Written to the male gods of 1995

If you are a man, you must work hard to stand up

——To all the boys in Class 95

Two days have passed since Boys’ Day, and my heart is still a long time away Unable to calm down, I got up from the quilt at four o'clock in the morning and wrote an article for you, all the male idols of my class of Class 95.

I will never forget Jiang Zhihao telling his father’s hard work word for word, walking back and forth on the scaffolding time and time again, and finally fainted as soon as he walked in the door on a hot summer afternoon; I will never forget Yang Baokai He seemed calm but actually had an "undercurrent" to describe his mother's condensed brows and his father's silence during an operation. He felt that he was alienated from his parents in daily life. When he tried to build a closer relationship with his parents, they were frustrated because of labor It was too hard to care about communicating with him; I will never forget Qin Chong happily describing to us all the interesting things in his hometown when he was a child. Later, because he missed his father, he followed his father to the working place where his father worked alone when he was 18 years old. ——We here, despite all the discomforts after coming here, we quickly made good friends. As we grew older, we gradually understood the courage and responsibility of my father; I can’t forget that our squad leader Cao Hongwei used personal experience to tell us not to complain. With his sunny thinking, he was once troubled by the family atmosphere of poor relationship between his parents. Finally, through his mother's self-reflection, he realized that he should not complain and face life positively. The squad leader of Cao University also formally challenged his weaknesses and asked his classmates to supervise his Performance in all aspects...

My classmates and teachers, I am so touched that you finally have "people" in your eyes and hearts, and you finally see the hardships of your parents and the difficulty of life. Teacher, I am still touched because of the true feelings you dare to show in front of the teacher in front of the classmates. I am thinking, what a good child, so affectionate and righteous!

Every student has a story, and each of you has two worlds.

What I usually see is that Jiang Zhihao is very talkative. The teacher said that he will add a filler that he thinks is humorous, and he will not stop until the whole class laughs. As class committee members, Cao Hongwei and Hang Chunyang often couldn't control themselves. They would say something bad from time to time, which made them lack Ruoxu's prestige. Hou Xiaofan couldn't listen to the teacher's persuasion, didn't like to do homework, and the quality of the homework was not good, wasting his mental talent; Chen Huajun was too silent, Li Nanxing was shy and not very lively; Qin Chong was just the opposite no matter what time. Dynamic; Sang Peilin is in his own world at all times, as if the network cable has been pulled out, and he has lost communication with the outside world. Even if he is harassed by his deskmate, he will never fight back or retaliate. As for homework, , write it when you remember it, but don't write it if you can't remember it. It's like a secret code and it's hard to decipher. Li Dingtao is amazing. He stares at his classmates intently in class or immerses himself in private work, giving him a very profound feeling. Zhao Nan is close to the podium, and the podium becomes his "shield". He directly immerses himself in it, acting as a "shield" for him. "Invisible Man", in fact, he is not the only "Invisible Man", Li Hongjie is also one, there seems to be no difference with him or without him in the class; Wu Tangwei is cute, but it's a pity that his grades can't improve; Liu Tian looks very smart, that's the word, look It was very uncomfortable to sit down; Jiang Chenghai, a curse word on the first day of school made people angry; He Jiajun, not serious, always made mistakes when dictating. Yu Jun is not practical enough or hardworking enough. Gu Xingchi always seems to focus on having fun. As for Shao Tianyi, if he doesn't do "business" every day, he has to go to the next class to chat with classmate Gao. That is an unbeatable thing...

This Is it the truth? For these teachers, with many years of teaching experience, of course not, or not entirely.

To give two examples, Li Nanxing is shy. After class, he chats and laughs with his classmates. Everyone also likes to play with him, which shows that he is very popular! Sometimes there is a kind of natural fun in playing around and wrestling.

Gu Xingchi, seemingly carefree, stayed at the end after evening self-study and closed the teacher's door and window.

Yang Baokai used to be honest and like a "boring gourd", but when he performed the skits he was really impressive! He has ideas and creativity, and always makes people see his difference.

Qin Chong, this is the person with the highest “listing” rate since the formation of our class, no one. Students mentioned it in their diaries, in class committee reports, and other teachers. Some students actually said: If you want to manage the class well, you must first manage Qin Chong well. What Qin Chong is best at is "soft resistance", neither replying nor executing.

However, as a class teacher, I just like him because he is sunny. You can see him standing on the podium, eloquent, natural and generous, with his own light. In physical education class and sports meeting, he was flexible and could move up and down. He never pretends, he is always truthful. He is also aware of his restless pursuit of "freedom" and promises to change it. How wonderful!

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What I want to say is that in fact, each of you is unique. Some of you have been understood and some have not been discovered. It doesn’t matter. What’s important is Yes, you are who you are and you are fighting for your own change.

In fact, some changes are easy to talk about but difficult to do. Just like me, when many people are sleeping soundly in bed, I am typing on the keyboard about you. text.

We meet by fate. Like your parents, I hope that our men will grow up quickly, not grow crooked, and follow the sunshine.

I hope that you will live a fulfilling life every day and make yourself more responsible; I hope that you will be more motivated to run and exercise every day, without bowing your head or talking; I hope that our men will be cleaning and other classes You must rush to show your gentlemanly demeanor when doing things; I hope that you can truly integrate into each other and contribute your own strength to every aspect of the class. In the future, when you recall, you will not be a blank in the minds of your classmates; I hope that you can be more considerate of you. Because she is already a middle-aged woman and has a lot of busy things to do every day. Please also leave her some warm memories and a reason to hug her on the graduation anniversary in the future; I also hope that all our men can have good health. Use your strong shoulders and resilient hearts to cover your parents' future and make a positive contribution to society.

Children, I still want to write. Time is running out. At dawn, I have to go to work. I hope that you will become better and better every day!

Finally: work hard. If you are a man, you must stand up hard. Only when you stand up can others see you!