This marriage is not bad.

90% of the conflicts between husband and wife are due to the fact that men can't talk (1). Recently, a fan complained to me that his wife was not sensible. He said that his wife recently felt that she was too busy to accompany her, didn't take care of the children, and forgot her birthday, so she had a quarrel. I asked him, "Then why don't you spend more time with your wife and children and forget her birthday?" Xiaojun replied impatiently: "I am exhausted, too, and she is making trouble there." Don't I work for this family? " I asked, "Do you always talk to your wife like this when you quarrel?" He nodded.

At that moment, I understood his wife's difficulties. So I gave him an analysis: "In fact, your wife also wants you to go back and spend more time with her. Remember her birthday, you should coax her according to her words and promise her to come back early next time to accompany her and remember her birthday. This kind of communication makes both of them very happy. " Men who don't coax their wives have low emotional intelligence. Leaves will not turn yellow one day, and people will not get cold one day. This is an ordinary little thing. Every little makes a mickle. If you save enough disappointment, you will lose your marriage. Wives are for coaxing, not for yelling. It is a blessing for a family to have a man who knows how to coax his wife.

Love is evenly matched, and I gave up on my own initiative (1). There is a very popular story in Weibo. When the husband and wife played chess, she always cheated, so he asked her to play, and finally she won. The next day, my wife was in a happy mood, doing housework, talking and laughing until she went to bed at night. So the man summed up the classic law: home is not a place to reason; Everything goes well at home and wins in harmony; It is important to control emotions; Good communication is the cornerstone of happiness.

Rules are dead, people are alive, and men who reason with their wives have serious IQ problems. The best way to solve family conflicts is to coax the wife first, make way for her, make her happy, and the marriage will naturally be happy. Don't leave the truth to her, give her love and understanding. Women don't want much. I hope you have a good attitude after your quarrel, and a warm word is enough. What a woman wants is that her husband is mainly soft when quarreling, and her husband really knows and loves his inner fragility.

Iverson was wronged in the office and complained to her husband. She said, "Oh, I'm so angry. How can there be such a person? " Her husband also scolded: "What kind of person is this?" Scold it back next time you hear it! "Xiao Ai said," well, forget it. Contradictions hinder the later work, which is not good. "Her husband touched her head and said," It's okay. If you really feel wronged, come to me and scold me. "Little moxa was out of breath after hearing it, and then she was very happy talking and laughing with her husband at night.

You see, sometimes, small things can be coaxed. Don't try to solve them by reasoning. When a man coaxes his wife, her negative emotions will dissipate and the atmosphere of the whole family will be warm. The best love is nothing more than you crying to coax me and teasing me. I share your sadness: I share your happiness. A man who knows how to love his wife will learn to put aside his reason and self-esteem and coax her.

Once Mark Chao went to Happy Camp, He Jiong asked him, "What would you do if Gao Yuanyuan was angry?" He replied that, basically, she was not angry. He Jiong then asked, is that really angry? Mark Chao replied: "If she is angry, I have nothing to coax." Male compatriots must know that when treating their wives, they must not be reasonable or coaxed. Home is a place of love, not a place of reason. A good marriage lies not in winning or losing, but in happiness. Marriage is both complicated and simple. Quarrel is inevitable, and the most important thing is to look at the attitude after the quarrel.

What I fear most is that men argue for right and wrong, make sense, and then blame women for being unreasonable. Women are angry like children, just coax them. Usually say more compliments: "Wife, why do you say you are so smart?" "Smart is smart, but you have to be so beautiful." When the wife is angry, she will say something gentle: "Good boy, shall we not be angry?"? If you are angry, you will become ugly. " Or buy her buy buy: "I'll buy you the lipstick box you mentioned last time. Don't be angry! " "Please eat ice cream, hot pot, fried chicken ... take it easy!" What's better than being reasonable and scolding each other?

In a happily married family, there has always been a man who knows how to coax his wife. He will put down his self-esteem and say a few words when he has problems with his wife.

Say sorry, then say something sweet: he will complain to him with his wife. Unite with his wife and share the same enemy; He will accompany, comfort and encourage his wife when she complains. ...

There is a saying: "Love is like this. Although it is meaningless in itself, it is because of it that many meaningless things become meaningful.

Because of love, I am willing to be the Lord, which brings two hearts closer together. May you meet a lover, fireworks, mountains and rivers are far and wide, his heart is you, his eyes are you, everything to him is you, and everything to him is you.