Can you pat a child's rainbow fart? Can you persist?

50 days ago, inspired by an article, I initiated a proposal to shoot rainbow farts for children.

In the first half of the month, several parents and I took pictures of rainbow farts for our children, which was very lively. But clap clap, and then it's over.

Only I don't change my mind and insist on shooting every day.

What is "rainbow fart"?

Rainbow fart, internet buzzwords and rice circles were first popular in 20 17. It means that fans take a fancy to their idols, and they are all treasures, all of which are advantages. Literally, even an idol farts can turn it into a rainbow without changing color.

That's what I think now. My daughter farts delicious and looks like a rainbow.

To put it simply, to get rid of the bad habit of picking bones in eggs and develop the good habit of picking bones in eggs, there are only good eyes, good thoughts and good words. Turn a deaf ear to the bad and wrong.

Education experts have also said that the key to raising children is to praise and strengthen them when they do the right thing.

It seems that many parents have made a mistake, and they have been wrong for more than ten years.

Yesterday, my daughter's three rainbow farts:

First, aerobics. Second, go out for a walk. Third, eat pumpkins.

My daughter is embarrassed to laugh herself. She did go out for a walk three times today, but the purpose was to get the express (weighing scale, English books, Japanese books). But I used to be asked to pick up the courier. I didn't take the initiative to go out in the rain this time, but I also noticed the hibiscus flowers and osmanthus flowers in full bloom in the community.

Speaking of pumpkins, my daughter said, why didn't you say I had fried chicken?

Indeed, after dinner, my daughter said she was hungry. After several ideological struggles, she ordered fried chicken. After eating, I said that I will resolutely correct it tomorrow and shut up.

So, have you seen your daughter's progress?

"Wangfeng side becomes a ridge, and the distance is different." In the face of parents with mentally ill children at home, we really need to understand the profound meaning of this sentence.

For example, a netizen confided to me that her daughter had resumed school and asked for half a day off for the first half of the day. As soon as she got a call from her daughter asking for leave, she was flustered and short of breath, and she couldn't even go to class. Later, she simply killed her daughter and asked her to take time off to find her father.

I told her not to treat her daughter like this. Her daughter is trying to climb up, struggling in pain. She needs the love and acceptance of her parents, and needs support and help. Not disgust and rejection.

It is recommended that mothers only watch the half-day classes that children insist on, and ignore the half-day classes that take time off. This kind of mentality is different, and the reaction is naturally different.

I reminded my mother that I should be responsible for my emotions and not pass on my anxiety and pressure to my daughter. My daughter, who is struggling with illness, can't bear so much. The most likely consequence is that the child lies flat directly, and the half-day class is gone.

As a mother, her daughter needs to take time off, and her mother feels desperate. Because you have to communicate with the class teacher and make up excuses, you may have to bear the indifference of the class teacher. All kinds of negative emotions, since they are children's mothers, can be tolerated, and they can be tolerated if they can't. Because you are a mother, you have no right to take it out on your children.

The phone number of another patient's parents I met when I was in hospital, her daughter successfully resumed school, took the college entrance examination and was admitted to two books. When my daughter went to college, she was bored because she had problems getting along with her roommates. She calls her mother to chat every night.

But my mother couldn't stand her daughter's pestering before, and always wanted to send her daughter to college so that she could breathe a sigh of relief and live a clean life away from her daughter.

However, her daughter's daily phone bombing backfired, which made her very annoyed, and she did not have suitable coping methods and efforts. Finally, one day, I got angry and told my daughter to stay away from her.

My daughter also collapsed, threatening her mother not to study, lying flat at home and recuperating for more than ten or eight years.

See, that's how tragedy comes about.

I advise this mother to look good in her eyes, think good in her heart and say good in her mouth, and everything will be fine.

We should be grateful to our daughter for coming back to school with illness and being admitted to college, and we have been trying to adapt to college life.

As a mother, we should tidy up our emotions of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss and care about utilitarian thoughts. You should learn to grow and change, help your inner child grow up, become a real mother full of heart, vitality and positive energy, be gentle and loving, give unconditional love and acceptance, and convey hope and strength.

Therefore, in the face of children's willfulness and behavior, choose to smile, shut up and let go, choose to be slow, slow and quiet, and choose to be stupid. For the sake of children's little progress, carry forward the spirit of picking eggs in the bones, far-fetched, and pat the rainbow fart hard.

Some netizens asked, what's the use of shooting rainbow fart?

On the one hand, appease parents, let go of anxiety and be grateful.

On the other hand, the more children praise, the better their performance.

Now I sit and collect the bonus for shooting rainbow fart every day. There are small fortunes and small surprises every day.

This is a quiet time, worth living in the world, and the future can be expected!