Let's talk about it first

Governing the country first, managing the family first, educating people first and correcting others first. If a country, a nation, a family and a family want to stand on their own feet in the world and society, the most fundamental thing is to cultivate and educate many talented people with high moral character and outstanding ability. Good family rules can make up for the deficiency of modern education that only pays attention to knowledge and ignores morality, and they are carefully revised with good intentions.

Let's talk about it first

1. Self-discipline is actually sometimes a sign of caution and independence. Everything starts from yourself, be strict with yourself, always exercise self-discipline and self-management, critically examine yourself with your own eyes, and be a man first, then be a man.

Second, I searched my circle of friends and found no pictures of bullfighting. This shouldn't have happened. Miao's bronze trombone welcome door missed the strange rain and didn't want to search for familiar cars along the way. How did so many cars get in? Our car doesn't. We walked more than ten kilometers a day, but we still couldn't catch up, which is understandable. I am willing to measure the land in my hometown with the sole of my foot when I am free, to tell the truth. The distance between venues varies from time to time, so programming should take into account the walking time and the nature of the work when putting the car. Talking about traffic, peach blossom is ten miles, traffic jam is ten miles, and parking is difficult, which is the focus of previous Peach Blossom Festivals.

Third, it is also a terrible thing for a person to always feel good about himself! Because no one around you likes you, but you still brag and play a one-man show. Such people will make people hate you even more (). You still have to learn to reflect on yourself! Consider the feelings of others when you do things. Being too arbitrary will only make others sick. If you are not clean, don't tell others what to do. Don't you understand the truth?

Fourth, we must be excellent at striking the iron. Doing things for others is practicing. Have you ever seen anyone get rich by stealing? Have you ever seen anyone make a fortune by gambling? Have you ever seen someone cheat Guangzong Yaozu? Have you ever seen anyone win the championship by tripping over others? If you don't work hard on yourself, you will always make suggestions on others. In the end, we can only harm others and ourselves and be spurned by others. Honesty, dishonesty, bad words. Correct yourself first, and then it is difficult to deceive others.

Fifth, be honest with yourself first and be a man in advance. Managers must set an example if they want to manage their subordinates well. The power of demonstration is amazing. Not only should we be brave enough to take responsibility for our subordinates like our ancestor Li Li, but we should also put everything in the first place, be strict with ourselves, and don't do to others what you don't want. Once the prestige is established among employees by setting an example, they will unite from top to bottom and greatly improve the overall combat effectiveness of the team. Those who win people's hearts win the world, and being a leader admired by subordinates will make management get twice the result with half the effort.

6. Correct yourself first, don't do to others what you don't want. On the eve of Cui Duoduo's fourth grade.

7. Let me make a suggestion: Educate people first, and correct others first. Reflect on yourself more, don't go back and repent and pretend to be hurt, it's too late. If the problem is not solved, in another way, the donkey will be poor sooner or later. Stop before it's too late!

To put it bluntly, you are a hypocrite who is only interested in profit. At least, we are still a clean stream.

Nine, to overcome difficulties, it is necessary to be hard while the iron is hot; Correct yourself first! Things are unpredictable, and people stand tall because of ups and downs. You can deny my present, but I believe tomorrow will be beautiful! You can ignore everything about me. I still believe that tomorrow's sun will not only shine on you and me!

Ten, correct yourself first, every day will only blindly blame others, how well you do.

Eleven, mobile, China Unicom, telecommunications, and so on, these network companies set up credit lines for their customers, and stood on the moral high ground and became the judges of public credit, but have you ever thought about it? How about your own credit? What is your overlord clause and how do you explain it? Can a crow fall on a black pig and only see the black of others but not his own? Only strong arson is allowed, and the vulnerable groups are not allowed to light up.

12. Correct yourself in front of others. Don't be unable to do it yourself. You are shameless. How did you do that?

Thirteen, let's sigh a little, be honest with yourself first, ask others to do it first, and don't always stand on the moral high ground and talk about others. I hope our own people can accompany them in harmony and walk slowly together.

