What should I do if I am too decadent?

Life is a race against time. Tired, you can't stop to rest, but you can't stop looking forward to the future. With expectations and beliefs, we can overcome ourselves.

Decadence mostly comes from your high expectations of yourself or others. No matter what you face, nothing is perfect. Learn to accept, accept imperfect self, imperfect things, and know how to be satisfied.

When we are dealing with the endless stream of unsatisfactory things in life, we do it again and again, but it ends in failure again and again, even if such failure will make us lose confidence, don't want to do it, and want to give up, leading to our collapse, excessive decadence and no hope for life. We can't do this. Even if we fail, there will always be success. We should build up confidence, never give up and persevere. Decadence will only make you lose more wealth, but adjust your mentality and dare to face it, and you will see the joy that success brings you.

Ma Yun, the founder of Alibaba, his success is hard-won. He has gone through three college entrance examinations, and only got one point in the first one. He worked as a secretary and delivered newspapers, but he still didn't give up his goal-Peking University. The next year, he still went into the examination room to pursue his goals. This time, fate played a joke on him. I got 19 in math and 140 in undergraduate course. However, in the face of repeated failures, he did not give up his hopes and goals, but made a comeback and chose to sit in the examination room of the college entrance examination again. Instead of decadence and depression, he faced his goals again and again. Although the third time was five points worse than the undergraduate line, I was admitted to Hangzhou Normal University because I dropped the line.

Life is like this. People with pursuits and goals, no matter what difficulties and setbacks you face, will not stop there, dare not move on and be decadent, and have no pursuit of life. When you are too decadent, you should always believe that all this is not unfair to you, but to exercise your will, let you grow up, and let you learn to dare to face greater challenges, not decadence. When you are too decadent, think of those successful people who stick to their dreams. The hardships they have experienced and the blows they have experienced are more painful than you. They don't give up and persevere. When we are decadent, what reason do we have not to work hard and face it? The greatest pain in this world does not come from physical disability, nor from the compulsion of life, but from your weakness and decadence in the face of failure.

No matter how we face life and setbacks, we should build up confidence. What you are experiencing now will be the wealth of your future success. When we are too decadent, we should bravely accept the reality. Facing the reality, having faith and confidence is the most important thing for you to overcome difficulties, and faith is the guiding light on your way forward. As long as you set goals for yourself and persevere, decadence has long since ceased to belong to you.