Words of comfort to men at a low career level

1. In fact, every avenue leading to sunshine is full of bumps.

2. Every setback or unfavorable mutation carries the same or larger beneficial seeds.

3. Every road is difficult, but once you choose, you must go on.

4. Give yourself a little applause and let me overcome my inner cowardice; Give yourself a little applause, and the fearless heart will be more firm; Give yourself a little applause and warm my way forward alone.

5. Only those who keep looking for opportunities will seize opportunities in time. The harder they work, the luckier they will be.

In a man's trough, a woman should do her job first, and don't care too much about him. A man has a strong self-regulation ability in biological evolution. As his right-hand man, a woman takes care of herself without adding more troubles to a man, so that he can get through this period with peace of mind, and he will love you more in the future.

In fact, when a man is depressed, he likes to shut himself off from the outside world and spend a "cave period" alone, just like putting himself in a box. Smart women should not open this box to enlighten him without authorization. At this time, men are very resistant. Your care will be more effective when he comes out of the box after this difficult period.

Most men are in trouble. Their minds are overloaded and their thoughts are particularly confused. Maybe he is trying to jump out of this difficulty. At this time, women must not put pressure on him, reason with him or even question his actions. A strong man can only become strong if he learns to fall and get up by himself. If others help him at this time, he will become evasive in the future.

When a man's career is frustrated, he needs more encouragement and comfort from a woman, not accusations and complaints. If a woman is unkind to her husband at this time, she will only make the marriage come to a dead end. What men sometimes need is not necessarily innocent girl's company, but peer-to-peer communication, enlightenment and eager for advice. Everything can be with him, and even give him the other half of the appropriate advice.

Most boys are self-aware. After you encourage him, you must take time to sit down with him and exchange his ideas in depth, and help him find the root cause of being unpopular together in the process of listening to his explanation.