Fourteen, try to blame others! Correct yourself first! Crows always stand on pigs!

15.\ It doesn't matter who you don't like, who you don't like, who you don't like, who you don't like and who you don't like, but please don't blame others casually. Others don't exist the way you like, because they are not for you. Don't think you are great, arrogant and overbearing. Remember that everyone wants to have this experience. Be honest, make friends, respect each other, tolerate each other, be sincere and understand for a long time!

16. Don't come out with an unknown address if you don't know your business. Please take care of your own land and be honest with yourself first.

Seventeen, some people talk like a fart all day, can't control their mouths, be honest with themselves first, pay more attention to themselves and pay less attention to other people's affairs and problems.

Nineteen, correct yourself first. If you can't lead by example, but are vegetarian, it will be difficult to convince the public.

Before observing others and changing others, observe yourself and change yourself. Dazhen Kampo's "Righteousness before Self"

Twenty-one, you are right, you are right, you want to miss your heart. Right is pure; An upright person is right in front of himself. Thinking about his own mistakes will lead to greatness.

22. What's the difference between passers-by who abuse the Lord wantonly and real brain powder who say bad words to protect idols? Is it noble not to be idolized? What face do these people have to say that rice circles are deformed and losers like them? Correct yourself first and hope to be known by everyone.

Twenty-three, it is imperative to correct others first. Don't smear or whitewash history. Just put things right after facing them squarely. The so-called attempts, including curses, are not controversial. Don't say anything, because it is impossible. Showing off the princes who climbed up the pole will only backfire.

24. correct yourself first If you can't do it yourself, don't ask others to do it.

Look at people like yourself, ask others first!

Life, not surprised and not disturbed; Feelings are neither strong nor weak;

Interpersonal, not far or near; Fate, no more, no less;

Time is not long or short; Time, no hurry.

Living, a calm and calm. A beautiful and elegant lettering year.

Whether it is stormy or sunny;

No matter what fate, or the road is bumpy.

Smiles are always hidden in the heart and floating on the expression.

Living is a taste, whether it is bitter or sweet, it is adjustment.

You can't judge a person by how much you read.

A person who can't read but knows how to be a man is a person with real connotation;

A person, even if he has read a lot of poetry books, can't use them flexibly.

Every word and deed is vulgar, which is equivalent to wasting youth.

A person who recites scriptures and worships Buddha all day without knowing compassion is tantamount to false practice;

Although one has never read Buddhist scriptures,

But being able to do well and respect others from the people around you is actually practicing.

The heart is a river, if it is shallow, it can't hold too much;

The heart is a river. If it is deep, it can accommodate boulders and reefs.

A person's life, the mood depends on the state of mind, and a good mood needs the nourishment of a good state of mind.

Good water nourishes face, good attitude nourishes mood.

If narrow-minded, a small grain of sand can also stir up a thousand waves;

If you have a broad mind, if you throw yourself into a boulder, it will only cause small ripples.

You need to tolerate things and be patient when you encounter problems.

Heart, there are grievances to support;

Quantity, sadness can be broadened.

Only by tolerating the mistakes of others can we tolerate the world.

Only by enduring the shortcomings of others can the world adapt.

Magic is born from the heart, and reading begins from the heart.

When the road is not wide enough, it is because there is no road in my heart, so there will be no road in my eyes.

The heart is wide and the road is wide, and the heart is narrow everywhere.

Don't let yourself go, it's your paranoia.

While pushing others to the wall, they also push themselves to the wall.

Everything is important when you have it in your heart; If you have nothing in your heart, everything is light.

Don't be wary of people everywhere, always be vigilant,

You can't walk into other people's hearts, and others can't walk into yours.

There is love in the heart, but no hate in the eyes. Open your heart to others and treat things with compassion.

