The best philosophy of life classic QQ talk

Kindness is actually very simple: if you see someone’s wall coming down, if you can’t help it, then it is also a kind of kindness not to push it; if you see someone eating porridge and you are eating meat, if you don’t want to let it go, then it is also a kind of kindness to hold your tongue. Kindness is a kind of kindness. If you don't want to comfort someone when you see them sad and crying, then it is also a kind of kindness to rejoice in someone's misfortune. As a teacher, if you can't have students all over the world, then it is also a kind of kindness not to let others down.

Don’t ask others why, ask yourself why.

Life is a dojo, and living is a kind of practice. The heart is faith, and the soul is totem. What kind of inner cultivation you have will determine the kind of life you will have. Don't always say that your destiny is in the hands of God. In fact, as soon as you were born, God handed over half of your destiny to you. Every word you say and everything you do is calculating the value of your life. However, for some people the value of your life is increased, while for others it is decreased.

The reason why distance is scary is that you don’t know whether the other person misses you or forgets you.

Life is a long road with infinite forks. Everyone has to make choices constantly, and different choices will inevitably lead to completely different lives. I always hear people say that if it was so and so in the beginning, it would not be so and so now...so sad. In fact, there is no real good or bad choice in every fork in the road. As long as you regard life as your own unique creation, you will not look back frequently if you had made a different choice.

Only if you have roots in your heart can you blossom and bear fruit; only if you have wishes in your heart, can you achieve your career; only if you have reason in your heart, can you travel around the world; only if you have a master in your heart, can you be true wherever you stand; if you have virtue in your heart, Only by having the Tao in your heart can you have everything.

In real life, I believe that many people feel that they are not fluent in speaking. They are very envious when they see others' eloquent words and witty remarks, so they comfort themselves: "I am an honest person and I don't know how to speak fluently." Speak." You must know that because of your "inability to speak", the good things that should belong to you-high salary, promotion, success, and love are all missed by you.

Don’t expect everyone to understand you, because everyone has their own preferences for carrots and cabbage. If you make radish, you cannot make green vegetables.

When dealing with people, you should be drunk when you are drunk, and you should be awake when you are awake. This is the great understanding. You don't have to be the first to do everything. When you are low-key, you might as well get drunk. A drunk person knows that when it is time to wake up, he must not be really drunk. When you are drunk and awake, disaster is not far away; when you are drunk and awake, regret is too late. When you are drunk, you let go of your feelings, you avoid the edge when it comes to dealing with people, you look down upon worldly affairs, and you pretend to be confused about life. It is wisdom to be drunk when you are drunk, and it is your character to be awake when you are awake.

Our pain comes from endless desires, endless comparisons, and endless struggles. The gains and losses, victories and defeats, joys and sorrows in the past always make it difficult for us to let go. Let your desires be weaker, and all your possessions will eventually be lost; let your mentality be more relaxed, and no matter how high you climb, you will eventually come down.

Many people say: I don’t know what I want. In fact, the real meaning of this sentence is: I don’t have the courage to face it and work hard enough to fight for what I want.

People always like to compare with others to see who is better than themselves and who is not as good as themselves. In fact, what causes your troubles and sorrows is never other people's misfortune and pain, but your own attitude.

There are two me in every suffering person: an imperfect me and a perfect me. Imperfection is human nature, so this me is real; perfection deviates from human nature, so this me is illusory. By admitting imperfection, we can find the real self, imperfect but complete.

It doesn’t matter what others think of me, the only thing that matters is being true to myself and how I feel now.

"I don't have money now, I will go when I have money" "I don't have time now, I will go when I have time" In fact, traveling only requires a brave heart to go when you want, and only a brave heart. Pack your backpack and head out. Especially for women, when you walk on the road, your strong experience will gradually precipitate your temperament, and your broadened horizons will expand your mind. You are no longer a little woman who can wipe away your tears with a tissue.

I hope that in my early twenties, I can do something that will make me smile when I think about it when I am eighty years old.

Falling in love with someone is not scary, but the fear of getting out of control is not scary; breaking up is not scary, but being unable to let go; being alone is not scary, but being alone all the time; being sick is not scary It's scary. What's scary is not being able to get sick. What's scary is not being unemployed. What's scary is not looking for a job. What's scary is not having money. What's scary is having to wait for help. What's scary is losing. What's scary is losing completely. "It's not scary to be wrong. What's scary is making the same mistake again and again."

If you can choose all the virtues by yourself, child, you should choose tolerance first. Peace and quiet may be expensive, but with tolerance you can spend them luxuriously. Tolerance can relax others and comfort yourself. It will make you put love first and only use the weapon of hate as a last resort. Tolerance will make you easy-going and make you take things that some people value very lightly.