Girlfriend slept with someone else.

From your account, I can see that your situation is really scratching your head and you can't stop.

It's actually quite simple. It is human nature to cling to the past, and it is also human nature to be afraid of being hurt and cheated. The most important question now is not whether you forgive her, but whether you still like her.

Do you still love her after the betrayal? Do you still miss her as usual? If not, then give up. Even if we get back together now, we can't be together again. That love is the most sincere and can't be derailed. If we lose it, the relationship between the two will be shattered. Even if we pretend to be strong, we will part one day.

If the other person is really forced to die, stabilize her first. I can see that she is still reluctant to let go of this feeling. Girls at this time are the easiest to do stupid things, young and have no burden. Life comes first, you have to promise her first. There is really no way to get along with her. After a while, when her mood is stable (in fact, she may be ashamed and feel sorry for you now, but you don't forgive her, so it's a bit extreme). Let's talk it over. According to your account, she should be a reasonable girl.

If you insist on parting, you can tell her to forgive her, but you have no feelings for her. This kind of thing can't be forced. You are a good girl, ..............................................................................................................................! She mainly feels sorry for you, so it should be impossible to pester you any more. Also, try not to mention it, and don't use the words you did all this, betrayal and so on. Calm down, deal with the problem properly, don't be sarcastic and aggressive. Only by communicating well and talking as usual can the problem be solved.

Finally, man, four or five years of love is not easy. Take it well. I can't believe you didn't give up.

Nobody can help you make a decision. If it is really unsustainable, then there is no way. If that sentence is familiar, you can't force feelings. I believe you have a sense of proportion! ! !

I wish you happiness! ! ~~