Treat people with: Yan Shi, Yan Shi, Xin Shi, Wu Shi, Shen Shi.

Everything is peaceful because there is a charitable heart.

Compassion is not in the mouth, but in the heart, more in action.

If your heart is full of happiness, your life will be sunny.

If you are full of gratitude, your life will be peaceful;

If you are full of friendliness, your life will be full;

If your heart is full of love, life will become warm;

My heart is full of hope, and my life will be satisfied;

If you are full of doubt, life will be full of anxiety; My heart is full of resentment and my life is full of turmoil;

If your heart is full of disdain, life will be lonely; If you are full of selfishness, life will be full of traps.

Everyone has a blessing bag, what you put in, you will get.

Everyone has a mirror, and no matter what expression you make at it, it will return your expression.

Look at people like yourself, ask others first.

Others are a mirror of their own heart, and the world is a comparison of themselves.

If the heart is not in doubt, the world is simple;

If the heart is in doubt, life is a mess.

Life is actually very easy, a cup of tea, a story, a day's leisure;

In fact, life is very simple. It's nice to meet friends once in a while, smile and feel a little.

Immersed in the virtual, life is chaotic; Cherish the present and have no regrets in life.

Cherish the fate, need to cherish, now is true;

Love, need love, is true on both sides.

The heart is not chaotic, and the world is not chaotic; If you understand the importance, life will be peaceful.

I can't help but say

Why do you keep pestering me when you know it's hard? Knowing that there is no result, let yourself continue to hurt; I know it's silly, but I still can't help but indulge.

I can't help but say

One, 20xx, spent in exhaustion, spent in regret, spent in loneliness and helplessness, spent in willfulness, spent in injustice and perfection, spent in mediocrity.

Second, listen to others, after all, you are not among them, you don't understand others' difficulties, and others can't help you, so don't judge things according to your own understanding, let alone comment. Because only those who have experienced it can understand that feeling. Giving advice to others without trying is actually an armchair strategist. Sometimes the authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear!

Third, I am increasingly afraid of the Chinese New Year. This is not my own festival at all. Do a lot of things that you don't want to do against your will, that is, pay New Year greetings to others. Why is it that when you grow up, you will be controlled by the secular world, and you will be forced to do something for the sake of other people's remarks, and you will become more and more involuntarily. Hate Chinese New Year! Hate any festivals!

Fourth, the embarrassment on the wine table, uncomfortable sitting all night, involuntary entertainment, I am still suitable for raising children at home.

Five, it is good, can't wait for sth over and over again, thank you for everything in the past, anyway, it is a lifetime, willing to get it. Anyway, this society is so helpless and enjoys it.

Perhaps human nature is selfish, thinking only of myself first, but I haven't been so tolerant, or I will make such a choice one day, and I will understand what it means to be involuntarily.

I have always hated being a caterer, but I can't help myself. In a complicated and delicate relationship, you will only feel bored and meaningless.

I'm sorry for my dearest friend, but I can't help it.

Nine, there are boastful and self-righteous colleagues, colleagues who are depressed every day, and colleagues who are eccentric. Strange unit, strange atmosphere, too foggy, I want to leave the organization, don't want to blend in, don't want to listen, don't want to see, don't want to talk, don't want to associate with people, don't want to get along with people. But involuntarily, I had to contact and adapt, and began to speculate on people's minds, what to say, what to listen to, who has what background, and complicated interpersonal relationships. The most important thing is not to allow you to be different from others. You will brainwash and recite every day, and you will be educated to be an experienced person. In fact, how big their world is, it is just a small place here, thinking that you can understand the whole world by watching the news. Be angry, but keep smiling.

