Why did Tanchun let the young players go after they beat Aunt Zhao?

In A Dream of Red Mansions, when youth was about to leave, a sad thing happened, that is, copying the Grand View Garden. When copying the Grand View Garden, there are different reactions in the garden, but most of them are passive. Jia Tanchun ordered all the maids to open the door by candlelight, thinking that the situation would be threatening. Unlike others who were forced to accept copying, Jia Tanchun assumed a posture that I asked you to copy, but the result was that Pinger Fenger was busy helping to close the goods.

Just as the pickpocket was about to leave, the most wonderful scene in this book appeared. Wang Shanbao came to turn over Jia Tanchun's clothes and was slapped directly by Jia Tanchun. The old man is already a grandmother. When was he so angry that he was slapped by a girl younger than his granddaughter? Wang Shanbao wanted to find some face and said a word. Tanchun's next reaction is the most fascinating.

Every time I see this scene, I feel that Tanchun is a girl with a strong sense of identity-girl, I am the master, and no matter how high your status is, you will always be a slave. If you deserve respect, I will definitely respect you. If you are not, then I will take out the identity of the master to discipline you. But discipline belongs to discipline, and I won't lose my identity. Of course, there must be slaves who love fighting and swearing among slaves. Through novels, we know that these old mothers are extremely decent. In front of them, couples like Xifeng have to respect a little, so these maids still have some scruples, but they became famous when the master gave the order.

Therefore, there was a famous scene in which the scribe didn't talk much and killed people.

In sharp contrast with Tanchun, it is her biological mother, Aunt Zhao, who has been an aunt's master for so many years, but still has no master's thinking and cognition. Because of the Rose Nitrate incident, she ran to Hongyi Courtyard and said to Fangguan, "Little whore, I bought you to learn drama with money, but the whore is a pink head, and I, an inferior slave, am more respectful than you ..." Why do you insult them directly as a father's mother's sister when you know that they are such scum? Without losing your identity?

So as a master, how to deal with this kind of thing? Tan Chun told menstruation, "Those little girls are very stubborn. They like it. Just talk and laugh with them. If they don't like it, they can ignore him. Then he broke down, just like cats and dogs biting people at once. If you forgive, you will forgive. If you don't forgive, you can only call the housekeeper's daughter-in-law and tell him to punish him. Why do you want to give up on yourself, drink too much and lose your dignity ... "

You see, this aunt has been "demoted", and beating and scolding small players is what slaves in the family should do. An aunt did such a thing and lowered herself to the status of a slave for no reason. Isn't this a joke?

Tanchun's sense of identity made her understand what she should do and say. The master should follow the example of the master, and the slave should abide by the rules that his slaves should abide by.

Remember when the wet nurse lost money in the Spring Festival gambling and pawned her hair clasp? When this happened, the wet nurse's daughter-in-law wanted Yingchun to help intercede, and claimed that Yingchun gave them money and made a scene in the bedroom. Tanchun and Baodai came here to comfort Yingchun, but they never wanted to meet this scene. Tanchun not only scolded the wet nurse's daughter-in-law, but also scolded Pinger. For Yingchun's minions, she knows what to do.

For the daughter-in-law of this unruly wet nurse, Tan Chun said in the dialogue with Pinger, "Or he was originally whispers and didn't know the truth." If this sentence comes from Aunt Zhao, it can be said: "What is he, but a slave, who dares to yell at his master when he turns over the sky?" By the same token, Jia Tanchun's silence shows his majesty and status. After all, in this noble three girls, there are not only the identity of the master, but also the self-restraint of the master, and more talent and wisdom in managing slaves.

If Tan Chun's biological mother, Aunt Zhao, is smarter, has more sense of identity, improves self-restraint, enlightens wisdom, restrains words and deeds, and clarifies rights and responsibilities, she will win more respect, and will not be looked down upon by her daughter and annoyed by her minions.