayal, responsibility, obligation... Love is beautiful, but the process is often tortuous; sex is wonderful, but the result may be disappointing and heartbreaking; marriage always fantasizes about happiness, but often it cannot be what people want.

Women are used to bundling love with sex and marriage, while men always like to separate them, no, they are forced to separate them. Loving someone and being with him or her is a wonderful thing. Men value love very much, just like a believer worshiping a god. When he falls in love with someone, it will inspire a feeling of soft protection, sympathy, adoration, infatuation, and identification with his own person. He will be anxious to watch, care, and worry all day long, completely losing himself. This complex emotion rarely has a sexual component, and it is very cautious and difficult to express it. I am eager to express it, but I dare not express it. It should be said that I cannot express it, because no matter how I say it, I cannot express my inner joy and sorrow. It's completely "stupid". Every word he says in front of you is extremely gentle and heavy, and you can often directly hear his heartbeat.

How many secret loves are buried because there is no confession! How many confessions are too "clumsy" and are ignored.

Some people say that women have unique intuition. In fact, they believe in language more than their intuition.

Perhaps, sex without love is strange and incomprehensible to women. Even purely physiological needs often require a beautiful excuse and are not as straightforward as men. When a man doesn't love a woman, he is free and unrestrained, his mind is unrestrained, and he has no taboos. In order to get sex, he can say "I love you" in different ways, just like farting, but women just think this fart is worth it. Smell it, even be intoxicated by it. Is she stupid? Maybe some of her are stupid, but I think a considerable part of her likes the feeling of being lied to, the feeling of being complimented, flattered, chased, and surrounded by sweet words. But in the end, it was difficult to bear the result of being cheated, and it was like this from the beginning to the end. Women prefer the game of love to love itself. Dancing with the prodigal son makes true love hurt. Of course, the person who truly loves her will not "suffer". He who is shy and has a fast heartbeat in front of you may be a suave and glib-tongued prodigal in front of another woman. Love is often misplaced. Is it ridiculous?

A woman is captured by rhetoric, gives sex, or gets sex, and then what? She starts asking for marriage. It seemed to her that it was one. She holds a man responsible for her happiness. She doesn't understand that no one can guarantee another person's happiness. I want you to be happy, just talk. Therefore, there are so-called abandoned wives and resentful wives. A man is only willing to be responsible for the people he loves, not for games. Let’s talk about love. The probability of love happening is not high. It’s rare to fall in love with a few people in life. How many loves can be repeated? This also includes secret love and unrequited love. True "love" is rare. However, when you reach the age of marriage, others marry indiscriminately and marry indiscriminately. Due to various pressures, parents, social and physiological, it is still necessary to marry a wife, have children, and pass on civilization. A considerable number of marriages are a helpless choice to live together. This stabilizes society but also creates hidden dangers.

On the surface, it often seems that men’s love is more pure and has no selfish thoughts. Men’s sex is also pure, without any conditions attached. Men’s marriage is also simple, it is to fulfill a kind of responsibility and obligation.

A woman's love is also pure, but a woman's sex is like a transaction. First of all, you must really or pretend to love her. In order to judge whether the love is true or false, she pretends to refuse, and women always refuse. This is actually It is a natural test. Women like tests, not only to test your love and sincerity, but also to test your financial ability. Therefore, women like gifts, expensive gifts. Women like to choose and often hesitate. They like to watch men do what they want. Fight on your own, don’t rush to take a stand, and then admit the best. A woman's lifelong career is love, sex, and marriage. She likes to participate in the game of love wherever she goes. As long as she lives, she likes to watch idol dramas and watch people falling in love. Women are the bond of society. If women were like men, society would be in disarray. A woman's mind is all about human affairs. This is the responsibility and obligation given to them by God: to choose good men and pass on good genes.

Therefore, a woman's love is not important. What is important is who loves her and who is qualified and capable of loving her. Women usually do not have the ability to realize their love, and neither do many men.

Women are the core of social stability, and men are the source of development and innovation.

Women need a gentle and stable environment, which is a requirement for raising offspring. Women test men and require certain economic capabilities, which is also related to raising offspring. Therefore, they say that responsible men are good men. But responsible men are usually not cute. Men are not bad, but women don’t love them. A lovely man who has both sides, but is very incompetent. He is responsible for so many women. He is powerless. What's more, many times he has no intention at all and is just playing games.

So, women are very contradictory, loving one and marrying another. How they wished it was the same person.

Men prefer fresh stimulation and change. More inclined to innovation in the way of thinking. Men are more independent and they are not afraid of freedom. Women, on the other hand, have lost their independence due to childbearing and are afraid of freedom.

Why are women more hesitant? The problem for women is choice, not pursuit. In addition to choices, men also have pursuits.

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