Ten, it may not sound good, but it is all true. Everyone can say nice things, but not everyone will be willing to say unpleasant things to you. Maybe you can't help it, but be broad-minded, accept all the good and bad, and don't always see the bad side and complain. Strive to pursue your own life, give yourself appropriate pressure, and don't be lazy. No matter whether life is good or bad, let yourself be the master of life, not forced by life. Everyone's life is not perfect, there are gains and losses, there are joys and sorrows. Enlarge your heart, and you will find that life is fair to everyone. So enlarge your heart and accept life without being forced by it.

Eleven, when you can't help it, you are not strong enough!

There is too much helplessness in life, and no one can really understand you except yourself.

Thirteen, fantasy life in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, troubled times can't help it.

I went shopping in Zhangda supermarket yesterday. Due to the large number of people at the end of the year, the supermarket is very crowded. I bought a piece of milk and went out to the door, just being squeezed. I can't help but bump into an aunt in her sixties and seventies. My heart was not calm, so I quickly apologized to the old man, who was angry.

Fifteen, Ouyang Xiu said that life is born with infatuation, and this complaint has nothing to do with romance. In this world, some people can't help themselves, others can't help themselves, and the most difficult thing to grasp is feelings.

Sixteen, in life, there are too many things that can't be helped, and there are too many helplessness. An impenetrable disguise is like an impenetrable heart. An unclear feeling is like an incomprehensible mind. Less muscle is not as good as more heart; Forgiveness with a smile is better than red eyes. In life, being confused is rare, and being confused is also rare. Live too clearly, is the biggest don't understand. People will be happy if they are satisfied, and happy if they are simple.

You can't give up easily, after all, there is no way.

Eighteen-year-old, standing at the crossroads of life, in a dilemma, wry smile, helpless, involuntarily, completely out of mind and body.

Nineteen, in fact, people are always involuntarily! Sometimes when you think about it, you can't figure out what the meaning is. However, if you don't do it, you feel sorry for your conscience. In fact, it's nothing, but you always add some unwarranted guilt to yourself for no reason. Maybe.

I know you can't help yourself in the army, and sometimes your words will make me angry, but you must remember to coax me. I'm easy to coax, and I don't want to miss you. I am stubborn sometimes, and I don't want to bow my head and admit my mistake, and I don't want to contact you actively, but you must remember to come back to me. When I said break up, it was definitely not true. I'm just angry, but I'll try not to say anything so that you don't worry in the army. Please believe me too. I won't have an affair with others. You are enough for me. I'm not that kind of playboy. I will wait for you to marry me.

Twenty-one, have I changed? I found it myself. I don't want to change, but I can't. I haven't changed. I think that's enough.

Twenty-two, it is really not easy to live according to your own wishes. If you are familiar with it, the Jianghu can't help it. It really makes sense.

Twenty-three, if you don't insist on yourself, you will always be tempted by yourself, have to covet, and finally lose in indecision.

Twenty-four, we don't like a person, but because others praise him, we also change our minds and say we like him; We don't like doing something, but because others want to do it and we are embarrassed to refuse, we can only become followers of others. Not only can't you say no loudly to people and things you hate, but you should also smile and agree. This seems really helpless, but when you think about it, the reason why we can't help it is actually due to those unprincipled compromises.

Twenty-five, the core monument of life crosses the road and soars ten pounds of meat every day. Love, whether reluctant, helpless or involuntary, is not indifferent. Couples should have been abolished, but the phone case can't, definitely not.

Twenty-six, I haven't been so confused and upset for a long time. Ups and downs, I don't know right or wrong, I don't know the direction of progress, and all unexpected things are piled up together, and I can't help it. Maybe when reason can't solve the problem, we should follow our feelings to make a choice.

Twenty-seven, a good man is always a good man, even if he stays away from evil, he can't help himself. But even if you can't, you have to pay for what you have done.

Twenty-eight, in life, there are too many helpless things and too many helplessness. I didn't mean to, maybe I had to; I have a different opinion. Maybe I have to do this. An impenetrable disguise is like an impenetrable heart. An unclear feeling is like an incomprehensible mind. Less muscle is not as good as more heart; Forgiveness with a smile is better than red eyes. In life, being confused is rare, and being confused is also rare. Live too clearly, is the biggest don't understand.

