The daughter with an annual salary of one million was angry with her mother: You sold me. Why should I give you a pension? what do you think?

Someone once asked me, "What do you do when the person closest to you intentionally hurts you?" ?

I replied to him: "I don't hate them, but I won't forgive them, because not retaliating is my greatest tolerance and bottom line for them."

Jason is actually more qualified to answer this question than I am, because I have never experienced it, and she has experienced it herself.

"A few days ago, I drove my biological mother out of the house because she wanted me to support the elderly. I refused directly and then drove her out of the house."

Zhang Jie said that although her behavior, in the eyes of most people, is a big violation of the Tao, she thinks she is not wrong, because all this is her mother's fault. She doesn't owe her mother. She has paid off her mother's fertility.

Sister Zhang said that she was born in a small town with backward thoughts. At that time, there was a saying in the town that "having children is a treasure and having daughters is grass". Therefore, since she was sensible, Jason has never felt the warm love of her parents. Because he had a younger brother, his father was weak and his mother was violent, so Jason felt the deepest, either being beaten by his mother or being called "Sangmenxing" by her mother.

Other children of the same age went to school at the age of six, so she was not qualified to study at the age of eight, because her mother told her from an early age that women's study was a waste of money and useless. Anyway, she will have to get married in the future. In order to send her brother to the best primary school in the county, Zhang Jie was sold by her mother to her adoptive parents 1000 kilometers away.

At that time, even if Jason cried and begged again, she was still sold by her mother. Later, I heard from my brother that she had a lot of sores that year, and her biological parents didn't want to spend money to treat her, so they sold her.

At that time, Jason was particularly desperate. She doesn't know why her parents don't want her. She is afraid that her future parents will hurt her. Fortunately, she came to a good family and her adoptive parents were very kind to her. There are two brothers at home. Because I am too old to have children and want a daughter, I want Jason.

Zhang Jie said that her parents were very kind to her, and her two brothers also took special care of her, helped her treat diseases, performed entrance surgery on her, and let her live a normal girl's life. Therefore, Jason was particularly grateful to his adoptive parents since he was a child. He was very sensible and studied hard. He wanted to repay his adoptive parents in the future. After graduating from college, Zhang Jie returned to her adoptive parents' city and stayed with them while starting a business.

In these years, her biological parents have not asked her anything. At that time, although Jason felt uncomfortable, he put it down. She thought maybe she would never see her real parents again.

But I didn't know that this year, her biological mother actually came to see her relatives. Zhang Jie didn't want to see it at first, but she was told by her adoptive parents that no matter what she did, blood is thicker than water and can't be too cruel.

After seeing Jason that day, her biological mother didn't ask for help, but directly said to Jason, "Daughter, I heard that you can earn millions a year now, so help your brother more in the future. Your father died, and your mother will follow you in the future. Please give your mother a pension. " Hearing her mother's words, Jason, who was calm inside, was very angry because she didn't know why the fire broke out. She directly replied to her mother: "Mom, you sold me at the beginning. Why should I give you a pension? I don't owe you anymore. If you have to be unreasonable, you can sue me for unfilial, and then I'll see you in court. I am always there. "

It was also Jason's words that left her biological mother speechless, and finally she swore and slammed the door. Because of this, her adoptive parents sighed that she was too impulsive. After all, she is a biological mother. Both brothers said that she did a good job, saying that such relatives could not recognize her at all.

Jason said that not retaliating against this incident is the greatest tolerance for her. Because of this, she is often criticized by people around her. Some people called her a baiwenhang, saying that her mother raised her to eight years old even if she didn't care much about her, and she was pregnant in October, so since she has the ability, she should give her a pension and let her live a good life. So Zhang Jie asked me, did she do it right?

Bian Xiao has something to say:

In my opinion, I think Jason did the right thing, because she really didn't have any obligation to provide for her biological mother's old age, because although her mother had the kindness to give birth, she didn't have the kindness to raise her, and when her mother sold Jason, she had already got the compensation, so Jason didn't owe her biological mother at all.

In my opinion, people who say that Jason is unfilial are actually people who stand and talk like it's easy, because they will never know the pain if the needle is not stuck in them. If this happened to them, they would definitely not say these words, so I asked Jason not to care about these words, because these are bystanders.

As Jason said, no revenge is the greatest tolerance for her. Everything she has now, millions of annual salary, is given to her by her adoptive parents and earned by her own efforts, so she has no obligation to repay her biological mother at all.

Maybe someone will say that Jason got everything from her biological parents, so she should be grateful, because if her biological parents hadn't betrayed her, she wouldn't be where she is today.

If someone really says that, then I will just sneer at it and ignore it, because it's all nonsense.

Angela Zhang once said in the program:

"I won't be grateful to those who have hurt me. If you hurt me, it will hurt me. After all, if you don't hurt me, I will become stronger, because I am not only naturally inspirational, but also naturally strong. "

Why should we be grateful to those who have hurt us? Even if they don't hurt us, we will be stronger, so this is nonsense.

In my opinion, injury is injury, and the perpetrators should be punished, otherwise it is unfair to the victims. Why should we forgive him? No revenge is our greatest tolerance. In other words, even if we retaliate, the other party deserves it, and no one is qualified to make irresponsible remarks.