What if my brother borrows money from himself?

For example, they are usually very close and harmonious. You can remind them. If the relationship is unstable, and you rarely confide in it, you can ask directly. I think both of you will feel uncomfortable and think more. Of course, it depends on what you say. You can tell him your actual situation and let him know. It doesn't matter. Think about it. I don't know what to do. After all, my brother and I don't get along very well and seldom get along. Once, our relationship was very stiff and we seldom contacted each other. It is best for both sides to be close. After all, it is easy to understand.

Borrowing money is actually a very sensitive topic, but we have to face it all our lives. There will always be people who borrow money from you for various reasons, such as their own capital turnover, buying a house, getting married and so on. If you want to lose a friend, lend him money. It's true. As long as you lend him money, you're finished. If your relatives always ask you what you want to borrow, you should pay more attention to how many relatives in the world have broken up because of borrowing money, and at the same time avoid getting in touch with these relatives who love borrowing money.

Mainly depends on the other person's character, when to borrow money, and how much to borrow. I remember that I had a cousin who borrowed 20,000 yuan from me to build a house because of lack of funds. Because my cousin was generous and generous and didn't have much money, I lent it to him very readily, and later my cousin paid back the money within the promised time. My cousin is very grateful to me because of her trust in me. What I do is to save the poor. However, there is a kind of relative who takes the opportunity to be grateful and swear, but when he comes back, he prevaricates. Never borrow such people. If I borrow it, I don't know when I will return it. Buy yourself a lesson.

Borrowing money only refers to one standard: saving the poor does not save the poor. Personal experience, provoked a coquettish, my brother, every time borrow 3K~5K, I didn't know at first, he said to return the credit card, and later found out that gambling, credit card cashing, has been deeply mired. I stopped borrowing it and began to blame me, why I didn't help him, who and who, and how much money my brother gave to help his brother. He won't remember that I paid for his son's two-year tuition. He won't remember that my sister-in-law didn't have the money to have a caesarean section in the hospital when she gave birth. I paid for it. He won't remember that I bought milk powder for my nephew until he was 2 years old. He only remembers why I didn't lend him money this time and why I didn't help him.