to tell the truth

I always think that lying is a bad term, so every time Dabao has this problem, my mother always deliberately avoids this term and tells Dabao that you have to tell the truth! In recent days, Dabao has not told his mother the truth twice. More serious. Dabao dug out all the batteries of the dolphin bubble gun and put them back in before mom found out. However, the battery was put upside down, so the bubble gun stopped ringing and the bubble could not come out. Dabao said to his mother, Mom, the bubble gun is broken. ""why is it broken? Was it bad just now? " "I don't know. I just sat here, and the bubble gun was next to me, and suddenly it stopped. "Mom looked at it and found that it was really broken, so she wanted to know how it was broken, because I knew from Dabao's expression that he was not telling the truth. Mom asked many times, but Dabao just refused to admit that the bubble gun was broken by himself. Mom didn't ask again, just picked up the gun and wanted to take a closer look. When she opened the battery box, she found that the battery was loose, so she pressed it and tried again, but it still didn't ring. A closer look shows that all three batteries are upside down. I knew Dabao must have taken out the battery and studied it. So my mother asked again, "Dabao, have you opened the battery box?" "No, I didn't dig the battery." This sentence is typical of guilt, and then ask: "You didn't pick the battery, why did the battery turn upside down?" "But I just didn't pick up the battery. "This is a typical default. Continue to ask: "Did you dig the battery and put it in, but you didn't know the pros and cons?" "I just cut it for a while and then put it in. "I began to realize the mistake." Then you tell mom that all three batteries have been taken out? Mom won't be angry if you tell her the truth. Mom can forgive you as long as you tell the truth. If you don't tell the truth, mom will be very angry and may not forgive you. "Wow, Dabao cried." Mom, I was wrong. To tell you the truth, I dug three batteries. "Finally tell the truth!" Then why didn't you tell your mother the truth just now? ""I'm afraid my mother will be angry. " My son's answer made me suddenly don't know what to say. I was in a panic for a while, fearing that my mother would be angry, so the child refused to tell the truth. Is this a failure of motherhood? What kind of impression do I give my children? What kind of mother am I in the child's mind? I suddenly made a slip of the tongue that day and didn't know how to face the child's real eyes. To tell the truth, I feel relaxed with my children, and I rarely force them to do anything, but I will definitely let him do what he likes, accompany him when I have time, and occasionally tell him some harsh questions, but those are matters of principle, so I dare not be careless, but my children have said such things. Therefore, I must re-examine my attitude and educational methods towards children, hoping that I can be a good mother.

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