Can you not ask someone to wait on you when you are confined? What should I pay attention to?

Wen Jing Ma Jing said the original content.

In the morning, one of the mothers said that she had just given birth to her second child for five days, and her husband was going to work in a few days, and she had to go by herself for the rest of the day? Deal with it? Then, a mother in the group suggested that she take a month off and take care of her for half a month. After all, she just gave birth to a baby and is still very weak. What if she falls behind? Moon disease? It is oneself who suffers.

In fact, I often write articles on the topic of maternity, and many new mothers leave messages under the articles. Nobody takes care of you during confinement, that is, you take care of yourself and your baby. See such comments, Ma Jing still very distressed these mothers. After all, I have given birth to children myself, and I can understand how tired it is to be left unattended during confinement.

Can I leave it unattended during confinement? As a woman and mother, Ma Jing's answer is: No.

As the author of "Maternal and Child Science", Ma Jing's answer is still: No.

First of all, why do you need someone to take care of you during confinement?

Just gave birth to a baby, those days in the hospital:

Most new mothers are lying in bed with intravenous drip, and nothing else can do. New mothers need new fathers to take care of them. Besides the new mother, they also need to take care of the baby. If they are hungry, urinate every day or have to take a bath, they will be very busy. But in the hospital these days, even without the care of the elderly or other family members, it's okay to have nurses or caregivers to take care of them, and I can barely cope.

After leaving the hospital and going home:

It is difficult for new fathers to take care of their mothers and babies, and some new fathers need to go to work because maternity leave is not that long.

Then you can't leave a new mother to take care of yourself and the baby. After all, having a baby is a ... exhausting gas and damaging essence? However, the new mother will be very weak after delivery. In addition, newborns will frequently breastfeed, change diapers and even cry after birth. Newborn babies need almost one person to take care of their food, drink and sleep. If new mothers only take care of themselves and their babies, they will be very tired, let alone eat several meals a day during confinement. That new mother can't do it alone.

Therefore, no matter from which angle, Ma Jing feels that the new mother needs someone to take care of her during the second month. It's best not to be brave, or she and the baby will suffer in the end.

Second,? Who will take care of it during confinement? This question will be decided during pregnancy!

Of course, having children is not a woman's business, but a couple's and even a family's business. Therefore, during pregnancy, it is necessary to discuss things during the second month in advance. It is best for the elderly from both sides of the family to see which one is convenient to take care of, or both elderly people can come (provided that possible conflicts are considered). Be sure to discuss with your husband and the elderly on both sides before making a decision.

If, for various reasons, both elderly people can't come, or there are elderly people to take care of but they are in poor health, it is best to take a month's leave and take care of them at the same time. Although it costs some money, the family can save trouble and take better care of them.

If the family conditions are good and the elderly are healthy, it is also possible to ask the new moon to take care of them. As long as the division of labor is arranged, who is responsible for taking care of the baby and the new postpartum mother, who is responsible for buying food and cooking, and so on. So that both the new mother and the baby can be taken good care of.

If there are no elderly people on both sides, the family conditions are not very good, and they can't afford the new moon, it is best for the husband or other relatives in the family to take turns to take care of them, and it is easy to stick to the past month. Ma Jing still doesn't advise new mothers to take care of themselves and their babies in the next month, so the chances of getting sick in the next month will be very high, which will affect their health for life.

What do new mothers need to pay attention to when they are confinement? 1. Get more rest

You must pay attention to rest during confinement. Only enough rest is conducive to the recovery of postpartum body. Only when the new mother has a good rest can she take better care of her baby and ensure that there is enough breast milk to ensure breastfeeding. However, although we need more rest, we should not just lie in bed, but get out of bed properly, which is conducive to the discharge of lochia and the improvement of physical function.

Scientific diet

The diet in the second month is also very important. It is necessary to ensure adequate and scientific nutrition, ensure the physical recovery of new mothers, and ensure breastfeeding.

The whole should be light and soft, and the meat and vegetables should be well matched. It is best to have some soup with every meal, but avoid the tonic of big fish and big meat with every meal. This will not only easily block the breast and lead to mastitis, but also make the new mother obese after delivery, which is not conducive to the recovery of the body.

3. Do a good job of keeping warm

When the baby was born, the pores were also in a state of expansion for a period of time because the seam was opened. During the confinement period, the new mother's body did not fully recover, and she was prone to catch a cold and have a moon disease.

Therefore, we must pay attention to keep warm during the month, and avoid the exposed skin from catching cold, otherwise it will easily cause joint pain and local skin numbness. You can wear long-sleeved nursing pajamas, and you can change clothes when you feed your baby at night.

Stay happy

During confinement, I can't go out for a month, and I have to take care of my baby day and night. Coupled with the pain of the wound, many new mothers are exhausted. Without the care and care of family members, new mothers are prone to be in a bad mood and often cry secretly, resulting in loneliness, anxiety and fear, which is very unfavorable to postpartum physical recovery, postpartum breastfeeding and baby's mental health.

Therefore, as a new father and family, we must pay more attention to the emotional changes of the new mother, care more about the new mother, and communicate more when there are problems. New mothers should also learn to adjust their emotions, be optimistic, don't entertain foolish ideas and add pressure to themselves.

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