How to answer the girl's question "What do you like about me"?

The safest answer is: I like everything about you. Although such an answer is full of love stories and pink bubbles, it looks like thousands of people and is insincere.

And what is the most sincere answer?

1. It is always pleasant to find out the obvious advantages of the other party, praise them directly and be praised sincerely.

2. It is often better to notice each other's shortcomings and tell the opposite of this shortcoming than the first one.

For example, the other person is a slow-witted person, and it takes a long time to do things often. Going out keeps you waiting for half a day. At this time, you say, "Baby, although you are a little slow at ordinary times, I find that because of your slowness, you become very careful and do everything in an orderly way."

You will find that it makes her happier than giving her a gift. She will think that you really care about her and never let go of her little details.

It is better to be accepted as a hidden shortcoming than to be praised as an obvious advantage. Don't ask me why, because the obvious advantage is that everyone can see it. Well, would you choose to be an ordinary passerby or a special person around her?

Of course, if you are really nervous and can't see the obvious advantages and hidden disadvantages of each other, I have prepared the most witty answer for you: although you have some minor faults, it doesn't hurt me, but it makes you look more lovely. Who told me to love you? Not perfunctory, but also shows that you care about her.

The risk is that she will ask you what the "small problem" is. At this time, you just need to answer: since the kitten is ill, it's good to have me as a pet, so you can be my girlfriend with peace of mind.

The psychological principle used in the last answer is that good words should be said at the end.

Usually, when a leader criticizes someone, he will choose to say something nice first. When he speaks, the wind will change ... but ... ",that is, to remind you of the need for improvement. And when you say love words, you don't need to improve, what you want is to listen.

I am holding a chestnut. A person has freckles on his face, which do you prefer?

A. "Although you are beautiful, you have freckles on your face."

B. "Although you have freckles on your face, you still look so charming."

The answer of normal people is definitely B. A focuses on freckles and shortcomings, which makes people always think about what that freckle looks like. And B's focus and advantages on the whole often make people ignore that little imperfection, and the mood is naturally good.

In fact, this last point applies not only to falling in love, but also to any time when a good relationship needs to be established. Try it and you will know how useful this is.

Sharing and talking can bring happiness. I'm a counselor. I'm waiting for you to talk at 7-up.