What should I do if I am afraid of taking responsibility and marriage?

Some people have symptoms such as fear of marriage, and they think that love will eventually lead to marriage. Both sides have certain family responsibilities, and they will feel very nervous when they have their own family roles. They think it is best not to get married. In fact, this idea is wrong. Feelings are not only difficult, but there are not only two people who bear the pressure after marriage, but also happiness.

Never say that you have lost the ability to love. In fact, not all people have the ability to love, but sometimes they hide. You need a special person to appear, stimulate your fantasy of love, and make you suddenly understand that being with each other is not unacceptable. Marrying the other person seems to be a good choice. In this case, you will meet love. Because modern people's love is really too biased towards fast food culture, that is, they feel that two people can't be together and then they will separate. There is nothing to hesitate about, just like eating a fast food. This kind of love is careless and makes many people feel meaningless.

In fact, love should not be a choice to weigh the pros and cons. It doesn't mean that you do a lot, find that the other person is the best one, and then you choose to be with the other person, because you know, at a certain age, you have to choose a similar one. This is not true love, although many people are forced at a certain age. But at the right age, what do we say about true love? Even if you didn't want to get married before, you can't imagine how much responsibility and tension you have to bear after marrying someone, but when you meet this person, you feel that marrying the other person is also a good thing, and suddenly you are not so afraid of those responsibilities.

Always believe in your ability to love and don't be afraid of marriage. When you meet the right person, you naturally have the conditions for marriage. You should also think about whether you are biased towards marriage or not. If you only see the pessimistic side of things that are originally happy or have two sides, then if you only see the bad side, of course there will be problems.