My sister's children are going to the third grade soon, and they are somewhat rebellious. We don't listen to what we say, and we get bored when we say it. What should we do? Urgent! Seek a solution!

children in this period are in adolescence, and adolescence is also the second rebellious period of people. We should fully see the psychological changes of children's development in this period, and help them out of the predicament from the perspective of cognitive psychology and physiology.

In this period, children's physical development is accelerated, and they are prone to physical and mental crisis and physiological and biological disorder, which will lead to psychological behavior deviation. All kinds of memory span reached the peak, thinking mode got rid of the shackles of specific content, assuming that deductive reasoning ability developed to a certain level, abstract logical reasoning ability developed significantly. The contradiction between psychological adult feeling and semi-mature state is the root cause of various contradictions in adolescent psychological activities. The contradiction between psychological weaning and spiritual support; The contradiction between psychological atresia and openness; The alternation of sense of accomplishment and frustration makes the children's psychological emotions in this period have a great contrast. They are often self-centered and have a rebellious psychological tendency. These are the normal psychological reactions of normal children.

Therefore, we should analyze and discuss children's gains and losses in this process from a scientific point of view, and we can't reprimand children with previous educational methods and experiences. We should be good at respecting and understanding children's views, and use our wisdom to analyze and lead children out of misunderstandings. Don't always think that he is a child. Everything has to follow the instructions of adults or act according to their thinking. Let him learn to find a way out in difficulties, find balance in bumps, and find experience in falls. Give him more opportunities and provide some of his needs, so that he can understand his responsibilities and responsibilities after maturity through practice. Parents should not exaggerate their dissatisfaction with violence, and should not stimulate their children's faults with hurtful words. Get along with children equally, learn to be patient, learn to appreciate their achievements, and share their experiences and lessons. Bless the healthy growth of children!