My girlfriend thinks I am short. What should I do?

My girlfriend who has been dating for half a year suddenly thinks I am short and wants to break up. What should I do? A straight man puzzled my cousin. A straight man told me something he was very confused about the other day.

My cousin met his current girlfriend six months ago, and they have been dating for six months. But some time ago, that girl suddenly told my cousin that she thought he was too short and two people were not suitable, so she broke up. My cousin was very surprised and puzzled.

Speaking of height, my cousin 172CM, that girl 165CM. The key is that two people have known each other for half a year, and now the girl thinks he is short, and my cousin doesn't know how to deal with it. My cousin told me unconvinced that 172 was a little higher than that girl, although it was not very high, so it didn't take half a year to say it.

I told him after listening, don't think about it, just divide it, and you'll be done.

Why do I say that? In fact, I can think of it if I am smart, but my cousin's mind is straight, so I may not think of it.

First, short boyfriends are just rhetoric, and the truth behind them is often not the case.

If, as the girl said, she thinks her boyfriend is short, she should feel this way for the first time, not after a period of contact. Bian Xiao's intuition is that there must be other reasons. After you really have some feelings for your boyfriend and settle down, love often makes people ignore all the weaknesses of appearance. There is a saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Second, I guess I don't want any room for communication.

In fact, the reason why a girl breaks up like this may be because she is very dissatisfied with other aspects of her boyfriend, such as not working hard, such as not loving hygiene, such as not being considerate enough and so on. No matter what the specific reason is, girls are reluctant to communicate with him any more, and there is no room at all. Because if there is still the possibility of reconciliation between the two, she will definitely not talk about height. You know, looks and figures are given by parents and cannot be changed. This is my life.

Third, girls may like others, just to find a reason to break up.

This possibility is not without, and the girl moves on. For whatever reason, she doesn't like you. She was embarrassed to tell you directly, so she just found a reason to break up with you, leaving you no room to refute.

Fourth, you can pester me to find it, but the result will be ugly.

My cousin asked me what I should ask if I had to ask an explanation. I still have that opinion. It's not necessary. You can do it. You tell the girl that 172 is not short. Napoleon did not reach 160, so he became a great man. Or you could say, what happened to me? I can change it.

However, what's the point of doing this? In the face of ruthless love, being short is nothing at all, which only shows that she doesn't love you deeply. If you pester her like this and keep her, it will only make your death more ugly. Once everyone tells the truth, the result will be even worse. Even if she finally admits that you are not short, she doesn't love you, which is true.

In fact, there are some routines for breaking up, so you must understand them. Just like a girl will say before breaking up, I am very satisfied with you, but I really can't stand your sister; Or, I like all your looks, except that I don't like your beliefs ... and so on. Actually, I tell you, I don't want to be with you. Because, like when I was a child, these are unchangeable realities.

So, sometimes, since it is doomed to be unacceptable, it is doomed that she will not be your other half, so let it go smartly, otherwise it will be a kind of torture for everyone.