I can't help but talk about those classic sentences that people can't help.

1, there are many things in the world that I can't control myself, such as I miss you so much, but there are too many reasons that I can't control.

2, meet unexpectedly, it goes without saying that there is no medicine to heal itself. I can't help it. I didn't mean to. I can't help it.

3, everything is not what you want, you must learn to help yourself when you are alive.

4. There are many ways to express love. This is one of them. Too many people can't help themselves. People are there, and the heart is there.

Because we are too young, we bet on love. Love whether there is a reason or not. Love is involuntary, and maturity is destined to be a very painful word.

6. In this life, you should live well for yourself. After all, life is your own. If you live for others, you will not be happy after all. There are too many people in life who can't help themselves. Be yourself. Throw away the unhappy and disliked.

7. Life is always like this. One carelessness will upset the whole plan, and sometimes it is really involuntary.

8. I really want to erase you from my memory, but I can't help thinking of you: every moment in my dream and every minute when I wake up.

9. Everything is not what you want. To live is to learn to accept that there is nothing you can do.

10, do you feel that everything is out of control?

1 1, the years of youth, we can't help it. If everything can be done again, maybe I will leave with a smile.

12, soon our initial heart will be worn away by years, and we will soon realize our helplessness.

13, I really want to spend more time with you, but I can't. Please understand that I love you.

14, in life, there are too many things that we can't control ourselves and have too much helplessness. I didn't mean to, maybe I had to; I have a different opinion. Maybe I have to do this.

15, involuntarily, involuntarily cried, laughed, hurt, loved, and read is a complete life.

16, in the ups and downs, I can't help but work hard and make progress.

17, I regret not going out to travel first after graduation, but working directly. I want to go out now, but I can't help myself.

18, born as a human being, why must we follow the established life trajectory of most people?

19, there are too many helplessness in life, which obliterates the last innocence in my heart. I hope I can see not only the black sky all the time, but also the bright and blue sky.

20. It is a pity that there are still many things left undone in the plan. I feel a sense of helplessness.

2 1, too many people can't help it. In the end, it can only end in one sentence, and people will not think about how helpless they are.

22, everyone has their own involuntarily, insincere. We are often not cruel, and our cruelty is forced out by reality.

23. What has made you? What is truth? Truth needs praise, but what is achievement? After all, it's just human nature and insatiable greed. You can't help yourself when you're alive.

In this involuntary age, nothing seems so ideal.

25. When I was a child, I always wanted my parents to stay with me. When I grow up, my parents want my children to be closer to me, but the fact is that I can't control myself. Loyalty and filial piety are hard to tolerate since ancient times.

26. In this life, you should live well for yourself. After all, life is your own. If you live for others, you will not be happy after all. There are too many people in life who can't help themselves. Be yourself. Look at the problem from another angle and live in another way.

27. Thanks to the sadness and loss in the days, we have evolved into a better self through unconscious efforts.

28. If you really love me, please call me as soon as possible, so that a person who loves you deeply will suffer less. I love you, I can't help it.

29. I miss you involuntarily. Every thought has a new dream. I will always protect you, rain or shine, wholeheartedly.

People can't control themselves when they reach middle age. True and false, false and true. No solution is a solution.

3 1, there are too many helpless choices in life. Society, like rivers and lakes, always makes people involuntarily and insincerely.

32. With children, many things are hopeless. If people who can understand and help are so happy, people who can't understand are so tired, and they will feel pain every day.

Sometimes being open-minded is not only because of kindness, but because you grow up and begin to understand this cold world. Here, people may grow old as fast as they struggle with words.

34. Many times, when you have a brilliant idea, reality often beats you. We are all involuntarily, and there are still many constraints.

At the moment when my tears were out of control, I knew what it meant to be involuntarily.